My parents in 1955, one year after they married (left)and 1996 (right). That’s my sister in my mom’s arms & I wasn’t born yet. Don’t they look spiffy?? I love these old pics.
My parents met at Bible College in Lakeland,FL. Both of them are FL natives, Mom from the Tampa area & Dad from Panama City. We are English on both sides of the family. Doesn’t my dad look like an Englishman? He has red hair & fair, freckled skin & I got his coloring.
We had a wonderful 80th birthday celebration for my dad this weekend & enjoyed some long-overdue catching up with old friends from my dad’s 27 years of pastoring in Marietta, GA. It truly was a special time of memories & laughs, celebrating my dad’s big day. We don’t always have big birthday parties, but it just seemed that an 80th birthday was quite a cause for rejoicing!
We had a wonderful 80th birthday celebration for my dad this weekend & enjoyed some long-overdue catching up with old friends from my dad’s 27 years of pastoring in Marietta, GA. It truly was a special time of memories & laughs, celebrating my dad’s big day. We don’t always have big birthday parties, but it just seemed that an 80th birthday was quite a cause for rejoicing!
My dad is quite a man…as I’m sure many of you feel about your own fathers, mine is quite special to me, my rock & my hero. He really is a farmer at heart, but at the age of 23, he was saved & God called him into the ministry where he spent the next 40 years pastoring churches & ministering to people as only he can do. Daddy has a wonderful sense of humor & you will find yourself laughing at his stories & enjoying his story-telling style tremendously….he has a way with words & facial expressions to match. It was old home week, as several old members of his congregation & old friends of our family came to the birthday party & enjoyed a good old-fashioned Southern fish fry. Lunch was delicious & after we all finished eating, one of the ladies suggested that we should all take turns telling something memorable about my dad & the years he spent pastoring our church. These friends then spent the next few minutes telling personal stories of things that my dad had said & done that had touched them, made them laugh, or had an impact on their lives. That was such a fun time. We laughed & cried…and all left with a heart full of happiness that we could all get together again & celebrate the life of a wonderful man of God. He’s been retired for about 15 years now, but people still miss his ministry. He does fill in teaching Sunday School now & then & everyone loves to hear him teach. I have a wonderful Christian heritage that I would not trade for all the money in the world.
My parents gave me & my sister a wonderful, strong & stable family upbringing that was built on Christ, the Solid Rock! 
We fried up speckled perch, homemade potato chips, & hush puppies that went along with cheese grits, baked beans & cole slaw. My brother-in-law also cooked some delicious chicken on the grill that was wonderful. We all got a good dose of grease that should last about a year or 2!
We fried up speckled perch, homemade potato chips, & hush puppies that went along with cheese grits, baked beans & cole slaw. My brother-in-law also cooked some delicious chicken on the grill that was wonderful. We all got a good dose of grease that should last about a year or 2!
I made this delicious chocolate cake (and got the recipe (click link to go to the recipe) from another blogger, Amanda at Morning Glory Cottage). Amanda, it was great cake & everyone loved it! I added chopped pecans to mine & didn’t do a layer cake, but put it in a baking pan. I’m all about cutting corners whenever possible, LOL.
When we got there on Friday afternoon, Mom fixed this wonderful fresh veggie meal & we gorged ourselves on that. My parents have a nice garden at their GA house & they also have a huge garden that’s about an acre up at their house in NC. Dad is a happy man when he’s on his tractor tending the garden. They go back & forth during the summer months from GA to NC & love spending time up there. My mom cans during the summer & so we all get to enjoy the bounty from their harvest. Mom is about the best Southern cook around. We had fresh green beans, squash, fried eggplant, sliced tomatoes & cucumbers, eggplant casserole, and creamy potatoes & dumplings. It just doesn’t get any better than this! This is what I grew up eating & everyone who has ever sat down at my mom’s table raves about her cooking. She doesn’t cook quite as fattening as she used to, but she knows how to do it right!
Mom’s hydrangea in bloom. She let me cut some nice full stems to bring home & dry. They are just gorgeous!
Me & dad on the back carport waiting for the fish to fry.
My niece, Lauren, will be 25 in August, but that doesn’t stop her from sitting in my dad’s lap every chance she gets. He eats it up! She’s the only grandchild & is spoiled rotten, but in a good way. She’s studying for the bar exam next week. Here’s a link to my Mother’s Day post, if you want to see pics of all the girls in my family. Poor dad is outnumbered with a wife, 2 daughters & one granddaughter!
Dad has several huge fig trees in the backyard of their home.
They live on 1/2 acre here in GA & about 1/3 of the backyard is garden space. He has been gardening for as long as I remember. When we were growing up, we hated having to work in the garden, digging up rocks, weeding, & picking vegetables. Oh, how I hated the bugs & how hot it was & got out of doing much of anything in that garden as often as possible. My sister and I definitely didn’t appreciate it until we got older. Now, we love to share in it’s bounty! We filled up bags of squash, tomatoes, beans, cucumbers, & okra to bring back home with us.
Dad’s muscadine vines in the backyard. He has always loved growing fruits too. They have some wonderful blueberries up in NC.
Lots of green tomatoes still on the vine. Luckily, they have started to get rain again, just in the nick of time to save his GA garden.
Thanks for wishing my Dad a Happy Birthday! I think he thoroughly enjoyed his day with friends & family. He loves for people to come & visit him at his house.
I will be posting some really neat things soon on my shop site, so please come by for a visit in the next couple of days. I made a trip to one of my favorite places to shop in Atlanta, House Parts, & found some great deals that I will share with you. I’ll be posting those soon & I’ll do a write-up about this fun place called House Parts. I know you are going to love these neat things!
Hope you’re all having a great week!
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Hi Rhoda~Such special moments you have shared and it is a wonderful heritage to pass on. Families are such a blessing especially when there is love like you have expressed here. Thank you for sharing your family with us. Have a beautiful week~Jen
It sounds like a woderful time. I really enjoyed reading about it. Do you want to hear about what a small world it is? Did you know our Daisy Cottage Kim lives in Lakeland and I lived there when I was a child. So funny!
I always say food is love…looks like a lotta loving when on! Yum!
Your Dad sounds like such a wonderful man. My Dad was quite a gardener too…: )
It is always a blessing to have a Daddy that you love and can respect too. Like you, I did as well. It truly is a blessing.
All that wonderful food..fresh grown veggies are such a treat. Nothing like the dinners in the South. My Father’s roots were Southern and I spent every Summer in TN. Still cook like that..: )
I am so glad you all had such a sweet time with you dear family. I send a happy birthday greeting to your special Dad.
I look forward to seeing your treasures! I usually lose out on some goodies but I sure love to look!
Have a sweet week.
Hugs,
Sue
(OH! I saw that you were given one of Betty Jo’s Reflection Awards! Congratulations! Well deserved!)
How Precious! Enjoyed your sharing about your Dad’s 80th birthday. I teared up reading about your Daddy. Your parents sound like really sweet people. I pray that God will bless him and your mama with many more wonderful years.
Oh, I couldn’t help but fall in love with your blog the instant I saw the banner pop onto my screen! I’ll definitely be back — I’ve already linked you on my blog for easy access!!
Looks like a wonderful celebration (the food looks amazing!!) for a very special man.
What a great day you all put on for your dad! The food pictures are fun, but I loved seeing his gardening. So sweet and amazing that he is still doing so much.
Donna
Happy 80th to him! It is amazing that he tends to that huge garden too.
Okay – I hate teasers though…so hurry up and post your new store items!!! ha ha..
What wonderful memories about your dad! The food looks delicious. My mom turned 80 this year, too, and she was just here in ATL for a visit. Looks like your dad is still young at heart!
Sounds like you had a wonderful time. You are lucky to have such great role models as your parents!
My daughter is the same way you were about weeding, picking out rocks etc. But I told her she’ll probably grow up to be a landscape architect and spend all her time outdoors gardening just because she hates it all so much now LOL!
Manuela
Hi Rhoda. Enjoyed sharing (through pics) in your fun day you had with your parents. The meals sound great especially the vegie one. My fave :o) So glad your dad had a great birthday. Diane
Wow Rhoda, you are so very, very lucky to have such an upbringing! I loved the homey feel of the party & the food looks heavenly.You are truly blessed.
Hugs, DebraK
Your dad sounds sooo special. Thank you for sharing him with us. I have many memories of family fish fries.
It is truly a small world. I was in Lakeland today. I live about 25 miles south east of there. Glad you were able to enjoy this time with your family.
Rhoda what a wonderful post this is and it brings back so many memories for me. I was born in Lakeland, FL, grew up in Auburndale about ten miles away. You’ve made my mouth water with your photos of speckled perch, hush puppies, and muscadines. I soooooo miss those fresh GA figs too. Yummy! My Daddy gardened like yours with mustard and turnip greens almost up to my waist. I miss my parents wonderful gardens and Mama’s cooking, much like your mothers. My parents have both passed away. I sure do need a trip home!! xoxo
Still a very lovely couple, your mom and dad. The feast looks delicious.
Rhoda, I’ve enjoyed hearing about your parents, and getting to know them through your blog. I can certainly see why you turned out to be such a special lady yourself!
It looks like a perfect weekend all around! I am so glad that all of you had such a lovely time (yummy food, too!).
xo,
Andrea
Your parents look lovely and your Dad sounds like a wonderful Father and a great example of what a Father should be.
All that food has me munchie now, though!
What fun! My daddy is a farmer at heart too! He keeps a garden, in fact I just brought back some turnip greens and cucumbers from Birmingham when we went to our family reunion.
The food looked deeeeeelicious!!! I gained 5lbs just by looking at it.
I can see the love and admiration you have for your Dad. It’s a special bond.
Enjoy your week!
Wishing your Dad a Very Happy Birthday. It looks like a wonderful day of celebrating with your family!