Family Heirlooms

by Rhoda on July 31, 2009

in Decorating Details

Today, I’m joining Marie for an Heirloom Party, not that I have many heirlooms, and actually I have few things that could be considered heirlooms by definition, but I thought it would be fun to share a couple of my family treasures with all of you too.  These things that came from my paternal grandma, who has been gone for many years now.

Neither side of my family had much growing up.  In fact, if we had grown up back during the Old South plantation days, instead of being like Scarlett O’Hara’s family in Gone With the Wind with all their beautiful finery, big plantation home, filled with fine furniture, I’m quite sure my family would have been living in the sharecropper’s cottage. :)   We just don’t come from a lot of material wealth.  And that’s OK too.  I’ve mentioned before that I had to buy someone else’s family history as I’ve collected my own antique pieces, so now I suppose I can call them my own heirlooms now.

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When my Dad’s mom passed away, he was able to get just a couple of things from her house (he had a lot of sisters), so there are only 2 furniture pieces that he brought home and then passed on to me, when I expressed interest in them.  First, this little side table. I can remember seeing this table in my Grandma’s little cottage home in Panama City, FL and when we would visit her growing up, I can still remember sleeping in a room with old armoires, feather beds, and smelling those old musty smells.

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This little side table was in her livingroom, so when my Dad gave it to me, I promised him I’d keep it and take care of it.  It’s certainly not a fine piece of furniture, I’m sure nothing she owned was expensive, but it’s very pretty to me and I treasure it because it is a part of my family heritage.  The only thing I’ve ever done to it  is give it a coat of poly for protection and it serves me well in my own livingroom.IMG_6013

This old Singer sewing machine spent many years under my parent’s stairway closet and I finally asked for it too.  I used it in my old sunroom in GA and then brought it over here, where it’s used as a side table in the beachy guestroom.

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The drawers are so pretty and I love the patina on the wood.

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The attachments are still in the drawer and I can imagine my Grandma sitting here sewing.  My Dad said she used to sew a lot on this old Singer, wonderful memories to treasure!  These are the only 2 family pieces I have.

How about you? Do you have many family heirlooms and are you making plans to pass them on to your kids or another family member?  It is so special to keep things like this in the family, don’t you think?

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It’s always fun to meet up with blog friends, new and old.  And I just met a new one this week, Renae Moore, from Renae Moore Designs.  She lives in Canton, GA (near my old hometown) and was over here getting her son settled in at Samford University and we got to meet up for coffee and a bagel at Panera.  It was so much fun, she’s a sweet person, a fellow decorator and a sister in Christ and I love that we could just sit down and get to know each other better.  We certainly had plenty to chat about.  Meeting up with blog friends is always a treat!  Renae, I look forward to getting together again.

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I’ll be at the Briarwood Flea market today around Noon if anyone else is planning to be there.  Look for me!

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1 Charla @ For the Sake of Time July 31, 2009 at 5:16 am

Rhoda – Those pieces are priceless. No amount of money can buy family memories. You can almost hear the stories the sewing machine could tell. Thanks for sharing the joy.

Charla

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2 Laurie July 31, 2009 at 7:55 am

I LOVE the sewing machine table. It’s beautiful! My Grandmother has one very similar. It sits in a unused bedroom in the back of her house. After seeing yours, I’m seriously considering asking her if I can have it.

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3 Monica July 31, 2009 at 7:55 am

Beautiful pieces. My mom has that exact same sewing machine.

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4 Tracy July 31, 2009 at 8:28 am

I so want to go to the briarwood fleamarket today. saw it on fox 6 and already spotted a couple of dishes that i would love to have. good luck. think about me while you are there.

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5 Brooke July 31, 2009 at 9:00 am

Hey Rhoda!
I once tried to find the Briarwood flea market, but couldn’t! Is it behind the summit?? Also, did you see the ad on craigslist for an estate sale in Hollywood on Saturday? It sounds like it would be a good one. Have a happy weekend!

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6 Jenny July 31, 2009 at 9:29 am

Great pieces. My Aunt and Uncle have the same Singer sewing machine table. That thing is heavy!

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7 Rhoda @ Southern Hospitality July 31, 2009 at 9:36 am

Brooke, they are advertising it at the Briarwood church on Acton Rd. I think it is in the gym maybe??

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8 Claudia July 31, 2009 at 9:54 am

Rhoda, the sewing machine table and the side table are both lovely! I love the patina on the wood. Of course, the fact that they came from family makes them precious!

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9 Tracy July 31, 2009 at 10:20 am

Your grandmother’s table may not be considered a “fine antique” in the general sense, but that its provenance is personal and meaningful to you is all that matters. In my opinion, people get way to hung up on ‘monetary’ value. Within your own family, it is a fine and priceless heirloom (and a genuinely pretty piece).

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10 Joanna July 31, 2009 at 10:21 am

Oh my goodness. My mother had that same sewing machine that once belonged to my great grandmother. Unfortunately she left it in the house we moved from when we left Alabama. We were supposed to go back and get lots of items that were left, this included and never made it.

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11 Heathahlee July 31, 2009 at 10:45 am

I do have some pieces that aren’t really worth much money, but they mean the world to me since they were my grandparents’. I have a table that looks very much like the one you have, but mine is unfinished and I’ve always been afraid of messing with it. Adding a clear coat might not be such a bad idea! : )

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12 Gail July 31, 2009 at 10:49 am

Rhoda,
My Mom has that same table. We call it the 6-Legged Table. It had orginally belonged to my Great-Grandmother and will eventually go to my sister.

Thanks for your help with my Blog!

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13 Richella at Imparting Grace July 31, 2009 at 12:18 pm

Girl, I am so with you. My grandfather WAS a sharecropper. For real. And I don’t mean my great-great-grandfather. I mean my dad’s dad. And my husband’s grandfather was a tenant farmer. My mother’s people were slightly more prosperous–her grandfather actually owned some land in Kansas. Still, my husband and I just down come from any money at all. So I joined the Heirloom Party, too, and showed one of the few things I inherited. Maybe we love our heirlooms more because we don’t have many; what do you think? And it’s nice to think that we’re now collecting some heirlooms that we’ll be able to pass down some day.

Have a great weekend!

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14 Lara Harris July 31, 2009 at 12:30 pm

Love the old sewing machines…my mother also has one, it weighs quite a bit but she’s not about to part with it!

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15 Gwen July 31, 2009 at 12:33 pm

I keep trying to wrangle the sewing machine that my mom has, just like that one, from my mom. Someday….

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16 rue July 31, 2009 at 1:18 pm

Hi Rhoda :)

Congratulations on your own website!

I love the story behind your family treasures. No matter what they cost, they’re priceless and mean so much. I think that’s true for everyone. Besides, no amount of money could make me give them up :)

hugs,
rue

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17 Marfa (Formula For A Life July 31, 2009 at 1:34 pm

Hey Rhoda, great post! You inspired me to write about my own family heirlooms. We don’t have much, as we had leave everything behind in Cuba when we left the island about 30 years ago. But my auntie brought us a few things back in 92 that belonged to my grandma, so I get to have a few things to blog about. Thanks for letting us know about the party!

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18 Nancy July 31, 2009 at 2:47 pm

Rhoda,
I always enjoy seeing the treasures from your home and how you use them in decorating. Thanks for sharing your heirlooms today!

Nancy

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19 Sheila July 31, 2009 at 5:07 pm

Hi Rhoda,
We have a few items in our family that we consider heirlooms. None of them would be considered fine antiques but to us they are priceless because of their sentimental value. One of the items is a small table that my maternal grandfather made and the second item is an old clock that belonged to my paternal grandparents. My dad passed away in March of this year and my mom has willed his WWII medals to our daughter. She is to safeguard them and will eventually pass them on to her sons/our grandsons.

Our daughter’s wedding band is actually a small diamond band that belonged to my mother-in-law. She also has her old Singer sewing machine that probably once sat on an old table very similar to yours. My husband’s father used to play the fiddle and to this day our daughter proudly displays his old fiddle on her mantle. The strings are old and broken but because it belonged to her grandfather (whom she never met) it means that much more to her.

Thanks for reminding me of the true value of family heirlooms even if monetarily they are not considered as such. TFS! Sheila

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20 Jane July 31, 2009 at 5:31 pm

Your grandmother’s table is so pretty, and I love the singer sewing machine cabinet. You’ve accessorized it so nicely.

It’s nice that you were able to get together with Ranae! How fun!

Jane

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21 myra July 31, 2009 at 6:02 pm

I am always inspired when I stop by your blog. It makes me feel warm and cozy. Thanks for sharing your creativity and for inspiring all who stop by

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22 Marie July 31, 2009 at 6:06 pm

Hello Rhoda – thank you for joining the party! I am in love with your two heirloom pieces. First, that little table is beautiful. I like the lines in the wood and pretty spindly legs. And that sewing machine is so sweet. My favorite part is the design on the drawers. So neat.

Blessings,
Marie

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23 Andrea at Opulent Cottage July 31, 2009 at 6:35 pm

The sewing table is just precious! And I love what you said about buying someone else’s family history — that’s what I have to do, also!
Cheers, Andrea

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24 marian July 31, 2009 at 6:40 pm

what an adorable sidetable..treadle machines are my weakness!

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25 Debbie July 31, 2009 at 6:49 pm

Great pieces of furniture! Love the patina on the sewing machine too! :)

Debbie

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26 grannyann July 31, 2009 at 7:41 pm

I do have some and one of these days when I take stuff off them I will snap a pic or two.

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27 Kathi July 31, 2009 at 7:48 pm

Hi Rhoda! I want to know if you were aware that your beautiful blog is #5 on the list of most popular Lifestyle Blogs!! Congratulations!

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28 Lisa July 31, 2009 at 9:08 pm

Love your family pieces..To me some of the greatest family pieces are not those things that are worth thousands…it’s those things that you have watched your grandma’s used everyday..or those pieces that have been in a living room or where ever that are probable not worth much but they bring back memories…for example..I got my grandma’s corn dish that she made gravy in for dinner…not worth much but to me..it is..or the apple cookie jar that I look at everyday…not worth thousands..but to me me it is…I love those kind of things..I would take those things anyday over any amount of money..thanks for sharing..

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29 Susie Harris July 31, 2009 at 9:20 pm

Hehe…I think if I would have been born back the too……we would have been neighbors! That would have been fun!

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30 Yansy July 31, 2009 at 9:41 pm

The sewing machine table is amazing. My grandmother has a similar one that I’ve always admired. Also, I wanted to invite you to participate in my giveaway. It started today and it will go on until Monday. Good Luck!

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31 Mary July 31, 2009 at 10:44 pm

Rhoda, I’ve really enjoyed your story and pictures today. My family upbringing was similar – our wealth was measured in love, not things, but the “things” that you do have are beautiful heirloom pieces and I’m so glad you have them. Hope your week-end is wonderful!

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32 Kennesha July 31, 2009 at 10:55 pm

Rhoda! I love that table and enjoyed reading your story…hope you had fun today at the market. Loves and hugs to you…

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33 Bill @ Affordable Accoutrements July 31, 2009 at 11:39 pm

Hi Rhoda,
Another wonderful post! Both pieces you shared today are beautiful, and I don’t think their true worth can be calculated in terms of monetary value. You collect and enhance so many things that make your home unique and special … these family pieces contribute history and character. I’m happy for you that you own them, treasure them, and display them so beautifully!

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34 Kim August 1, 2009 at 12:30 pm

I love the old sewing machine & cabinet. My hubby had the metal bottom to one but the cabinet top was missing. He made a small table out of it. I will treasure it always. I think heirlooms don’t have to be worth money. To me the family memories attached with something is what makes it an heirloom. Love yours.

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35 georgie August 1, 2009 at 12:36 pm

Your pretty furniture holds such sweet memories.
I use Nana’s Rosepoint silver every day and often look at a piece and remember family dinners and the people who have used that silver. A small jointed figure my Dad hand carved for his Mom in the 1940s. It looks like Loretta Young, complete with stilletto heels and a fancy dress. The steam launch remote control ship model, complete with engine that he made in the 1980s and named after me. Oh, and the plug Grandpa’s unused chewing tobacco. Grandma kept it for 40 years and when she died, it came to me. I can’t bear to throw it away. Inherited objects can be treasures emotionally and not worth anything financially.

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36 joni webb August 1, 2009 at 2:48 pm

I love Renae – she always leaves such wonderful comments on my blog – I would have loved to have joined you too and added some Jewish “spice” to the conversation! haha!!!!!!! I’m a sister in Christ because he was Jewish too and we do share the First Testament. ok, enough religion for a Saturday morning.

Y’all look so pretty too!!! wish I was there.
Joni

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37 Melanie August 1, 2009 at 4:16 pm

Rhoda, I just had to comment! Several years ago, we were in need of a small table for our formal living room. I had inherited a Gone with the Wind lamp, and wanted a table for it. We saw an ad for tables that someone was selling. We went there and bought two little tables from a lady. One of the tables had belonged to the lady’s grandmother, and it had always held a vase of fresh flowers. I bought the two tables, and even though I am a do-it-yourselfer, and had refinished furniture, for some strange reason I was compelled to have the table professionally refinished. I was glad I did. The professional completely transformed it, and though the table was old, it looked new. It looks exactly like the table you show here, that you promised your dad you would take care of. I just think it is ironic that you and I have the exact table, and that my table did not look anything like it does now, and that I feel a calling to take extra care of it.

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38 Teresa August 1, 2009 at 6:55 pm

It is a rainy day here in La and I have enjoyed some blog reading….So glad I stopped by yours. I always enjoy my stops at your blog…..Have a wonderful Sunday.

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39 caren August 1, 2009 at 11:42 pm

I love the drawers on the Singer sewing machine stand. Such detail! I love the sentimental value your pieces have for you – they are the best!

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40 Jodie August 25, 2009 at 1:02 pm

Rhoda.. I love the family heirlooms and wish I had more of my own. My dad inherited his aunt’s house and contents when she passed away about 8 years ago. He recently led me on a tour of the inside where I found treasures galore. There were buffets, china, display cases, a dining room table and chairs and the bedroom suit he had as a child. Everything was antique and had been sitting there for yeras and years. Imagine my surprise and excitement and then my feeling of Now what? All of these pieces need to be refurbished and cleaned up. Do you have any suggestions on how to find the right person for the job? I know there are many people who could take on the project but would probably charge an arm and a leg. I’m trying to figure out where to start. I live in Montgomery and my dad is about an hour south. Any suggestions? Thank you so much!

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41 Melesa Garrison May 24, 2010 at 2:01 pm

I think your blog should be #1, not #5…I love your style and how you present everything…I feel like I’m with you in your home and you are giving me a personal tour. You are doing a most excellent job! Sincerely, MG

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