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Life Changes

January 30, 2011 By Rhoda 381 Comments

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I am supposed to get on a plane for Israel tomorrow, but it is not going t o happen. I had to make the decision  not to go and I know it is the right decision for me.

In case you are wondering and reading between the lines  (and of course  you are, I would be wondering too), there are some major painful and difficult life changes going on with me at the moment.  I cannot share all the details at this time, but just know that I really need your prayers and support right now.

My 4 year blog anniversary is February and I have shared much of my life with all of you during this time and have kept this place drama-free.  Most of the time, I’ve kept this blog a happy and positive place to be, but unfortunately life sometimes brings pain and trials into our lives that we have absolutely no control over and we have to walk through them. One day at a time.

This is one of those times for me.  With God’s help, I will make it through this.  I cannot do it without Him.

Hard, painful, life shattering.

It may be awhile before I have any sense of normalcy again, but I will get there eventually.  The next couple of months will be very busy for me as I go down a new path.  I will be moving back in with my parents in Atlanta.  They are the best parents in the world and I’m so grateful to have them.  I’ll still be blogging and may share bits and pieces of what I’m doing as time goes on.  I hope you will stick with me.

I’ll be sharing more as time goes on with what this means for me, but for now please keep me in your prayers.  I took down the original Israel post in case you are looking for it.   Since those plans are so changed, it seemed to be the best thing to do.

Last week’s trip to Nashville and hanging out with friends was perfect timing for me and I’ll be sharing that this week too.

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  1. Kathy G says

    February 1, 2011 at 8:26 am

    Your post took me back a few years. My husband of 31 years decided he didn’t want to be married any more. So painful. I couldn’t even pray – all I could do was say, “God help me!” He did! Starting the very day my husband left right up to now. I am living proof that what ever satan means for bad, God can turn it into something beautiful!
    My prayer for you is what ever is going on in your life, May God help you!

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  2. Terri says

    February 1, 2011 at 8:27 am

    As of this moment…( I am just now reading your comments)… you are on my prayer list!! you are extremely blessed to have Godly parents who (I’m sure) are waiting with arms open wide (as is your Saviour and best friend Jesus!) You and your blog have blessed me so much since I discovered you last year!!! I will be checking in and I am lifting you up to the Father!!!! Terri

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  3. Jennifer says

    February 1, 2011 at 8:37 am

    Trust, trust, trust in the Lord. It is all I can say, and however difficult life gets, it is all that holds me constant. Lifting prayers for you 🙂

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  4. Rachel says

    February 1, 2011 at 9:57 am

    Bless your heart. Always remember, Thy will be done.

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  5. Kristi @ The Thrifty Gypsy says

    February 1, 2011 at 10:16 am

    Rhoda,
    I just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. You are a strong, God fearing woman and you will make it and be fine. You are SO BLESSED to have your parents alive and well! We are all here for you!
    Kristi

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  6. Margaret says

    February 1, 2011 at 10:33 am

    This kind of change is always heartbreaking and so very hard. Highlight is getting to stay with your parents. Enjoy your time with them. Sometimes we girls just need our Mama to listen and our Daddy to hug us. Your parents seem to be that kind. Come on up to the NEGeorgia mountains when the weather gets nicer. There are places to just sit and think and if you want company, let me know.

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  7. Jenny @ DIY Newlyweds says

    February 1, 2011 at 10:43 am

    Best wishes and thinking of you during your difficult time.

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  8. candy says

    February 1, 2011 at 10:51 am

    Your blog was the first I found a couple of years ago. Thank you for opening up the wonderful world of decorating blogs to me. : ) I have been praying for you today. My heart was so saddened to hear of the painful season you are in. Thank you for being brave enough to open the window for us to share in your journey through prayers. I pray that His strength, His love, His hope, and His life-giving power will lift you right into His safe arms. He’s a good Papa God and loves you so.

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  9. DogsMom says

    February 1, 2011 at 10:53 am

    Sending hugs and prayers.
    Since I am closer to your age, if you ever need to VENT give me a shout. Count your blessings to help you get through these difficult days.
    Just as we are promised spring will eventually arrive, you will also come out on the other side of difficult days. That doesn’t mean you are not allowed to scream and fuss and kick a bit on the journey.

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  10. Sonia says

    February 1, 2011 at 11:13 am

    Hello Rhoda,
    This is the first time I leave a comment in your blog (or any blog) but
    I had been following your blog for a little more than a year now; you introduced me to the blog land, I came across with your blog one day
    while I was looking for information about Pensacola Fl. in google;
    since then I am a follower or your blog and I had discovered the amazing
    world of blogging, all thanks to you.
    Now that I am reading about the hard times you are going through, I just
    want to let you know that you are a special person to me even though I do not know you and I will keep you in my prayers.
    Always remember that God does not give you any more that you can take, and I have a feeling that you are a strong person and you will
    get through this.
    I will keep you in my prayers.

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  11. Amy says

    February 1, 2011 at 11:41 am

    Hi Rhoda! So sorry you are having to go through this difficult time. Happy you have your parents who love you & welcome you with open arms! Love & prayers!

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  12. Je says

    February 1, 2011 at 11:44 am

    Praying for you during this time. I always enjoy reading your blog and your beautiful style. In blogland our lives can seem perfect since our readers can’t get a true look into our lives. I’ve learned no one’s life is perfect and we all have different crosses and paths. As you take a new path and direction I pray it will bring you comfort and peace.

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  13. Bill says

    February 1, 2011 at 12:15 pm

    Dear Rhoda,

    I subscribe via e-mail, and always take at least a quick look at your posts. I certainly don’t comment as often as I should, but I wanted you to know I’m sending caring thoughts your way.

    Every idea, experience, tip, or technique you share with your devoted following is filled with enthusiasm, creative energy, warmth, kindness, and generosity. You radiate such sweetness, and I think that’s part of why people are responding as they are to what your experiencing.

    I waited until today to write you, because I wanted to collect my thoughts. I still don’t have anything profound to say — just know that I appreciate you and wish you weren’t experiencing such a challenging situation. I know you’ll come out of it better and stronger, but take your time. We’re here for you.

    Fondly,
    Bill

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  14. Nancy says

    February 1, 2011 at 1:48 pm

    May you find happiness and peace in the coming months. I’ve read your blog on and off for 2 years but I’m not a big commenter. I will pray for your well being.

    God bless you.

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  15. Cindy says

    February 1, 2011 at 2:16 pm

    Oh Dear Friend, My heart breaks for you. Having very recently (Christmas Eve) lost my husband of 30 years, I can understand life changing, life shattering news! Though your changes may be more of ‘somebody’ elses’ choice, it is still change. Change is Hard stuff! Especially when we don’t expect it! From what I have been able to glean from your blog, you are a strong woman with a great faith. God will get you through this, just as He is helping me to do in these very difficult weeks since hubby’s passing! I encourage you to grieve well but also take very good care of yourself! Now is a time for a little pampering in the midst of your pain. It may not seem possible but it will be valuable in the days ahead! I will be praying for you as you begin this new life and find your new normal! I hate those words, but they are true! Life will never be ‘normal’ again, but a new normal will rise from the ashes and you will again be blessed! Love you, Cindy

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  16. Victoria says

    February 1, 2011 at 2:30 pm

    Rhoda, I feel like your friend even though we’ve never met. When I read on your blog this morning that you’re going through a difficult time – my heart sank knowing that my far away friend is in need. Please know that I, along with so many others, are thinking of you and feel your pain too.

    Things will get better. You just have to believe it and move forward . What goes around comes around and you deserve happiness Rhoda. Love,

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  17. Linda @ A La Carte says

    February 1, 2011 at 2:36 pm

    Rhoda, I wanted to also mention that I live in the Atlanta area and we have a great group of bloggers that get together on a regular basis. We hope you will join us one of these days when you get moved and ready! hugs, Linda

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  18. Patti says

    February 1, 2011 at 3:11 pm

    Sending you some kind words, and wishes of love, hope and support through your troubles. I just want you to know that you’ve inspired me through this blog in your writing and projects, etc. when I needed it. So thank you. And remember, this too shall pass.

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  19. Toni says

    February 1, 2011 at 4:21 pm

    I went to bed thinking about you and praying for you, even though I only know you from your blog. Having gone through major challenges myself, I know that it is Jesus who will carry you through. It is true because HE is true! As you have a wonderful gift for decorating surroundings into lovely spaces, I pray this is a season of “decorating your interior spaces” with God’s peace, truth and love……knowing that “He will never leave you or forsake you”. God bless, Toni

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  20. Sally says

    February 1, 2011 at 4:36 pm

    Rhoda,
    I have enjoyed reading your blog for some time now. You are truly an inspiration. I was so sad to hear that you are going through a difficult time. I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. We are all hear for you.
    All the best wishes to you!

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