Occasionally, I get a wild hair and decide to sit and write up a post about blogging. Today is one of those days. My friend, Sarah, did a nice post recently about advertising, so I thought I’d expound on that and give my experience with that and blogging. I hope by doing this it helps many of you who are new to blogging. I learned all of what I know by reading and asking questions along the way, so if I can pass on some of my knowledge, I’m glad to do it. I certainly don’t claim to know it all by any means and I’m STILL learning, all the time. This is a long one, so get comfortable.
To advertise or NOT to advertise, that seems to be the question that bloggers ask. You can’t make everyone happy. Some will not like the fact that you advertise and many will not care one way or the other.
So, to start off, let me say that I’ve now been blogging for 3 1/2 years. In blog years, that’s a long time. Back when I started, there were not all that many blogs in my niche of decorating, design, crafting, DIY, or home blogs. There just weren’t nearly the amount of blogs back then. We all visited each other, linking back and forth and I pretty much had a handle on most of the blogs in that niche and got to know a lot of them.
But now….now, there are millions of new blogs. Just the last year, I’ve seen an explosion of new bloggers. So, welcome to all of you who are new. We were all new at one time. Today I’m going to share my experiences with advertising on my blog. How I decided what to do and the process I went through to get to where I am now.
Back in the early days, I remember seeing lots of discussions on whether or not someone was going to advertise on their blog. It seemed that there were decidedly 2 camps: those who would advertise and those who felt strongly against it. I was somewhere in the middle, not knowing anything about advertising or what it all meant. I had no idea of the ins and outs of advertising or if any money could be made blogging.
Those of us who went to Blissdom in 2009 learned even more about advertising and blogging and how it all works. But, still it’s a continual learning process and some days, I feel like I’ve barely scratched the surface of what this big world wide web is all about.
Sarah gave a really good point on her post which I totally agree with:
DO NOT start a blog for the purpose of making money! That’s a BIG amen. It simply will NOT work and I can’t say that strongly enough either.
When I started blogging, I really just began on a whim, not knowing what I was doing or the right way to go about starting a blog. As I did back then, I still blog because I LOVE it, not for any other reason. Making $$ is just icing on the cake and adds another dimension to it, but the main reason I blog is because I enjoy the community and friendships so much. I feel like I’ve got about 7,000 friends that I can reach out to at anytime and you’d be there for me. I know I can count on some dialogue with all of you if I need it and that is such a fun part of blogging for me. Reading your comments makes my day!
You may ask how big your blog needs to be before you advertise? I would say to make it worthwhile, you would probably need about 20-25,000 hits a month to even get started. After my first year of blogging, I began to get inquiries about text links. I added a few of those, but they certainly aren’t big money makers and I will only add those now if they are relevant to my topics. In fact, I will only use advertisers that are completely relevant to what I talk about on my blog.
If you want to keep up with your stats, be sure to sign up for Google Analytics and even Sitemeter (I use both) to track how many visitors come by your blog.
The rule of thumb for what to charge for an ad is this: $1 per 1,000 impressions or visits per month. So, with that in mind, if you get 100,000 visits per month, that would equate to being able to charge $100 per month for an ad. I don’t charge what I could, but you have to keep in mind the economy and what people are willing to pay. My rates are very reasonable and in keeping with the economic climate.
Like I said, I had no idea about the money-making thing when I started blogging. It was only a year or so into it that I saw that there were blogs advertising and especially noticed a blog ad network called BlogHer. That’s when I decided to apply and join. I waited until I was blogging a whole year before I jumped in and joined BlogHer and I’m so glad I did. They are the 5th largest women’s network on the web and they have a blog network of 2,500 bloggers. I got in at a great time with them and have been completely happy with my association with BlogHer. I think they are still closed for the most part, but if you get on their list, you may be able to get in eventually. I had to wait a couple of months before I was accepted in 2008.
Just for reference, I went back and looked up my first check from Blogher, back in 2008. It was $84. Yippee!! I can still remember the thrill of actually getting a check in the mail from my blog. You would have thought it was $1,000 from my excitement. It has steadily gone up from there.

I totally believe that first year should be a year of getting your feet wet, learning the ropes and establishing your topics and voice. Most of us need that time. My blog traffic back then was about 1/4 what it is now. I don’t keep secrets on that and you can click on my Ad button over there to the right, to see my stats on my Advertising/PR page.
I now have around 100,000 + visitors a month, much more than I had 2 years ago. So, I started off slowly with BlogHer and grew into it. The amount of money you make with them is solely dependent on how much traffic you have. It started out slowly, but has grown for me and that’s been a good thing. I do get perks and opportunities for promotions with them, like the ones you see me doing on here with reviews and giveaways. The products that they represent are ones that I can get behind, so I have no problem with that aspect of it. I like the fact that they represent women bloggers with advertisers and the advertisers are realizing what a powerful force that women are.

Last year, I also added my own advertisers, like many others have. Those small ad buttons you see over there are for independent business owners, many of them mom-preneurs who are staying at home and starting their own businesses. I love supporting them whenever I can. I never try to push anything on any of you out there who faithfully read my blog, but I hope that you will buy from these small businesses whenever you can. Many of these businesses have started from folks who have lost jobs or are starting over with home-based businesses and with our economy, I applaud those who wish to stay home and still make a living.
I also sometimes do “trade-outs” for ads. If there is a service or product that I’d like to have, instead of monetary compensation, I will sometimes trade ad space for products or services. That’s a win-win for both parties too.
I have never apologized for putting ads on my blog, nor will I do that now. It’s a necessary thing once you get to a certain point with blogging, I think. Most of us who do ads are putting a LOT of time and energy into our blogs and I see no reason not to be compensated for that.
Believe me, it is not fulltime pay in the least. But, bringing in some extra $$ has been great for me. It really helps me feel fulfilled as a small business owner to be able to make a little income of my own. I started my own decorating business 2 years ago, with the hopes of making a go at that locally. I’ve done some local decorating consultations and love doing them, but the bulk of my business is now this blog.
There are other ways to advertise on blogs too. Google Ads has a program that anyone can join. You can sign up and start running those on your blog if you choose. Those are mostly dependent on how many visits you get for the most part, I think and I’ve just added one of those to my blog. I don’t expect to get rich off of any of them. You can choose the size, whether or not it’s a text ad or picture ad and just add it to your sidebar. You will need to send in Tax info on all of these, if you decide to join them.
There are also affiliate ads, which you can sign up for through sites like Commission Junction, for one. I don’t know a whole lot about affiliates, but I did try them a few times and didn’t see much happening, so stopped those. There is also a site called Juicebox Jungle, which some of my friends are using and happy with. There are SO many avenues out there, but these are the main ones I know about.
To break it down, here are my main tips on advertising. When to advertise, how to get started and all of that:
- My personal opinion is that you should wait until you’ve been blogging close to a year before you try to advertise. Unless your blog just explodes that first year, you’ll need the time to grow and learn the ropes. Again, just my personal opinion and what I did myself. I cringe when I see bloggers trying to get advertising when they are 3 months old.
- Don’t blog to make money. Again, that just will not work. Your readers will see right through that and won’t come back. I’ve been so fortunate to have my readers grow right along with me.
- Try out an ad network or your own personal ads and see how it goes. Don’t expect to get rich. You will not.
- Always keep your content first and foremost the most important thing. I blog more often than I used to, but it’s because I still have plenty to talk about. I really thought I’d run out of topics by now, but I still love decorating so much and home stuff so much that it hasn’t happened. I still have plenty to run my mouth about.
I really think it’s much harder now to grow a blog really big. There is just so much competition out there in each and every niche. But, if you’re true to yourself and visit and comment and are friendly and open, then that is my best tip on growing your blog. I just don’t think every blog is going to grow big. I’ve been very fortunate to see mine grow at the pace it has, but there are many blogs in my niche that are MUCH bigger than mine.
There are other ways to make money on a blog too. I do some online decorating consultations that I enjoy and that brings in a little income and I have also been fortunate to be a part of Open Sky, with my own online shop which has also been rewarding. (NOTE: Open Sky changed formats, so our shops are no longer open, I hope to get my own shop open soon!) So, it’s a combination of things that can be embarked on to make money from blogging. Again, it’s part-time income and not at all what I made when I was working in the Corporate world, but it’s a whole lot more rewarding.
I’m so fortunate that I get quite a lot of offers for book reviews and giveaways and anything that I think I will enjoy AND YOU will enjoy, I will take it on. I look at it this way. If I’m getting a perk, then I want to be able to pass it on to some of you who are so great to come by and support me. Being able to give out great prizes makes me happy for all of you who win too.
So, as long as all of you keep coming back to visit and support me, I’ll keep on passing on great books and giveaways too. Blogging has been such a great venue for me as a decor-aholic and I’ve enjoyed it tremendously and sharing it with ALL of you just makes it better than ever. If you stopped coming by, I would be so sad. I truly don’t care if my blog grows any bigger than it is now. I’m quite happy with where I am and honestly, I don’t know if I would want more to do or to keep up with. My schedule is pretty busy as it is and I don’t ever want the FUN to go out of blogging. It is a whole lot of fun for me!
I will tell you this too. As your blog grows, so does your busy life grow with it. If you aspire to have a bigger blog, be prepared to do the work on it to keep it that way. I spend as many hours at my computer as most of you do who have full-time jobs, but it is still very rewarding and enjoyable for me and that’s why I do it. I also think I’ve lost a few friends along the way. Many, many people who used to stop by and say hello in that beginning year or so simply have disappeared. I have no idea if some are still around or not, because I can only read my comments to see who stops by. So, as your blog grows, it just may cause some to lurk or leave? I’m not sure the reason, but I suspect it is time constraints, as blogging has just added more busyness to all our lives. I guess since I can’t keep up with so many of you, that the same thing happens with people commenting here too. I’m still working on that balance thing!
I have said over and over that the one thing that makes me sad is that I cannot connect with every single one of my readers on a regular basis. It is an impossibility, as much as I’d like that to happen. So, remember that too. The bigger your blog, the less personal contact you have with a lot of your readers. You just will not physically have the time to visit all of them, as much as you want to.
So, that’s why I blog and that’s why I advertise. Making some extra money is fun and doing what I love to do by working at home and making a little $$ is the best scenario.
As a blog grows and gets recognition, there’s a flip side to that too. There are one, maybe 2 negative and mean anonymous commenters who will not go away and just love to come by and leave me nasty-grams. They go right into a spam folder, so none of you read them, but it just amazes me that some girls have nothing better to do than hang out at a blog that from their very mean and hateful comments, they obviously despise everything I do and take the time to spend their energy on negative remarks. Thankfully, the MANY wonderful readers I do have that leave me fantastic comments, by far outweigh the negative ones. That’s what keeps me going!
Let’s see, 7000 subscribers vs. one MEAN and UGLY commenter. That’s a no-brainer!
This is a BIG thank you to all of you out there who never comment, but drop by and read what I’m up to. Lurkers, I would love to hear from ya’ll sometime!! Without all of your support, my blog would not be where it is and I truly do appreciate each and every one of you. Thanks for hanging out with me these last 3+ years. I just love ya’ll! It’s like having great friends all over the country.
So, now the question is: What do you think about advertising on blogs? I know I’ll get lots of answers and that is fine. Some will agree with it and some will not. Just be respectful in your comments, please!
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Thanks for stopping by! I'm Rhoda, from Atlanta, GA and I love decorating and DIY projects. Decorating a home doesn't have to cost a fortune and I've spent years thrifting at antiques markets and yardsales, finding those treasures that make a home unique. I'm here to inspire and encourage other women to find their own inner creativity. Won't you join me? 







































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Rhoda~I will never apologize for having advertising on my blog. Really, I could not justify the time it takes without it giving back (monetarily) to my family in some way. What valuable tips and insights, my friend!
I think advertising is perfectly fine on a blog. I know plenty of people who never see the ads on my blogs because they use ad blockers, and that’s cool, too.
To amend Rhoda’s suggestion, I would say to treat your blog like a business, if that’s the intended goal. To do anything less guarantees infrequent posting, low traffic and no revenue.
I have no opinion on advertising. To be very honest, I rarely pay it any attention on anybody’s blog simply because I barely have time to read blogs much less click on all the bells and whistles.
It does seem like a good way to network and help people who are trying to add a little income to their families. And if it keeps your blog afloat then I’m all for it because I truly love Southern Hospitality!
Personally, I have a niche that is very small so I’m not sure advertising would be much benefit to me.
Rhoda, I don’t comment too often, but I read your blog daily and enjoy your adventures (whether decorating, cooking, or gardening) very much. Keep up the good work! You are doing just fine.
This was a great article-thanks so much for the excellent advice. I am not sure I am going to go down the advertising path but it was very interesting to hear your take on blogging after doing it so successfully for 3 years!
Best wishes,
Natasha.
Rhoda, I have been reading your blog for 2-1/2 years now. You were one of the first blogs I found and I have been a faithful lurker ever since! Now I subscribe to you on Google Reader. I love your home, you seem like a nice person and it’s fun seeing what’s new with you every day, whether it’s decorating, a DIY project or something about your family. I did introduce myself once, but I know I should say hello more often. In the beginning, the ads on blogs turned me off because I thought of you as a friend and putting ads on here seemed like a way to take advantage of your friends who come by to visit. But then I realized, I am coming here on my own because I like you and your blog, it’s free and I like you BETTER than any magazine I would pay for which is full of ads anyway! So I think the ads are fine. I appreciate the time you put into your blog and I know you love doing it, and I think it’s nice for you to be able to get some compensation for the hard work you put into it. That’s just my opinion. Keep up the great work!
Elizabeth C. in Mass.
hey rhoda….i’m guess i’m a “lurker”…….i hardly ever comment but i enjoy your blog SO much…..i think advertising is great……i love it when you share food, decorating……and taking trips….i really enjoy it when you go to your parents……that spread on the table….yum yum….your blog today was so interesting….i know it will be helpful to lots of people……jennie in tn < (God bless you)
Thank you for taking the time to write this post. You answered a lot of questions I have as a new blogger. I am still on the fence about advertising. As you suggested, I am still trying to find my voice and tempo.
Have a wonderful Wednesday! La
A lot of good topics in your post.
Orbiting blogland are magazines. A founding engine of design married to advertising. And they can’t figure out the advertising/blogging thing either. Yet.
My blogging brings in little advertising revenue. Surprisingly it attracts online customers for both my Landscape Design services and national lecturing. Something I never contemplated.
Always enjoy your posts.
Garden & Be Well, XO Tara
Thanks for the input Rhoda. I starting blogging about three yrs ago. I started my blog to keep family and friends updated on our life here in North AL. I have to admit that I have been envious of the more glamorous blogs but I feel that I want to keep my blog fun and for me that means just the basics. You make some very good points and it has reinforced my decision to be ad free.
Hello from your old friend! I’m mostly a lurker now, because you’ve got a gazillion people who respond to you now, since you’re a blogging STAR!
I just wanted to say that I’m happy that your blog has been so popular that advertising was warranted for you. You’ve really turned Southern Hospitality into a destination blog, and I find that very admirable! You’ve done a great thing here, Rhoda, and I’m happy for you! Now I’m going to go click some ads.
I might even buy something from one of your sponsors! Hee! I still use and love the burlap tote that I bought from your Open Sky shop. I get compliments on it all the time. Keep on blogging, girl!
I am one of those lurkers who reads your blog daily. We have similiar tastes re home etc. Reading is one of favourites things and your blog fits easily there. Today’s article was informative. Thanks for your continued efforts.
Rhoda, Bless you for this post! It answers so many questions that I had but wasn’t sure who to ask. . .You never know if experienced bloggers want to give away all of their secrets. Seriously, I feel like you’re my blogging mentor now.
I really appreciate your honesty.
I read your posts several times a week. I love seeing your decorating ideas. I enjoy decorating my home….although I really don’t know anything about decorating =)
Keep posting, I’ll keep reading!
What great advice, Rhoda! I, too, think the advertising is an individual decision. I think it’s interesting and it doesn’t bother me one bit. Thanks for the tips to those of us that are relatively new to blogging
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Rhoda,
I’ve always loved your small business advertising, and I think I’ve visited all of them! I don’t mind ads at all that fit with the blog, though I don’t care for the google text ads that get placed directly in ones post. I don’t mind the picture ones placed in the sidebars. I’m actually more adverse to blog awards than ads. Nice topic and very informative!
And congrats on your successful blog! That’s a lot of hits a month girl!
This blogging stuff isn’t easy and to grow to where you are I know took a lot of dedication!
Hope you have a wonderful, happy day!
Hi Rhoda
You and I have known each other a long time. Way before the world of blog. I am sticking to you like glue!LOL
Thanks so much for this great post.
I do not advertise and it isn’t because I have anything against it. I know you know that is why, but thought I’d add it to my comment.
I visit blogs for the sheer joy of visiting. Whether or not they have advertising, doesn’t deter me from visiting. I do know there are those who prefer not to visit those blogs with advertising.
Along about the time you joined BlogHer, I too, thought about it. I had the e-mail inquiries, for ads, etc and still do. In the end, I decided not to advertise. I don’t think I have a coherent reason for not advertising, but not advertising might have to do with my age and computer savvy. Not to say my age has anything to do with conherent reasoning.:-)
I do posts about businesses and craftsmen, I am particularly fond of, and I do what amounts to testimonials for places we go and accommodations, once in awhile. I have a disclaimer about not being paid for this; just on a note of being open about it I guess…or whatever.
My blog isn’t a big blog, nor is it a tiny blog. I’d say, as per the visitors I have, it seems to be a medium blog. I do get lots of comments and e-mails from readers and I am sure you know how much I value those. The e-mails from folks who have never left a comment, but send e-mails is so nice. Many send e-mails with kind words or concerns about my family as well as inquiries about different things I’ve written about, etc. I am so flattered by the comments and e-mails. Wow! is all I can say!:-) I do read each and every one of the comments and e-mails, no matter how many I have.
Thank you for being a loyal visitor to the Back Porch, Rhoda. I appreciate it so very much. I love blogging and that’s the reason I keep on stumbling along. It’s an amazing hobby! I hope it keeps me thinking for a long time. Blogging also led to my other amazing hobby, photography. I am grateful for that.
Rhoda!!!! Thanks a lot for this post! I did read Sarah’s too! I’ve been blogging for a little over a year and I too believe you should wait that long if not longer before you begin to advertise. For me, it has taken me that long to come into my own when it comes to blogging. I now know how I want my blog to be. I haven’t started advertising on my blog, yet, but I do plan to give myself another 6 months before I do so! Your tips are so helpful and I love it when “bigger” bloggers take the time to help out us “smaller” bloggers!
Thanks for the compliment on my sons room yesterday and the retweet! Have a great day:-)
Hey Girl!
Good advice as always! I’m sure you answered a lot questions people have on the subject.
I’m opposed to advertising on blogs and don’t have any on mine – I rarely even accept “freebies”. I just think it changes the nature and tone of the posts. But to each his own and who know I may change my mind one of these days!
I must say the lack of pesonal contact with readers is the one thing that makes me sad as well. It was so much easier to know and be a part of peoples lives in the beginning wasn’t it. I also don’t see some of the people that used to always drop by in the beginning – I guess that’s just the way it goes. It’s impossible to keep up with everyone without THAT becoming a job! Sigh….
Anyway, having read your blog from “back in the day” I think it’s amazing what you’ve accomplished and I’m happy for you AND happy that you still find joy in blogging!
Manuela
Hi Rhoda!
Thank you, my dear! You’ve answered questions I never even knew to ask!
Up until now I was kind of feeling ‘in the dark’ about the whole subject. Great stuff!
Sue
Rhoda,
Thanks for the wonderful information. I just started blogging, and I’m certainly just getting my feet wet. I love to decorate and do DIY things, which I plan to start blogging about soon, but for now, I’m certainly learning the ropes and finding my voice. This post helped so much!
Thanks.
Thanks for passing on all of your blogging knowledge. I started blogging in April and do it as an outlet to escape being a full time mom of 3 and a husband that offices out of our home! I needed something that seperated me from my normal life! I think it’s great that you can make money from blogging! I say go for it if you want to.. I am one of those little ole blogs that is there just for fun, but does shop those advertisers on blogs! Best of luck to everyone!
Rhoda, while I don’t advertise, I don’t mind it when my friends do. I’ve been approached, but I just don’t want to deal with an added layer of reponsibility. I might change my mind some day, but not now, though there is one advertiser who is very tempting because I like their products.
I blog for the sheer enjoyment, and since I go back a few years with you, I think you know I blogged long before I had my own blog. As a matter of fact, you were one of the key people who gave me the courage to try my hand at an actual blog. Remember walking me through things??? You and two other friends helped me SO much because I was clueless as to how to upload a picture or do anything. LOL! I’m still sort of clueless, but I do enjoy blogging.
I have gained some close friendships, and I wouldn’t trade them for anything. I am still hoping that you will get back here at some point so we can meet in person. I would love to have a luncheon for you.
The one thing I do miss about your blog is your blog roll. That’s how I found many of the blogs I follow, but I understand not being able to have that on your sidebar anymore. It would stretch to eternity!
Love you, girl…
XO,
Sheila
Such a great article! However, I so wish the formula for advertising of $1 per 1000 hits was relevant. I can’t seem to get anywhere NEAR that. This month, I’ve had around 60,000 hits and although I only charge $20/mth per ad, I’ve had to lower my prices to between$12-15
. I think with EVERYONE offering advertising it’s driven the price way down. Guess that is economics for you though
!
hi rhoda, thanks for sharing all you’ve learned along the way. i’ve been blogging for about 5 years now, but it was a private family blog, and only took my creative side of things “public” recently. it’s a different world out here, and you’re right, there has been such an explosion of blogs. exciting, overwhelming maybe? it’s nice when you come across a blog that sticks true to its content. i think consistency and passion for what you are writing about comes through, and overcomes whether you have ads or not. i currently don’t run any ads (though wordpress has decided to add the occasional one on there! i guess nothing is free
) and i like it that way. i don’t see a problem with ads though, like i said, as long as the content is there, it’s worth it. thanks again for sharing your take on things. interesting to read…
~ ana
Thank you Rhonda for sharing this – I am a lurker occassional commenter who is pretty new to blogging – a lot I have learned has come from generous folks like you.
I am just as interested in your post as in the comments – seems to be split. Good info.
So appreciate you sharing your thoughts!
Looking forward to more!
Kathy
Thanks for your insight into advertising. AND thank you for your comment on my blog recently. I am definitely one of the beginners and am still find my “voice”. I do love to refinish furniture and house projects, but with the extremely hot summer, I’m just not getting outside yet to do any painting and refinishing. (I saw where you live in Birmingham—I’m in Florence. The 100 degree heat is unbearable!). Sure, I would like my blog to grow, but I keep coming back to my true purpose — to keep our families and friends up to date with our lives. BTW, I found Richella from the Imparting Grace blog on your blog. We went to college together and had lost touch for 25 years! Thanks for your wonderful information and material.
Judy
I just know this for sure – I found a friend who is just like me in many ways that I would never have found had SHE not blogged.
You make me smile, think, and get my boodie in gear toward being more resourceful. In addition, the warm hug of friendship ties the
bow on the proverbial box.
blessings to you and for you, p
Hi Rhoda, I’ve been a lurker for 2 1/2 years now. I hardly ever leave comments but I have emailed you several times and you email me back right away. I love your blog and your style but I hardly ever pay attention to the advertisers. I love seeing your pictures and hearing about life around Alabama. I appreciate all the time and effort you put into your blog and have discovered many other wonderful blogs from your blog, so keep up the good work. So many of us out here really appreciate you – oh and Roll Tide!!
Hi Rhoda,
I’m a follower and always enjoy your posts. I began blogging about a year ago and have decided not to advertise. My little blog is just a hobby… a fun place to go. I spend way too much time at my computer reading and learning, but I’m hooked. I love blogland.
Let me say too that it doesn’t bother me one bit when others advertise. I feel that it’s your personal blog to do what you want…it isn’t distracting, in fact it’s fun to visit those advertisments to see what others do support. As always, thanks for all the tips. I’ve loved learning from you and seeing all your transformations. For instance I just ordered beadboard wallpaper…can’t wait to try it out!
Sharlotte
Wonderful information, thanks so much for sharing your knowledge about your experiences. Like other commenters, I don’t really notice advertising…until I’m looking for something! Around Christmas shopping time usually! As a small business myself I am especially conscious of trying to patronise small women-owned, mom-owned businesses so I actively seek out those type of advertisers. The personalized jewelry always sucks me in! Thanks again!
Hi Rhoda,
New blogger here (3 mo.). Thanks for this post, I appreciate it when those bloggers with established blogs reach out and share learnings.. there is so much to learn. What you say makes a lot of sense. I am having a blast with my blog, something that I am sure wouldn’t be happening if I felt the constraint of performing and marketing for advertisers at this point.
I love the connections that I’m making. What a blessing for me as a SAHM homeschooling mom (with a toddler). And PS, I’m a northern girl but I love your blog. Don’t let the hateful commentator get you down and push your buttons.
Rhoda, thank you for taking the time to write this post. Very informative!
I guess I’m still on the fence about advertising. It seems like everybody is doing it. Which makes me wonder if I should be too. But there’s also a part of me that likes to do the opposite of the crowd! But I know those who have grown their blogs and do advertising put a lot of work into it. But in this season of my life, as a mother of 3 young kids and working full-time outside of the home, I don’t have the time or drive to devote to it.
As a blog reader, I don’t mind if someone advertises. I usually don’t click ads anyway. But one of my favorite blogs, doesn’t advertise at all by choice.
Mary Ellen
Great post, Rhoda! I’m sure this will help a lot of newer bloggers. I get e-mails every week from people asking about advertising because they’re trying to figure out how to do it on their blogs. I’ll have to send them over here to read your post!
The main thing I stress to bloggers who are considering ads is that once you start taking them, blogging becomes a business instead of a hobby. Especially when you’re accepting private sponsors. If you have private sponsors, you owe it to them to post on a regular basis. No taking off for a couple of weeks because you’re busy or have nothing to talk about. The pressure is on to keep your stats up and send your sponsors some traffic.
For the first year I didn’t make a dime off my blog, but sometimes I miss those carefree days when I could write whatever, whenever I wanted to, and not worry about my stats or my sponsors or anything like that.
Your blog was one of the first I read as a new blogger, Rhoda, and I still love stopping by to see what you’re talking about each week. Thanks!
Rhoda,
I’ve never started a blog and wouldn’t know how to even begin one, but yours is the first one I come to each morning. I can count on you having something I love to read.
You are so giving by putting out information for those who want and need it. My wish is for you to make a MILLION !!!!
Rosie
If people can do it, I think it’s fabulous. I’ve thought about it, I just don’t really know how to get people to come. I’m still growing my blog, so I’m still a little hesitant. I only have 177 followers, who’s going to want to advertise with me!?
I don’t care that you advertise, I’ve been coming by for 3 1/2 years (has it really been that long wow) and will continue to come, I just really enjoy your blog..
Two things : when I get a wild hair I just pull it……and I need an Eleanor update !!!
Enjoy your day,
xo Kathy
Thanks so much Rhoda. Wonderful post. I am no where near 20,000 hits so advertising is not in my near future! I sometimes wonder with the amount of bloggers now if I’ll ever get to that point. But the information is great. And while I don’t always comment, I do always read!
Hi Rhoda,
I read a lot of books and if I don’t like the way the book is written (“the voice” isn’t right), then I don’t bother continuing with it. There are too many books out there to read for enjoyment that I don’t want to waste my time. This is how I approach reading blogs as well. That’s why I LOVE and check for your posts every day. Your blog is informative, pictures are beautiful, easy to navigate, and most importantly, you write so well. Your posts are easy to read, you don’t include a bunch of cutesy things like emo-cons (they can become annoying), and you tell it like it is, but in a respectful and honest manner.
Thank you for the posts about blogging tips. Advertising is fine. I as the reader have the option to click on the ads or not. And, it’s just like reading magazines or newspapers.
By the way, I’ve yet to use the Thermacell mosquito lantern because it’s been so HOT and I just can’t bear to be outdoors.
Thanks again for blogging!
Linh
Great post Rhoda!! and I agree, one of the drawbacks of growing your blog bigger, is you have less and less time to visit all of the blogs that made you fall in love with blogging in the first place!
I currently have over 10,000 unread posts in my Bloglines reader!! I just can’t bring myself to clear them out! I keep thinking I’ll have time sometime to browse them! lol
Hey Rhoda – Blogging newborn here (about 5 weeks!). It’s great to read a straightforward, tell-it-like-it-is post about blogging and advertising. (Instead of some of the “$$MAKE MONEY NOW$$” articles I’ve read online that make it seem like it’s a big frosting-covered piece of cake from day one.) I’m nowhere near ready to do it, but I have no problems with ads and who knows – maybe I’ll add some, too (way, way, way into the future). But first – I think I need to get the hang of just posting on a regular basis. Thanks for the info!
Hey Rhoda…
Thank you for sharing your blogging tips!!! I am one of those middle of the road people about advertising. I could take it or leave it. In my opinion it is whatever works for that blogger…
I have only had my blog for a few months. It is crazy how much there is to learn!!! And I love reading all your posts and looking at your photos!!!
Thank You,
Katie, XoXo
Great post Rhoda!
I’ve been with you since we were blogging babies. I don’t comment much, but I still think you’re the grooviest blogger around!
Rhoda, thanks for explaining about advertising on your blog. I am on the fence about it. I do spend so much time working on my blog and it would be nice to make something for that time, but that is certainly not why I started one. I have only been blogging six months and my average visits are 1149 a day according to my site meter. I am thrilled it has grown so quickly. I worry that I will run out of stuff to post on. That is my biggest fear. If I start taking sponsors I have to learn the computer part of how to get paid and how to set up the buttons on the sidebar. This computer stuff is still a learning experience for me.
Very interesting post. I havn’t given advertising much thought. I’ve only been blogging a little over a year and so I am still trying to get my feet wet. I enjoyed hearing about how it all works. Thanks, great post. Hugs, Marty
What a great, informative post. It’s very true and helpful. I’ve been blogging for (I think) 3 years as well, and it’s truly sometimes like a job when you are going through writer’s block or don’t have the time/energy to keep it up. Still, I absolutely love doing it and find it quite rewarding as well!
As someone new to blogging I appreciated this blog probably more than most. You give great advice here, especially that it takes a lot of time and work to build up a following. BTW I see nothing wrong with advertising on a blog. I hope you see me back in your comments for a long time to come because that means I’m still around. Thanks for this post.
Oh my friend – great post. I have one started from MONTHS ago that I have never finished, but I see how interesting it is to see everyone’s opinion. Love that!!
Rhoda,
Thank you so very much for you words of wisdom! Being in the design business for years is useless once you step into blogland, without the knowledge to function there that is! I am just getting started with blogging and will be fumbling my way around for a bit. FYI… I enjoy looking at your advertisements and things you support. Btw I’m ordering the Beadboard wallpaper to try asap, I’m so excited! I love your blog, thanks for always sharing openly.
Hi Rhoda,
I absolutely love to visit your blog. Your joy for what you do definately comes through in your posts. Thanks for the great advice!
EXCELLENT post, Rhoda!! I am so linking to this on Friday for Weekend Bloggy Reading.
I am with you 100% on being careful of advertising if you are a new blogger. I can’t tell you how many blogs I’ve visited in the past few months who have “Advertise” or “Donate Here” buttons and their pages say something to the effect of “I began blogging in February/March/April of 2010…blah blah blah.” Those ladies might have twice the Followers I do because they were featured somewhere or they link every crafty post they do to 25 blog parties, but I can’t imagine that you can build a real, honest relationship with your readers in a matter of 3 or 4 months.
I think a LOT of new bloggers have signed on, hoping to “make it big,” and make money. I don’t think they realize that to truly be a successful blogger, you need to have class and be respectful of your fellow bloggers. I find the “hey! look at me! I’m throwing myself out there all over the place!” attitude a real turn-off.
For me, I waited until I had been blogging for over a year and had at least 300 Followers before I even thought about a blog redesign and advertising. I only work with blogs/shops/companies that I like or that I think my readers like and I am very careful to write posts that don’t just throw a bunch of sponsor links out.
I’ve been blogging long enough to know that I love writing for the sake of writing, I can use the English language correctly, and I truly enjoy the relationships I’ve made.
Thanks for throwing your two cents in today and letting us weigh in as well.
Rhoda!
Thank you!
Thank you!
Thank you for all the TIME it took to create this DETAILED post!
I was hanging on EVERY word as I was reading!
I am at a point…almost one year in….where I am putting thought into WHERE I would like to take Blooming on Bainbridge.
RIght now BLooming on Bainbridge is being redesigned.
Which will be a BIG step in a new direction!
I will have to admit.
As much time as I spend ‘blogging’ (on my blog and others) I would eventually like a few PERKS as in making a bit of money.
I know I need to POST more often.
When I post it is usually a BIG post!
ANd I like to give my readers TIME to pop over…
before I overload them with a new post!
I’m sure I need to post almost daily to bring in big numbers.
SO this is something to consider.
There are many things to consider…as you have noted.
I am going to really KICK my blogging up a notch when the new design is complete!
ANd we shall see what happens!
THANK YOU RHODA!
Thank you for your insight!
Southern Hospitality is FABULOUS!
I remember when I first discovered it!
Two years or so ago!
I was reading A Beach Cottage.
And Sarah kept referring to RHODA as she was re-doing a piece of furniture!
So of course I popped over!
I was flabber-gasted to discover that YOU were in Birmingham!
I was SPELL-BOUND! Reading all of your post!
I remember calling my sister in Montgomery!
Who decorates like you do!
She has designed/decorated many homes in Montgomery!
And I said MELONY!
You have GOT to pop over to this BLOG that I have found in BIRMINGHAM!
ANd so she did!
And of course called to tell me how AMAZED she had been!
SO thank you Rhoda!
Thank you for all the hard work that you put into creating Southern Hospitality!
You represent SOUTHERN living so well!
Blowing you sweet kisses from Bainbridge!
ANd looking so forward to flying back SOUTH in September!
xoxoxo
THE SUMMIT…here I come! ;o)
Rhonda,
Since retirement, I have become a “lurker” of your blog.
I enjoy all the decorating projects, pictures, how-to-projects,
recipes, tips, etc. You have a wonderful blog and share so much
helpful information with others. I have tried numerous decorating project and recipes from blogs. Although I don’t have a blog, it
was very interesting reading about blogging process. I know you
have helped so many in the blogging community with this .
Although you don’t know me, it is like visiting with a good
friend as I read your blog daily. Keep up the good job and thanks for all your help to me thru your blog information. Also, like your
positive outlook on life, great inspiration to all of us.
Theresa
GA.
LOVE your blog. LOVE your decorating sense…and LOVE lurking over here.
I’m a wannabee girl from the south, living in Northern California and praying I can one day attach a few advertisements to my own blog. Lord willing.
Keep doing what you’re doing…we are all blessed because of it!
Hi Rhoda! It’s Michelle (winner of the Modern Bird print… we are still working on getting the perfect picture of my coonhound Maggie for Megan to print! I promise to get you a picture of the final version!!). I LITERALLY just started a blog– today was post #3– so you have no clue how much this information means to me! I somehow got hooked up to GoogleAds but really had no clue what it all meant… at this point, I’m just looking to share and communicate about our house renovations, decorating, etc! But anyways, thank you THANK YOU for this post! Super helpful! And please come check me out over at Ten June!! xoxo
Rhoda,
Thank you! I always appreciate the shared wisdom gained by experience from my three blogging mentors (you being one of them).
I blog because I write. Anything else is icing on the cake. Ads don’t bother me unless they are distracting; flashing or pop ups. I read blogs for content, which is why you will always remain a favorite.
Thank you for all you do — the inspiration, the tutorials, the giveaways and mentoring. You’re a gem!
Your Friend,
Deborah
I am one of the new bloggers. Thank you so much for this post, it is really insightful. I think advertising is a necessary evil in life. Ads interrupt our television programs, they line the edges of every article we read wether in a newspaper, magazine or online. As a corporate advertiser I can tell you that finding a “personality” that people trust to support your product is an effective advertising tool. Why not a blogger???
http://www.laundryandvodka.com
Such a wonderfully informative post for new bloggers! Love the “I love blogging” image too
xo,
Eddie & Jaithan
Hey sweet friend! Thanks for hopping by my blog! I am SO excited that you got your new camera! I know you’ve been wanting one. Which one did you wind up getting?
I hardly touched the photo on my blog! It was one of those gorgeous days…a gift from God! I only added a smidgen of color for extra pop. And I do mean smidgen. I use photoshop with my business, and it’s been a pain to learn! There is photoshop elements program which might be something for you to research! Let me know what you decide.
Hugs!
Susan
Thank you for posting this. It is very candid and insightful.
I agree with you that advertising is fun but should not be the point of the blog. I REALLY hate having to search for content inbetween advertisements in a post. But, I appreciate a post with a product review. Basically, if I have to search for content then I get fustrated. I have never felt that way with your blog and enjoy your blog tremendously.
Great post! There is nothing wrong with making $$ from any legitimate business format. If you don’t, someone else will. I appreciate the fact that you accept only those that might interest your readers and dont clutter up your site.
Regarding negative comments, I think most of us shy away from those but often they have good ideas that are just presented in the wrong manner. The problem with email is that you cant add a tone of voice. I would continue to read those and take some of them to heart and, with a positive response, they may just turn into fans (or already be a fan with a grumpy voice)
I look forward to continued excellent posts on your blog and hope you will visit mine as well. I ghost blog for onlinefabricstore and enjoy it so much.
diane
Hi Rhoda–I guess I’m a lurker! I get your blog by email and do enjoy visiting “through” you. I’d have loved to been able to crawl through the screen and eat with you at your parents!!! All my favorite things–and I’m not even from the south! I don’t have a blog, but if I did, I’d figure what I did with it was my business as long as it’s not against the law. You keep up the great work. CJ
Hi… Advertising means nothing to me… If it takes over a blog… I totally will skip the blog cause I don’t “dig” in a store… so I will not “dig” online! I do not look at the advertisements at all. If you make money from them… you should… you are taking the time to put this beautiful blog together. I also do not care for people trying to sell me things on their blogs… I totally leave when that happens. I am here for fun and to get some new ideas. Nancy from OHIO
I never comment, but get your blog daily in email. Yours is one of the first I ever read a few years ago. I can just tell what a nice person you are ..it shows through.
Rhoda, as always you are open, honest and helpful to all of your readers. I have only had a blog for 7mo. now so I am a newbie. I have already had a few inquiries to advertise on my blog. At this time I have chosen to not do any advertising. For me, It would make me feel as if I were working for someone and I just blog because it is a creative outlet and so fun to meet like minded people, that has been the best part so far. People just like YOU!! I consider you a blogging friend and have enjoyed our talks over the past months. Keep doing what you do , it is obviously working in your life and that is what matters the most. I will admit I find it a bit distracting at times but I get over it once I start reading and looking at the pictures. Have fun and Enjoy the Process is the bottom line in my book, Kathysue
I read your blog daily but don’t comment very often. I have made purchases from advertisers on blogs, so I am not at all offended by those who choose to advertise. It has benefited me! I realize that it takes an incredible amount of time to blog well, which is why I read them and don’t have one. (I don’t have time for both so I choose to read instead of write!) I am so not offended by someone who gets paid for their effort. I don’t see anything wrong with being rewarded for a job well done. If the subject matter of a blog changes dramatically or no longer fits my interests, I delete them and move on.
I am offended by (you didn’t ask, but I have to say it because it is ultimately a compliment to you.) bloggers who beg for readers/commenters and then feel the need to take a “bloggy break” because blogging for us is such a burden. One reason I enjoy your blog so much is that I sense that you enjoy it too!
Keep up the good work and please stop posting pictures of the meals at your parent’s house. My taste buds can’t handle it!
Hi Rhoda,
Love your blog….have been reading it for a couple of years now. I started my blog just a few months ago for the sole purpose of motivating myself to do something besides sit on the couch and watch t.v. I work full time and am finding the blog is time consuming but I am going to try and stick with it as long as I enjoy doing it. I won’t say that I would never advertise, but at this time it is just not the right thing to do under my circumstances. Thanks for the tips. I can use all the help I can get!
Take care,
Marlee
Rhoda-
As always- very informative! Thanks for being so open and sharing your knowledge!
Thanks for the tips and suggestions. Our blog has been around for a while but doesn’t get a lot of traffic. We’re in the middle of a revamp now though. I’m hoping that our unique design perspective will be a good addition to the blog world. We are a professional design firm with several designers specializing in different fields of design. On our blog we want to highlight our designers, introduce some new products, give some designer tips, start some great discussions, and hopefully inspire some great projects. Unlike many designers who are “uppity” like my husbad says, we are striving to show great design at all price points. We’ll be featuring our high end work and budget conscience makeovers. Thanks for stopping by the other day. I hope you come by again and see some of the changes we’re making and participate in our discussion board. For now we have no plans to advertise. We just want to share our ideas on design and see where it takes us.
I don’t really pay that much attention to advertising. Occasionally something catches my eye but I’ve never purchased anything through a blog ad. I mainly read blogs to get ideas to use at home & for entertainment. There are a few I read so I can keep up with people I know.
I guess the main thing I dislike about some blogs is anything audio. I think if you want to share something, give us the option of turning it on – don’t make us turn it off. Some blogs have music players that come on as soon as the page loads. I like to listen to Pandora.com as I read so the blog music often blasts out & I’m scrolling up & down a long page searching to turn it off. They are never in the same spot. I’ve been seeing more ads with audio so that makes it worse.
Thank you for the great tips about blogging! Especially for us rookies out here. I love your blog and always appreciate your sweet comments! I have only been doing this since May and have met so many wonderful people. I just love getting comments and the excitement of seeing that I have a new follower. It is really nice to have an experienced blogger like yourself give advice to us newbies.
I think when I started blogging, around 2 yrs ago, women were blogging about decorating for fun. At first, I was totally opposed to blogging for money. As you said, if you are going to put alot of time in it (and it requires it!), then why not be compensated? I simply don’t have time to post anymore, else I would consider it. There’s also the tax considerations, etc. to consider, and in my opinion, if you’re going to advertise, you have/need to commit to blogging regularly. Many people blog as an online journal, but when it turns into more than that, it becomes more like a business, and for the time invested, I think it would be a poor business decision to pass up free money. Just my take. And why not take the perks? Who doesn’t love those?
I always really appreciate your informative posts regarding blogging! I’m in it for the fun but you have wonderful advice and open info which is great. Thanks for sharing
Rhoda, thanks for the information. I am a new (very new) blogger. I have been reading your articles for about a year and have enjoyed them. I feel you are sincere and enlightening. You have inspired me to share with friends. Right now I get about 3 readers a day. LOL! It’s a good thing I do this just for fun, isn’t it? I have a lot to learn and a loooong way to go. So thanks for all your advice.
Rhoda…That was a very informative post. Since I am so new to blogging, it answered many questions that I have had! Thanks for sharing,
Sherry
Hi Rhoda, of course my blog is not anywhere near big enough to advertise on, but I am not adverse to it. And as the blog slowly grows, I can see spending more and more time on it. But I hope it doesnt get so big as to not allow me to visit everyone who visits me and leaves comments.
I wish everyone who visited would leave a comment, though.. anyway, I say yay for advertising if t works for you!
hugs
Barb
Dear Rhoda,
I have been reading your blog for about a year and a half. I currently subscribe and enjoy receiving your posts delivered straight to my in box. I have never commented on your posts – so I guess you could call me a ‘lurker’ although we have communicated about a year ago when I wrote to you about my yard sale find – chairs that I refinished and you eventually featured on your blog (to my delight).
I felt compelled to write to you today. I read your post – your entire post – and although I have no intention of ever blogging I certainly appreciate all the time and effort it takes to run a successful blog and to keep it interesting. Seriously, I don’t know how you get it all done.
Rhoda, I can’t speak for others but I know for myself that I read your blog because of YOU. I love your enthusiasm and your ‘go for it’ attitude. I am constantly inspired by your drive for refinishing and improving other people’s rejects and transforming them into something beautiful. Because of you I am now an avid ‘yardsaler’ and take delight in transforming objects into something I can be proud of. You have encouraged me to step outside my comfort zone. Although some of your design projects are not always my taste I thoroughly enjoy reading about them and the steps it takes to complete such projects. I have to say most of all Rhoda; I really love your honesty. You keep it ‘real’ in your blog and to me that speaks volumes. Keep doing what you do Rhoda and don’t change!
As for advertising on your blog, I am not opposed to it at all! In fact, I’d love to see you make all the money you can. I only wish good things for you because I know that is how you feel about your readers.
Keep up the great work Rhoda, and thanks again for your constant inspiration.
Victoria Kennedy,
Ontario, Canada
Victoria, thank you SO much for taking the time to write this note. I sincerely appreciate it!
Thanks to all of you for stopping by & chiming in on this post. I wrote it as a way to help any of you out there who are new bloggers and wondering how it works. I sure don’t have all the answers, but I’ve stumbled through this and gained a little bit of knowledge along the way. Thanks for hanging with me all this time!
I too, have never commented before on this or any of the many other blogs I read everyday, but I have been reading yours for at least 2 years if not longer. I am thankful for the great encouragement and inspiration I have gotten just from “lurking” here! I have decorated my home in ways I would have never imagined before I discovered “blogs”! I don’d mind the ads at all and often browse those sites as well. Keep up the great work!
You are the best. I’ve learned more from your posts on tips for successful blogging! I truly appreciate your generosity. Your tip about not using a flash has improved my pictures 100%. I have printed this so I can relax with a cup of tea and absorb all of the info. Thank you!
Rhoda,
I’ve been one of your faithful ‘lurkers’ for a couple years. I came to your blog specifically due to your location in Alabama. I have wonderful family in that beautiful state and I love to read anything I can from Alabama and the South. I have learned so much from your blog about decorating….I’ve bought the supplies to frame my bathroom mirrors and I hope to install the beadboard wallpaper soon. I continually go back and forth on starting a blog – I have quite a few people encourage me to do so (many FB friends) as I love to share what I learn with everyone! I hesitate because I think it would overtake my ‘real’ life and I don’t think I could handle the negative stuff! But, I love your blog and I have referred quite a few of my FB friends (even linked your blog on my page) to your posts! Keep up the good work:-) ~ Rhonda
PS: I’m now a Goodwill addict thanks to your thrift shopping posts!
What great words of advice. Thank you so much for writing this. My own blog is two years old and I still am so passionate about it. I am one of those who used to comment more, sorry about that! I’m still here though…
Hi Rhoda,
Very interesting, I’ve been wondering about some of this for awhile now! Wednesday was my blog’s one year anniversary (whoo-hoo!) and I’m still growing into it, and trying to keep up with you, which I’m finding out is impossible! I want to thank you for always having been open and friendly and helpful to me in the past when I’ve asked you questions. I agree with you – this blogging thing takes a lot of time and energy, and some people just don’t get it! That said, I think advertising is okay depending on how it’s done. I don’t like things flashing in my face, or posts that are so obviously just advertisements that they are almost offensive (like a REALLY LOUD commercial on tv!). I think your site balances everything well.
Two things I’ve noticed about myself: 1. I leave fewer comments when I see there are already 90, 100, 140 comments. I figure mine won’t be seen anyway, which might not be true, but it’s an impression and so I’m less inclined to leave a comment. 2. I hate having to sign in every time I want to leave a comment! I’m not very succint so I write a lot, signing in just adds to the large amount of time I spend in front of the computer! I understand the need to thwart spam and some of those meanies, but still…
I admire you and your warmth and your style, and wish you many more happy years blogging!! I’ll keep looking up to you!
XO
Heidi
Rhoda,
This is an absolutely magnificent post! Thanks for your honesty and your transparency, and for actually getting into the nitty-gritty of the issues rather than just talking around them. I completely agree with all of your perspectives, and found them very helpful!
Thank you so much for sharing!!!
Rhoda–love your thoughts! I have always respected your advertising etiquette! I am somewhere in the middle on the advertising feelings but I have a hard time seeing some of my favorite bloggers get caught up in the advertising and we miss out on their great content. Yet as your blog has grown I have not felt that way at all! I appreciate your respect to your blog and readers and that those things come first!
As a fellow BlogHer advertiser, I have often referred to your blog to see how you balance that along with your own personal advertisers. I do not think I am in a place to start independently but when I tinker with the thought, I always come back to you. And, yes I giggled and jumped up and down when I got my first review/giveaway check from BlogHer! So icing on the cake!
Thanks for sharing!
Wow, what a great source of info for new bloggers. I appreciate your time and candor. I think this is the first time I’ve ever seen such long and involved comments on a blog post.
I really like what you said about not blogging to make money. You really do have to “love” what you are doing. That pertains to any job in my experience, not just blogging.
Brittany
http://www.prettyhandygirl.com
As a “new” blogger, I am extra attentive to the layouts of other blogs that I am reading and finding along the way. I do think your advertising is displayed very nicely. It does not distract from the content of your blog. I agree that as long as your content and readership is solid than advertising makes sense. It’s a lot of work to blog! Every other source of “entertainment” (i.e. movies, TV, radio, magazines) utilizes advertising as a means to make money. Why should blogs be any different? Thank you Rhoda for sharing these ideas. I really appreciate it!
Dear Rhoda,
Since my blog is still a baby, I am not even thinking about advertising. When I feel ready, I will be armed with all this passed on knowledge. Thank you for that. Great post.
your friend,
janet xox
The Empty Nest
Since I am relatively new, I so enjoy reading these kinds of tips. Yours are so much more helpful and practical than a lot I have read. I really appreciate you sharing these tips with all of us!
Thanks
Allyson
http://cupcakescandycanes.blogspot.com
This was just amazing! I have bookmarked it as I am sure around my one year mark I will come back and consider the option of adding advertisers to my blog. This was so comprehensive and well done from an insiders view……thank you so much!! SO many of my questions were answered in one place!
Emily Clark just published a post on blog advertising and included the link to this post. I so appreciate all the advice and honesty. I have been blogging almost 6 months. I was totally and utterly clueless when I started my blog…no idea of the time involved or what it took to keep up. I am doing all the same things I have always done: sewing, painting, changing this or that, cooking, etc. The only difference is now I’m taking pictures and writing about it. I enjoy it so much but am having trouble finding balance. I’m happy when I have a popular post but then I spend hours and hours replying to comments and visiting blogs. I knew very early on that I was about 2 years late in starting out…meaning that the number of blogs out there is huge and the competition fierce. I feel as though I sort of missed the boat. I wonder if I should continue or maybe just stop. I continue though because I truly love doing it. I think I would miss it and I would certainly miss the wonderful people I have met. Any advice you would have on balancing the time involved would be appreciated. I have a full time job as a school secretary and am several years away from retirement. I blog in my “spare” time. Now I don’t have any spare time because I’m always blogging! Anyway, thanks for listening and don’t be surprised if you start getting comments on this post again!
Hi Rhoda!
I’m one of your lurkers-turned-followers and I SO appreciate your honesty and information for us newbie bloggers! I’ve had my blog for about 7 months now….with followers being mostly family and friends so far. With a new house and a new baby coming in the next month, I’m *hoping* to get some time in the coming months to explore and comment on other blogs a little more in order to get more followers (currently, I just lurk!) With all the new happenings in our life, I have no shortage of things to talk about! Thanks so much for your advice!
-Shara
I’m a lurker! I have really been enjoying your blog and seeking out all your posts about blogging. I started blogging in April but I had no idea what I was doing and didn’t even know “linky” parties existed. Ha! I LOVE blogging but it is incredibly time consuming. People outside the blogosphere have no idea, do they?! Thank you SO much for sharing your experiences.
-Kristen
We started blogging around 6 months ago and would like to push our blog further. This was a really useful post thank you! x