Those Simple Pleasures in Life

by Rhoda on November 5, 2009

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Something to ponder…

With our economy in the tank and things looking pretty bleak out on the job front and in our own pocketbooks these days, what is the one little thing that you do that gives you a big dose (or a little dose) of pleasure?  Something that doesn’t cost a lot?

For me, it’s my morning cup of cappuccino that I mix up myself.

I hardly darken the doors of Starbuck’s ever anymore.  Oh, it’s a treat to go there occasionally, but at almost $5 bucks a cup, just not worth it.  My hubby loves the bean grinder I brought home from a yardsale and so every morning, I hear the whirrrrrr of that little gadget as it grinds up the morning beans for our java.

It’s not a real cappuccino, but it’s close enough for me.  I buy flavored syrups by Torani and have them around for my coffee treat and those various flavored creamers that are in the dairy case these days.  Caramel Machiatto, White Chocolate Mocha, Italian Cream, all of those make me giddy to have my morning cuppa and I flavor it up just for me. I use my Goodwill Italian frother to foam up some skim milk to go on top and add a dose of cinnamon-sugar.   Ahh, pure bliss! :)

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And how about something as simple as lighting a pretty candle on the table for dinner?  I left these out from our little dinner party the other night and decided to just light the cute thing and enjoy it for ourselves.

Now that’s simple!

How about you?  Let’s start a list that we can all refer back to.  What is your simple and maybe inexpensive little pleasure that makes life enjoyable for YOU right now?

In spite of the economy, those trials and tribulations that we all have, and even the stormy weather some days?

Do tell?

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1 Suzan November 5, 2009 at 4:39 am

My simple pleasures:
A bath by candle light
Pouring a glass of wine into a fancy, schmancy wine glass when I am all alone
Stopping by the grocery store for a $5 bunch of flowers that usually last for a week and make me so happy!
Using the “good” china and my sterling silver flatware for an every night kind of dinner

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2 Holly November 5, 2009 at 5:03 am

Buying a more expensive cut of meat when it is on sale and having a special meal instead of going out to eat and paying for a tip and the extra costs. Did you know that beef tenderloin is cut into filet mignon steaks? I just learned that!

Making yummy pies/cakes/cookies, etc. with the kids.

Bringing in nature to decorate. Go on a walk and pick up acorns, pinecones, colored leaves, sticks and add these to tabletop arrangements.

Finding a good book or magazine at a yard sale or thrift store. Definitely under $1 and time for me to just zone out in “me time.”

Renting a Red Box $1 movie, popping some popcorn, and cuddling under a warm blanket in the dark.

Sewing a patchwork scarf in seasonal colors. Making a new bag out of scrap materials. I look for sheets and cuts of fabric at thrift stores to use in sewing. You find a lot of great prints and the sheets are so big you have a lot of fabric.

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3 Missy November 5, 2009 at 6:18 am

My coffee in the morning (I buy Starbucks brand – they have on the bag now “If you buy a bag – bring it in and get a free cup at your local Starbucks) and I love that!

Going to the library and getting a good book to read. So much better that buying a book that will sit on your shelf afterwards.

Nice warm bath & then afterwards, I do a mani/pedi on myself. I definitely save money that way.

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4 Silke November 5, 2009 at 6:47 am

Finding good books to read at library sales or thrift stores. And then sitting down with it with a cup of tea and some lit candles.

A bath by candle light.

Taking time for myself – maybe a facial mask, giving myself a manicure or putting extra thought into what I am going to wear that day (maybe even combining old clothes to make a new outfit).

I love this post! I was just thinking last night how sometimes life can move way too fast and we actually do and have too much. I thought how nice it will be today to just slow down and truly enjoy what I already have. Your post is a great inspiration for that!!

Thanks, Silke

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5 Astrid November 5, 2009 at 7:27 am

About two years ago we bought a cheap pump espresso maker. That little coffee maker squirts out better coffee than what I can buy at Starbucks (okay…so I do know how to use it…burned coffee & milk taste nasty). I love, love, love being able to make fancy coffee drinks at home. We usually only make them on the weekends but they’re oh so good!

My garden is the one of my little pleasures. I filled up my window boxes …it costs a small fortune to properly load them up and make them look nice. It’s so worth it to me though. Everything else can be rotten and falling apart but at least I have flowers (or had…fall has taken away most of my flowers).

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6 Jennifer @ Fiddle Dee Dee November 5, 2009 at 7:36 am

WIth three kids pulling me 100 different directions and a hubby who travels all the time I look forward to the simple pleasures. My big one right now is cherishing an actual night at home….cooking supper for the family, sending the kids to bed (or at least in their rooms) early, lighting a candle (midsummers night by Yankee Candle or High maintenance by Tyler candles are my favorite), playing some Harry Connick, Jr., Michael Buble’ or Barbara Streisand in the background and reading a book while sipping coffee with Southern butter pecan cream.

Ahhhh…it’s simple, relaxing, and can be recreated over and over as the cost is definitely minimal.
I love reading everyone’s simple pleasures. We live in such a hectic world it is nice we can find these.

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7 Marty November 5, 2009 at 7:43 am

My little pleasure is finding things to use in my home at Goodwill. I had never shopped at GW until a few months ago, now it’s my favorite haunt. Hugs, Marty

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8 Stacey November 5, 2009 at 7:52 am

I never take my first cup of coffee in the morning for granted. :) It’s always a simple pleasure.

I’m really enjoying the softness of the light that comes into my house this time of year. It’s beautiful in the fall. I’m enjoying the mild temperature, beautiful leaf colors, birds singing, and the sound of the waterfall in our pond.

A couple of days ago I enjoyed my first piece of pumpkin pie of the season.

Great post Rhoda. I’ll be back later to read more. :)

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9 Pat@Back Porch Musings November 5, 2009 at 8:18 am

Hi Rhoda
I wrote about simple country pleasures, yesterday! :-)

Morning coffee, is one of those wonderful simple pleasures at our house, too.

My favorites simple pleasure is watching the sun rise, whether at home or our place at the lake. It doesn’t cost a cent and never fails to please, whether the weather. The dawning of a new day. Beautiful!

Great post!

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10 Lisa November 5, 2009 at 8:35 am

I’ve recently dusted off my breadmaker. Last weekend I used it to make cinnamon rolls that were divine! I also made two loaves of bread that we’ve used for sandwiches.

I love my CDs and candles, and using the herbs from my little garden.

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11 Lisa November 5, 2009 at 8:38 am

A hot tub and a new bar of Ivory Soap (it floats!) with some classical music playing. It’s good to be clean!

Going through a stack of old magazines and enjoying them all over again.

The unconditional love of pets.

A walk.

Rhoda’s Blog – love it

Have a great day, Lisa

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12 morgan November 5, 2009 at 8:49 am

Showering, exfoliating, conditioning, shaving, manicuring and pedicuring, moisturizing and tweezing without any interruptions! With three girls 5 years old and under, this hardly ever happens, but when it does, I ENJOY it!

Also, freshly washed, high quality sheets (bought on deep discount) that have been scented with softener or linen spray…putting my freshly washed body into a freshly made bed is a an incredible luxury that I know I’m blessed to enjoy.

Other little pleasures, quiet time to read my Bible or pray alone, working in my gardens, books and magazines (thrifted, of course), kisses from my babies, time with my hunny, baking my own bread.

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13 santamaker November 5, 2009 at 9:00 am

What a great post, Rhoda. I remember a commercial when I was a kid for Van Camps pork n beans…”live’s little pleasures are the best..all the little things that make you smile”… Now, pork and beans would not be on my list, but since my girls are in dental school and I’m an empty nester, I would say, picking up my little warm fuzzy ball of fur yorkie, Duchess and giving her a good morning hug would be one of my favorite simple pleasures. Calling up a neighbor and getting out for a walk in this crisp fall air is another…
I’m coming back to see all the great little cheap thrills others come up with!

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14 Kathryn@Bonafide Southern November 5, 2009 at 9:03 am

Rhoda, I also love simple pleasures in life. Freshly laundered linens are one of my favorites. Straight vacumn cleaner lines on the carpet. Alone time when I can do anything I’d like to do. Time with my husband. Cooking supper for my family. It’s the simple things in life that really make it special, isn’t it? Thanks for this post and reminding us to slow down in life and treasure these moments.

I’ll be coming to Birmingham tomorrow (Friday) for Christmas Village at the BJCC. Have you ever been? My mother, sister, and I go every year and always look forward to it. And a day off of work is just an added bonus! :) If you attend, perhaps I’ll run into you. Have a great rest of the week!

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15 mary kay November 5, 2009 at 9:07 am

Hi Rhoda. I have been following your blog for about a year, but this is the first time I am finally leaving a comment. I so enjoy your blog. This is a great post with great comments. We have a fire ring in our backyard that my husband made seveal years ago of leftover landscaping rocks. After dinner we love to light a fire and have a glass of wine or a martini while sitting in adirondack chairs around the fire. No tv, no phones. Ahhh.

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16 Calliope November 5, 2009 at 9:14 am

Finding dirt cheap accessories for my home and altering them to suit my needs/taste
Making pizza for my family
Lighting the bazilions of candles that I have in my house
Lying on my bed with a few magazines and a pot of apple flavored tea
Playing or reading to my everlasting love, my son
Going to the movies with my husband (w the extra-large popcorn pls)
Sitting in front of the fireplace
Hmmm….You just made me realise how MUCH I love spending time at home….!

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17 Carolee November 5, 2009 at 9:17 am

Hi Rhoda,

This time of year, I love getting up early while it’s still somewhat dark and having my coffee by candlelight. It’s such a peaceful way to ease into the day.

I love your blog and have checked it every day for over a year now. Keep up the great work! :-)

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18 REbekah November 5, 2009 at 9:27 am

Hi, Rhoda! Well, you hit the nail on the head on lighing candels. I have been doing that just about every night for my family ….even last night when it was cup-o-noodles and grilled cheese! My kids just love it!
Oh and I love costume jewerly! I found this fabulous ‘saphire and diamond’ pin at GW a few weeks ago for $3! You should see it!!! its beautiful and a bit gaudy…just how I like it!! Even better then the real thing!! LOL!!!

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19 Rachel November 5, 2009 at 9:33 am

My big thing right now, aside from occasionally thrifting, is to make myself a chocolate coffee drink. It doesn’t really have a ‘name’, it’s just some chocolate fudge brownie ice cream, blended with some chocolate coffee that has had a chance to cool down. I don’t really like coffee, in and of itself, so Starbucks has not ever been a big “thing” for me…but their bottled frappuchinos were an especially nice part of traveling (one of the larges will keep me going for a couple of hours, lol). So this is my compromise…chocolate, caffeine, and tasty. Yum.

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20 Kimm at Reinvented November 5, 2009 at 9:35 am

A cup of homemade Chai tea and a candle burning in a clean house is enough for me. I also love to “shop” my house and just change something up a bit in the decor. It feels fresh and new and full of possibility for free. Also, the feeling that I’ve made someone else day better, whether it is a member of my family, a patient at work, or a neighbor or friend, there’s real satisfaction in helping others. Thanks Rhoda!

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21 pk November 5, 2009 at 9:36 am

My big mug of Chai Tea (Mystic Chai from Sam’s Club) every morning. It’s not just the taste, but something about holding that big steaming mug of yumminess is relaxing. Sitting on the sunporch on Sunday mornings reading the newspaper with my husband (with my chai tea). (we have church on Saturday evening – can you tell I’m a PK? had to clarify that I AM going to church LOL) Have a great day!
pk @ Room Remix

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22 Carmen November 5, 2009 at 10:00 am

I’d have to say I light candles. That always makes it feel a little more homey and special at our house. And I buy the inexpensive candles from Walmart. And you know what? They smell just as good (actually better) as Yankee Candle. Mmmmmmm cappuccino. :)

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23 Sandy B November 5, 2009 at 10:07 am

Just having a rich dark roast cup of coffee with cream is a big treat for me — I’m very sensitive to caffine so I can’t drink it often. As well, I either make my own scones or buy a decadent pastry from my favorite French pastry chef (Julian). Then I tuck up with a magazine (from my stack that I continually buy from the thrift stores) and savor my snack.

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24 Toni November 5, 2009 at 10:16 am

-Having flavored creamers for my coffee.
-A cup of Russian Tea (from a dry mix I put together).
-Using a recently purchased body pouf from Target (about $1.99) to make my Ivory soap really lather up and make me feel decadent.
-Eating outside on the patio and enjoying the afternoon/evenings.
-Grilling chicken wings and watching Alabama football (hubby is a grad of Bama; I went to Clemson, but am a Bama fan too!).
-Checking out books and magazines from the library.
-Listening to my iPod.
-Making those Pillsbury cookies (the kind already in little round balls) with my son who has autism.
-Homeschooling my daughter.

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25 Tabitha November 5, 2009 at 10:20 am

Especially now with all the beautiful fall foliage…I love to load the kids up and go driving around remote dirt roads close to home. It’s just so serene to see the sunlight filtering through the brilliantly colored fall leaves. It’s even fun in the summertime…stopping by the river to dip our feet in the cold water and splash about.

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26 cari November 5, 2009 at 10:26 am

I so needed this post today! I forget how wonderful the most simple things in life can be! My favorite simple pleasure are:
A cup of hot chocolate from McDonald’s. With a $1 off coupon it only cost me around a $1.25 and its so yummy!!!
A clean house
Curling up on the couch with a People magazine. My mom buys me a subscription every year for my birthday.
The smile on my sweet little boy’s face every morning.
Taking my son to the park in our neighborhood on a beautiful afternoon.

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27 Our Creative Life November 5, 2009 at 10:44 am

Let’s see, I really love buying a stack of Southern Living or any home decor magazines at a garage sale or flea market for $3 or less and then go home snugle up in my super comfy blanket & read magazines to my heart’s delight. My other comfort is my nightly bubble bath. I as well love my coffee with a dash of cinnamon..yum! Oh and listening to praise & worship always makes me happy!

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28 Meredith November 5, 2009 at 10:44 am

Hey Rhoda!
Thanks for stopping by my blog and for your kind comments! It’s so fun to stay connected with people and share decorating and other interests with each other! I loved your recent post about DIY monogram plaques! Love those! I just love doing DIY projects so it’s so fun to get new ideas!
Thanks again!

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29 gina crotts November 5, 2009 at 11:20 am

Music!
A heated blanket and a good ‘thrift’ book!

See my the post I did as well… http://www.theticklepinkthrift.blogspot.com

Thanks Rhonda for helping me start my day with ‘positive’ thoughts!!

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30 Tracy@Comfort&Luxury November 5, 2009 at 11:21 am

There have been enough times in my life when the simple (as in cheap) pleasures were all that I could afford and I learned along the way that they were the best kind anyway.
* Fresh flowers from the garden, whether it’s just one rose or a tiny bouquet of lilies.
* Finding the perfect “something” to round out a display or collection at TJMaxx or HomeGoods for hardly any $$
* Opening a cupboard or drawer that’s organized and efficient makes me sooo happy (and cost nothing to get that way!)
Those are just three but I could go on…
Nice post, Rhoda. One of the good things that’s come from this crazy economy is our collective shift in perspective. I hope the new attitudes stick around even as the economy improves.

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31 Sara McCutcheon November 5, 2009 at 11:40 am

Hey! I’m very sorry that this thank-you is so late; however, I want to thank you for the Southern Women’s Show tickets. (and the patience you had as I drove around lost) My friend and I had the BEST time with the exception of the flu I caught! I’ve still been weighing whether or not I would like to start a blog. I’m afraid I won’t have the time, not sure where to get started, etc. Before commenting, I found your post on 10 tips for beginning bloggers. It motivated me to get started. Thanks!

Simples in life:
1. Sitting in a room with no TV
2. Unplanned one-day road trips
3. Finding a store that hasn’t been “discovered” by most of the public

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32 Kate at Centsational Girl November 5, 2009 at 11:50 am

I’m like so many of these ladies. A hot bath by candlelight, a great glass of red wine, a good book, a warm throw blanket and my kids safe asleep in bed are all I need. A little dark chocolate too. Perfection ! Great post Rhoda !

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33 kathysue November 5, 2009 at 11:51 am

HI Rhoda, First I want to thank you for commenting on my home over at Joni’s blog, that was really sweet of you. My simple pleasures are like yours a good cup of coffee in the morning, I sit on my front porch and watch the sprinklers, I am easily amused. Sitting in my backyard with a glass of sparkling water with lime and a good shelter magazine and just watching all the sweet little birds. A drive to the Ocean and just sitting and watching the waves, now that is Bliss. I actually find the simple pleasures bring more contentment than what we think of as “Big or cosly Pleasures”. Love your coffee cup! Kathysue

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34 Flowersnfelines November 5, 2009 at 11:51 am

I too have been reading your blog for some time now and really enjoy all the things you write about. But, like some others, have never left a comment, until now. Simple pleasures is what my life is mainly all about. I like – to sit down at the end of a day with a good magazine (Country Sampler, Country Living, or even Better Homes & Garden), light a candle, and have some tea. Yesterday I rode in my neighbors combine when he harvested his beans ( doesn’t take much to make us country folk happy!), I learned all about the combine and the harvest. I also love music – if he would have had the radio on, I would have really been happy!! I like to mow the yard and work in my flower beds too. I was just thinking the other day – it really doesn’t take a lot of money to make me happy and I’m good with that.

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35 sondra November 5, 2009 at 12:09 pm

My simple pleasures

1. Waking up to fresh home brewed coffee.
2. A good hot shower.
3. A mid morning chocolate break – Bliss dark chocolate,please.
4. Taking time to have a morning devotional and prayer.
5. Afternoon coffee with friends.
6. A stroll through a local antique store.
7. Dinner with hubby.
8. A little extra time before bed to check a few blogs that you know are going to have some great pictures or fun stories to read.
9. Spending time playing with my dog.
10. Making some time for crafting or cooking from scratch.

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36 kathy November 5, 2009 at 12:13 pm

Great post! Aside from lighting candles and having a cup of tea at night while watching some TV, I like just having a nice, homemade dinner with my family in the dining room with nice plates and candles. I have two boys and my husband works shift work, so my life has been very hectic lately. I don’t get a chance to make a homemade dinner nearly as often as I used to, so I’m doing my best to make special meals when I have the time. And after reading your post today, I realize that just the simple act of eating together, which we no longer do so much, is one of my greatest pleasures these days. You’ve inspired me!

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37 Kathy November 5, 2009 at 12:13 pm

I can’t resist a FULL HUNTER’S MOON…and it costs the big goose egg. This past week-end we had such a windy day/night but it was in the 70′s (50′s the norm for us in Nov) hubby and I had a glass of wine out on the deck watching the clouds fly and I mean fly across the moon….it was spectacular….

I am with you on a good cup of coffee, hubby likes Starbucks but I prefer Dunkin Dounts…..we have a Keurig machine and I just love it…..I have a new Timothy’s brand that I look forward to in the am :)

Thanks Rho for a great post,
Kathy :)

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38 Sharon November 5, 2009 at 12:46 pm

My favourite thing is a fire. Lots of people have gas fireplaces now, but nothing beats a REAL fire … the smell, the crackle, getting to poke at it, even the dying embers. Sit in the family room with a tea, a book and a fire going. Who couldn’t relax!

Thanks goodness we are coming into fireplace season.

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39 Sheila November 5, 2009 at 12:46 pm

Hi Rhoda,
Being a woman who has worked outside the home for 38 years, I yearn for simplicity in my life. My home is my sanctuary and I love being able to spend a day fluffing my nest. I also immensely enjoy making homemade cards and gifts for family and friends. Nothing gives me greater satisfaction other than when someone asks “Did you make this”?

I thoroughly enjoy long afternoon drives with hubby where we meander down the roadways admiring all the lovely homes we see along the way and then maybe even finding a nice little gift shop to stop & browse through.

Two of my ultimate pleasures are spending time with my 2 small grandsons and attending Saturday evening mass. I can easily find the simplicity and peace that I search for in life while attending church. I feel safe there and can often times become filled with emotion when I look at the congregation and know that we are all there for the same reason.

Thank you Rhoda for allowing me to share some of my simple pleasures in life and as always TFS! Sheila

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40 Christina November 5, 2009 at 12:57 pm

Throwing a cinnamon stick or two into my coffee grounds. (powder cinnamon always backs up my coffee pot).

Grinding our own coffee beans for that fresher taste.

Bottles of Perrier or San Pellegrino tucked away to enjoy when the moment is right.

Taking a ride in the country.

A new audio book from the library or Librivox. If you don’t know about Librivox. It is fabulous.

Finding a new book at a booksale or yardsale. Recently we found a booksale–fill a paper grocery bag for $5.00. Heaven!

A candle that makes me wonder what is baking. Right now my indulgence is Vanilla Cupcake from Yankee Candle. approx. $1.49

Fresh new magazines to enjoy after the kiddos are in bed. Great deals on inexpensive subscriptions out there.

Netflix watch instantly or just Netflix in general. This has been a great money saver for our family—I also despise going to the video store and pondering over what to rent.

An occasional new CD (I still love CD’s)–may not sound like a cheap indulgence, but my lastest Harry Connick has been listened to a zillion times and it just makes me happy. I recently picked up a Norah Jones Cd for $1.00.

A music download for my MP3. At less than $1.00 it can brighten even the dullest day.

Warm vanilla milk. A coffee mug of milk. Add a small amount of vanilla and a little sugar. Heat and enjoy.

Obviously most of these are still indulgences. Some wouldn’t have been how I would have chosen to spend my money during the tightest years.

Love this post and reading all of the ideas.

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41 Elizabeth H November 5, 2009 at 1:36 pm

Love my coffee also. Grinding your beans rules. I also love making pizza for the family. Making the dough from scratch and adding all kinds of toppings. Candles!

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42 Natalie November 5, 2009 at 2:11 pm

I love this post!

Some simple pleasures include, a $1.00 movie from Redbox and popcorn in the luxury of my own home! Homemade cookies — yum! Having friends in for dinner rather than going out. Yardsales! Candles. Library books. The joy of using coupons! Oh, the list is endless….

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43 Sherri S November 5, 2009 at 2:40 pm

One of my favs is driving through the countryside on a beautiful day; stopping along the way to take pictures. Usually of old barns and houses!
Others include bubble baths by candlelight, baking breads and cakes. Of course, a thrill at the cheap find in GW or junk store.
A sweet phone call (to or from) a friend.

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44 Charlene November 5, 2009 at 2:49 pm

It was unexpected when my husband was laid off in January, I worked for a much larger company (we both were in insurance related careers) and we were confident my job would be ok, at least for a while longer…I was laid off in March, last day in April. We are so grateful that my husband has found another job – unfortunately it means we eventually have to move from the home and city we both love, and for a long time we will have to live apart. We are grateful though, we are doing better than many. The little pleasures I find myself enjoying – taking my son to the playground, enjoying raking leaves with him, spending more time with my parents and friends, waking up early even though I don’t have a job to go to and enjoying the quiet morning with a cup of coffee and my creme brulee creamer, reading the Bible and planning our day before he wakes up. Lighting a candle in the house (or 2 or 5!) I am actually grateful for my current unemployment – my job was too high stress and too time consuming and I was missing so much of his life – and mine. I try to focus on that, and try my hardest not to dwell on the future – to worry about what is or isn’t coming, the strains on our marriage, the move. I think this whole experience has been a huge lesson for me in trusting God when I can’t see the “how” and “when” and feel out of control. I am learning to cherish each day, but I admit I do also mourn for some of the lost plans and the harder changes face.

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45 Bridget November 5, 2009 at 2:50 pm

I’m like many of the other people…….there are so many to list!

I love being able to go for an hour run—alone! It clears my head and helps me be a better mom to my 3.

I love our little town’s new second-hand shop. There are many treasurers in there for $1!!

I also really like going through the automatic car wash. Doesn’t that sound ridiculous? We NEVER did that as kids and it’s such a luxury now, but I get a thrill every time!

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46 AnNicole@OurSuburbanCottage November 5, 2009 at 3:24 pm

Great post. I bought an Aerolatte at Bed Bath & Beyond last year, and it’s been the best investment. It’s such a treat to make my own coffee-lattes at home.

My other simple pleasures? A candle-lit shower (not a bath person), curling up on the sofa at the end of the day and watching General Hospital (yes, I boldly said “General Hospital”), cooking a nice breakfast on Sunday mornings while listening to Van Morrison….ahh, heavenly :) .

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47 sarah { abeachcottage } November 5, 2009 at 3:43 pm

ooh goodness I have lots

nice coffee like you…home made ‘restaurant’ dinners…long pamper sessions in bath….my DIY Sugar Scrub (Origins Copycat)

oh and flowers, from the garden if possible or a budget bunch then get creative with it

having less money and these times, including starting our own business in the midst of it all has actually been an interesting ride

Sarah

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48 Debra @ Bungalow November 5, 2009 at 3:43 pm

Hi Rhoda,
love all the simple pleasures mentioned but one of my favorites is that my H gets up every morning and makes coffee for me. It’s a little pampering that makes me happy. Then I’ll sit in my favorite chair and read the paper. He even brings me refills.
Another simple pleasure is pajamas. I just love my pjs.

Oh and Rhoda, another simple pleasure is knowing that Southern Hospitality is only a click away!

Come on over to grab my Thanksgiving button and spread the word, we’re gonna dish about turkey and more.

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49 Michelle November 5, 2009 at 3:46 pm

Listening to uplifting music. Taking a hike and listening for the quiet, capturing those moments of stillness in my mind. Doing Zumba! Sitting outside, around our fire pit (from a yard sale this summer), cooking up hot dogs and s’mores with the kids. Watching a Netflix movie and eating popcorn. Making a cup of coffee, making a big brunch for Sunday breakfast. Inviting family/friends over for a potluck.

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50 Debra November 5, 2009 at 4:10 pm

I am with you on the coffee. I buy flavored coffee and brew it at home. It’s nice and relaxing.

I also like to use our ‘good’ china for everyday meals.

Getting the newest books from the library.

Thanks for a fun and thoughful post!

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51 Bonnie November 5, 2009 at 4:11 pm

Hi Rhoda….For me it’s all about fragance in the house. I love the smell of candles or the little peebles you put in the vacumn or anything that you sit around to add to the home’s aroma. We have a cappucino maker & love that too….enjoy your coffee fix :)
Bonnie

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52 Carol from Indian Springs November 5, 2009 at 4:29 pm

Oh, good post Rhoda. Today I did one of my favorite things. I spent the entire day with my mom. We met for breakfast and then went to some of our favorite small stores at their Christmas Open Houses. We didn’t buy anything all day long, but had a blast getting ideas and just spending time together. Another personal favorite at home is fresh sheets. If I could do it I would have fresh sheets every night! I also love sitting in the sunroom in the evening and talking with my husband about our day. Just wonderful times.

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53 Jane @ the Borrowed Abode November 5, 2009 at 4:33 pm

A quiet weekend at home with projects to do always brings me happiness. A good cup of morning coffee while sitting at my clean desk, looking out the window and writing is also a very cheap pleasure. Cooking a good meal from scratch. Reading Jane Austen. I could go on and on, but I won’t!

Lastly, when I take the time to sit down and watch a movie, having my cat (or foster kittens) curl up in my lap – well, there’s not much cozier than a warm, fuzzy kitten with it’s purr motor rumbling. :)

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54 Lisa Lee November 5, 2009 at 6:16 pm

My favorite is an afternoon cup of tea with lots of milk and sugar, sitting at my computer and reading blogs like yours for inspiring and pretty ideas.

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55 Amber Schmidt November 5, 2009 at 6:31 pm

For me, its falling asleep with the TV on! Seriously. I love the light of the tv that is just enough to feel like an old friend’s hug but not enough to wake you from your sleep. The TV in our bedroom has a timer on it and goes off an hour or so after we fall asleep so as not to waste electricity. Weird… I know. But there is something oddly comforting about it. I can remember being a kid and leaving the TV’s on during stormy nights for weather updates. I think that is where it stems from.

Oh and a well stocked pantry of free stuff from my coupon shopping… that too! LOL

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56 Sharon November 5, 2009 at 6:34 pm

Looking through my stash of decorating magazines and books.
Enjoying my morning cup of tea while checking out the latest on my favorite blogs.
Reading the latest books by my favorite authors.
Re-reading my Miss Read books.
Reading anything!

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57 Kelly McMaster November 5, 2009 at 6:35 pm

Hi Rhoda,
Love your blog and great ideas! My secret little indulgence is a cup of coffee with half a hot cocoa packet stirred in and a scoop of vanilla ice cream on top! Yum!

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58 Paige November 5, 2009 at 6:38 pm

I love going to the library, getting new books and coming home to read. I also love lighting candles and just being still with music playing.

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59 Ann November 5, 2009 at 6:45 pm

Rhoda,
Wow, what a great post and what great food for the soul. When I read the other’s comments I realize just how many little things there are out there that bring me pleasure-what a great thing to think about. I love the look and feel of a room in my house after a deep cleaning- I could just sit and look at it for hours. A long bath and climbing into fresh bed linens makes me feel like I am the most blessed woman in the world!

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60 Katie November 7, 2009 at 1:50 am

Girl!!!!!!! I am right there with ya!!!!!!!!!! Makes ya feel like you are on vacation….!!

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61 Martha November 5, 2009 at 6:53 pm

What a lovely post. I comfort myself through background music, scented candles, special teas and coffees. I must ask:
WHERE DID YOU GET THAT GORGEOUS VOTIVE? Thanks for your time. Martha

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62 Joy November 5, 2009 at 7:35 pm

I like a new book or magazine every once in awhile. I also love candles and fresh flowers.

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63 Pat November 5, 2009 at 7:56 pm

I agree about the special coffee! I tend to have it straight in the mornings but I enjoy different flavors, creamers & cappucinos/lattes in the afternoon or evening. Candles are a staple for me and I love pleasant fragrances all through the house. I’m sensitive to certain ones and cannot use anything really sweet or strong. I love beautiful music too, especially when I’m cooking.

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64 Melissa Miller November 5, 2009 at 7:58 pm

It has to be Earl Greydecaf tea hands down.
I love the stuff. Such a light lemon flavor that just relaxes me.

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65 georgie November 5, 2009 at 8:23 pm

Going to the Goodwill on Wednesdays with Mom. That is senior discount day and she lets me put stuff in her cart and pay her back later. She always seems to be looking for a purse or sweater. I look for decor and kitchen stuff. We get to visit, laugh and find stuff inexpensively.

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66 Beth@The Stories of A to Z November 5, 2009 at 8:23 pm

A cup of chai by Stash tea with two Splenda and whipped cream, a soak in my jacuzzi tub while reading my magazines, an afternoon nap, a glass of riesling, a square of dark chile pepper chocolate by Lindt, a massage from my hubby, petting my furry Keeshond pup, and cuddling my boys before bedtime :) . These are a few of my favorite things.

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67 missmustardseed November 5, 2009 at 8:44 pm

It’s always good to get back to the basic things and simple pleasures of life. A grinder bought at a yard sale can bring just as much joy as one bought new from Macy’s.

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68 Becky November 5, 2009 at 9:52 pm

After on long day of flying, I LUV to go to my hotel room, lock the world out and take a nice hot bubble bath with the shampoo that the hotel supplies. Ahhhhhhh!

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69 Pinky November 5, 2009 at 9:55 pm

At this time of year, I have a small pumpkin candle here on my desk to enjoy, WARMED apple wine (sometimes with a dollop of whipped cream!!!!), blueberries on my cereal (even though they are WAAAAY too expensive right now). I also love to set my table and have friends over for dinner. LOve it! And best of all, my SOFT throw that I sleep with when it is cold. XO, Pinky

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70 Joyce Ackley November 5, 2009 at 10:22 pm

I love scents in my home. I burn candles, and I also have an electric tart warmer that I love. The tart warmer heats the fragranced wax tarts with a special, low wattage bulb. The warmer has cut out designs – stars – and the light shines through, throwing lovely star design lights in a darkened room. I love Yankee wax tarts. My favorite is New Zealand Wild Berry, but it is a retired fragrance. I managed recently to acquire 18 tarts. This is one of my simple pleasures.

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71 lisa November 5, 2009 at 10:43 pm

My twin girls and husband gave me a card last mother’s day that has a recording…My husband says “do you love mommy- Sam says yes, then Katie and my husband comes on and says we all love you happy mothers day” I LOVE that card and play it often :)

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72 sofia November 5, 2009 at 10:55 pm

That looks like a great cup of cappuccino. I also make my own lattes and do not frequent Starbucks as much! Have a great day

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73 Sonya November 5, 2009 at 11:26 pm

Rhoda, loved your article. Really loved the parts where you mentioned where you purchased those kitchen “tool.”

My simple pleasure would have to be meeting a long time friend at a thirft store and then having lunch together. We hardly get to see each other and this is our time to catch up with one another!!! This week (Wed. for the 1/2 sale), we met at the Salvation Army Store on hwy. 150. My big bargain was a Krups (ice cream machine) for $4.99. It looked brand new! So now, my other simple pleasure (with my husband) will be having some homemade icecream!

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74 Lois Grebowski November 6, 2009 at 12:14 am

A scented candle

Homemade cookies (less expensive and waaaaay better than store-bought)

Sunday dinner with family

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75 Mrs. Art Doll Maker November 6, 2009 at 12:54 pm

I love having a really good cup of decaf coffee and choosing which flavored creamer to use.

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76 Abbie November 6, 2009 at 4:32 pm

I’ve been enjoying peppermint tea in the early mornings. Occasionally I drink it alone, but often with a snuggly, pajama-ed little one. It’s one of the only teas I like without sweetener so it’s been my go-to tea as I work to get the last of the “baby fat” off since my sweet boy is a year old now!

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77 Victoria November 7, 2009 at 12:00 am

Rhoda, I could love me some of your delicious looking cappucino! For me, I have collected rare and niche perfumes so instead of buying any new ones, I go to my perfume cabinet and rediscovery old ones I haven’t used in some time. I also review new perfumes for a perfume ezine and the editor sends me a lot of new samples and sometimes full bottles. It feels like a huge treat since I haven’t been able to purchase any for over a year since leaving my job.

Also, I cut out purchasing many of my favorite magazines because I found so many extraordinary blogs like yours online that I rarely miss the magazines. I can get all my information and enticing photographs through your blog!

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78 Amanda @ Serenity Now November 7, 2009 at 4:42 pm

Rhoda, I was wondering if you’d mind sharing where you find those flavored syrups. I adore a nice non-fat mocha as often as I can, but Starbucks does get pricey. :)

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79 Marie November 11, 2009 at 11:39 pm

Our simple pleasure is just running around the great outdoors. We have lots of nice parks all around this city and its surrounding suburbs.

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