It seems that I have a blog stalker who loves to drop by and leave me mean and nasty comments, all the way from the way I decorate, to yardsales, advertising, and the way I live my life. Since she continues to drop by every couple of weeks for the last month (and of course, hiding behind Anon. and usually at night when I’m not on the computer) I’d just like to take this opportunity to put her right where she apparently wants to be, front and center. And this will be the only time I address this here on the blog. I refuse to get into a “who can out retort who” contest.
Dear Anon: There are plenty of people who do like my blog and me, so I really don’t care what you think about me, my house, my decorating abilities, or my blog for that matter, so do yourself a favor and don’t come back. You promised that the last time and then again, last night decided to stop by and throw a little more mud my way. Your comments will continue to be deleted. I feel sorry for people like you who apparently have nothing better to do than sling criticisms and nastiness on others and it’s really very sad. So, I hope you’ll make good on your earlier promises and just be GONE. You are not a friend of mine and you’re not welcome here. I have the DELETE power and will just zap your comments if you decide to leave more, so don’t bother.
And here’s just a little advice for YOU. You might want to learn to spell if you continue to throw snarky comments at people who yard sale (not yard sail). There’s no boat involved in this sport. 🙂
Now, on to more fun topics!!
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Some of you have asked about choosing and making window treatments for your home, so I thought I’d just share a bit about how I came up with all of mine. Like I mentioned before, my mom has done all my sewing for me my whole life and has sewed countless window treatments for me, as I’ve used them for a few years and then got tired of the fabric or decided on another style. I usually keep them for at least 5-7 years and the ones in my house now are no exception. It’s too costly to trade out window treatments on a whim, so I try to stick with classics that will last a long time for me.
Now, let me just say that my window treatments would never pass the test of a real designer, but they work just fine for me. I’m sure a workroom seamstress will look at these pics of my mom’s sewn treatments with a frowny face and probably think that they look homemade and that’s fine. They work for me! 🙂
First up, my beachy guestroom that I redid for under $500. Since I found the comforter set at a yardsale, it was easy to just buy the 96” length panel for this window from Target. Done, finished. Hang it on a black iron swing-arm rod and this window is A-OK by me. Again, I’ll tell you that one trick I’ve learned is to hang those window treatments as high as you can on the windows. Hang them high and hang them wide, outside your actual window where the edge of your molding is covered, but not the entire window. Makes those windows look so much more important and bigger than they might be in person. This optical illusion works wonders on most all windows.
My mom made this little treatment for a screened porch I had and then redid it for my laundry room when I moved in this house. I had this apple green velvet from Ballards in my stash and she added the black leaf fabric to the top and bottom of this little treatment. I just shirred it on an iron rod and again, took it all the way to the ceiling. Trim is such a great way to personalize your window treatments. Even if you buy ready-made window treatments, you can always add some trim to them to give them an extra special look. This trim was left over from my kitchen project, which we’ll get to in a minute. I always save every scrap of trim just in case I can use it elsewhere. I love trim and have used my hot glue gun to add trim to pillows, but really prefer fabric glue. It just works and looks better to me. You don’t get those globs of glue that you get with the hot glue gun.
I’m not above buying panels out of a catalog either. These are some simple linen/cotton panels that I found at the Company Store online and the pair was about $70. Not bad at all. These aren’t even lined, but I loved the fabric pattern and since they were hanging on top of the wall and not covering the windows, it didn’t even matter if they were professionally lined or not. And actually, the catalog showed the dark border as the bottom of the window treatment, but it was so pretty and would be behind the sofa, that I switched it and put the prettiest part at the top. They fit the bill for my den and look great in here on a simple iron rod. So keep that in mind when you are looking at ready-made panels in the catalog. How can you change them to work in YOUR house. Oh and by the way, most of my window hardware you see in ALL these pics came from yardsales. Without exception, almost every single thing came from yardsales over the years. There are great things out there to be found, I’m tellin’ ya! So check those out as you’re looking too.
These are actually 2 valances that my mom made for me too. They started out as just the floral fabric and were simple little treatments that I think I had shirred on a rod at first. After I found the solid gold silk bee fabric at a yardsale for about $1, I asked her if she would rework them for me and add the silk on there. She did and this is what we came up with.
She added the gold silk as a cuff at the top and as a little skirt on the bottom and then we put a row of trim over the seam to dress it up. Since my one window here was way wider than my old house’s single window, I just hung these both together and they appear as one treatment now. This was a perfect treatment for this window coming up the stairs into our livingroom.
Our upstairs guestbath is really a very simple treatment to make. If you sew at all, you could do this one. It’s just a rectangle, lined on the back with off-white lining and I used clip rings to hang it from the iron rod. Again, my mom made this one too. With some brush fringe across the bottom, that adds a little pizazz for very little money. I couldn’t hang this one up any higher, since I needed to cover the top of the window.
This shower curtain topper was made pretty much the same way and the whole thing is shirred on a rod so has a rod pocket. Added the brush fringe again and that band of checked fabric was from my toile drapes in the other bedroom. I added the covered buttons just to make it more custom. You could do this with any combination of fabrics and that checked band is just hot glued together to form the swags.
I had 2 sets of toile drapes that my mom made me for my bedroom about 8 years ago. Still love this fabric combo and used one set of drapes in my dining room and one set in the toile guestroom. I was happy that it worked out like that since each room has one big window. The great thing about using panels is that you can move them from house to house and they will always work. Might need to hem them, but they still still work as long as you keep them long enough to begin with. These puddle slightly on the floor.
I took some pics underneath to show you how easy these are put together. This black checked topper is an upholstery weight material and is simple sewed back to back with the panel and the topper hangs down. Added some bullion fringe to this one too. I haven’t actually tried sewing panels, but I think I could do it. This is just simple straight line sewing.
Lined with white lining and hemmed on the sides. Again, this hardware, poles & honking big fleur de lis finials were found at a yardsale when I was in Atlanta.
Rings are sewn right onto the top of the panel and they form their own pleat with the heavier fabric on the topper.
Back of the topper fabric.
Again, mom made these blue silk drapes in our master bedroom. I love the little scalloped paisley she added to the top of these. I had seen a pic and asked her to try it and they turned out so cute. Unfortunately, this silk has faded along the edges since I hung these 3 years ago. The morning sun comes in here strong and even through the white blinds a lot of heat is generated. But, I’ll live with them for a few years before I change them out.
Behind the panel. And yes, I found this pole and finials at a yardsale too.
The little topper is just attached at the top and flops over the front.
While we’re in here, I thought I’d show you the Linden Street lamp I got from that deal a few months ago. I love this new lamp in here in the reading nook.
Now, to the kitchen. I’ve gotten a lot of questions about this fabric. I’ve had this valance for 7 years now and still love it. The fabric is Braemore Garden Tureen in Crimson and I don’t think you can find it anymore. At least, I haven’t seen it online in quite awhile. I do think there is a lime green version of it that is still available though.
I saw a valance like this at Forsyth Fabrics in Atlanta way back then and took pics of it front and back, so we could copy it. My mom did a great job with it and we figured out how to put it together and get the same look. It picked three fabrics for this and I love how they all work together. The plaid is just pleated and added on the bottom and the top is sewed as the lining and the topper and just folds over the top so it can be seen. Simple pleats along the top create the little bit of swag that you see and this window is wider than my old window was so I think I even took out a few of the pleats to make it wider. If you’re trying to make something like this, I think the rule of thumb is to make your valance about 2 times wider than your window and the pleats will take up a lot of the fabric too.
I fell in love with this fabric at first glance because it has bunnies on it.
See? This is what I fell in love with.
Again, trim from Forsyth’s in Atlanta was added along the seam at the bottom. At the time, I splurged on this trim and it really makes these.
And here’s the back of it so you can see how it was put together. We allowed enough of the green fabric to line the back and still have enough to drape over the top as a cuff. Rings were sewed on the top. See, not so hard when you see it put together.
So, I hope this has helped you all a little to see that you can have custom drapes without spending a fortune. Now I know you’ll probably say…..yeah, but your mom made all of those. And yes, she did. I’m sure blessed with that. But, there are a lot of seamstresses in every town who work at home and charge reasonable rates, so if you do want something custom made, it’s definitely worth it to get what you want.
Birmingham’s own, Pate Meadows, has some wonderful window treatment patterns, so check them out too if you haven’t before. Most of the fabric stores in Atlanta carry their patterns and I’ve used them several times. They are very stylish and Southern Living has used Pate Meadows treatments many times in their showhouses.
The best part about custom is you get to choose your fabrics. You’re not stuck with whatever the manufacturers are offering on their ready-mades. I just love having my own choice of fabrics and styles in my house. Not cookie-cutter at all. And I hope this gives you some inspiration to try something new in your own house. And better yet, learn to sew! I have that sewing machine I found at a yardsale, so I need to get busy myself and learn some new things about sewing.
For an extra special treat, go over to my friend, Judy’s blog for some design on a dime drapes. Drop cloth drapes with an attitude. You will love this one too!




OH, Rhoda. You've got some NASTY anonymous readers out there. I don't even know what to say. I'm so sorry, and I hope it doesn't distract from all the supportive readers you DO have. You are wonderful, and I love every post you put on here. I agree–just DELETE! They are mean people, and they mean nothing. As for the curtains…thank you for the tour! I loved seeing how you mixed so many different fabrics and prints together. They just look amazing!
Yes, Rhoda, pick a "chairty." (??!!!)
Good grief! Sorry you have to deal with blog stalker people. No fun!
What's fun? Your blog. I think you are a talented, fun, lady, and you've always been kind enough to reply to me when I have a question about something in one of your posts.
You keep on posting and don't take any bait from weirdos out there.
I adore the fabric in the first photo. So pretty. 🙂
Wow – I am so sad that I am following this. My heart is aching for you as I read this venom, plus its obvious that there does need to be an understanding on the $ behind blogging.
Bloggers don't get money for every hit…I wish.. Someone said that Rhoda gets 1000 hits a day, I can guarantee you it's 3-4 times that and see doesn't see a penny from those hits. Companies and small business owners approach bloggers to advertise – it's their choice,if they feel it's a good fit for their blog. That is the beauty of a blog for readers…it's free to use. They can be educated, and given tutorials and much more all for free. Blogging is a lot of hard work. It may not seem like it if it's done in such a conversational tone, but it's hours and hours of time spent uploading, writing, editing.
Thank you, Rhoda, for the time you spend giving people great ideas.
Isn't it wonderful that we are Americans and can pick and choose what we want to read? Not quite sure what keeps anon. people coming back when they don't like it. Sorry, I know that comments like this hurt.
You call that decorating? Well, girl you can come decorate MY house any old time! 🙂
Ick, I'm so sorry you have to deal with nasty people. That stinks and I hope you don't take the things said personally. (hard to do, I know…)
You keep doing what you're doing! You and your Cajun Shrimp toenails are enjoyed by many people in blogland!
Rhoda,
I love your window treatments! I would love to learn to sew so that I can make my own.
Wow to the ANON…I just can't believe it…Well actually I can. There are rude/mean people everywhere.
You are certainly welcome to do as you like, but so many bloggers are open only to praise and awards, they never want to hear from someone whose opinion differs from theirs. Bloggers are the ones putting themselves out in the world, if they don't want advertising dollars, then they should make their blog private.
As for commenting on your blog about the person, why? Why not just delete the comments you don't like? As my mom always told me, "ignore them and they will go away."
Great drapes! I enjoy reading your blog.
I wish those people with nasty comments would leave us all alone!
I always tell my kids that when other people put them down it's because they aren't happy with their own lives. So they have to put others down to make themselves feel better. You told her though! 🙂
I love all of your window treatments. I adore the bunny fabric, of course. 🙂
(And I love your blog too!)
Oh wow! So, so nasty! Don't let it get to you though. You have a great blog and I really enjoy it! You can update with your great ideas as many times a day as you like. It's YOUR blog! I'll be back and I hope for all of us, Anon doesn't.
Keep your chin up 🙂
Hi there, sweet Rhoda – so sorry for that nasty anonymous. 🙂 I love all of your window treatments (golly, jee – how many windows do you have in your house, HA HA)… but I think my favorite is the shower curtain topper…. fabulous! Thanks so much for sharing!
Oh Rhoda!!! I read your column daily. LOVE you. Have never commented before. Don't even know how to use my picture, so therefore, I'm anon. I'm still laughing out.loud. about yard sail. That just cracks me up!! That made my day. I'm sorry that it was at your blog's expense. Thank you for sharing your decorating talents and humor with me. I shall keep reading as long as you keep blogging.
Adrienne
You have so many beautiful fabrics!! Just gorgeous. I really do have to start yard saleing. Good grief I am missing out on some great deals.
I thought you were kidding at first about the anon commenter…. what could somebody possibly have to complain about in what you do? Everything is fabulous.
I like your blog; I think you are beautiful; how you live your life is your business; and your decorating style is absolutely lovely. Count me as a fan!
I love your blog, your style and your decorating ideas.
Speaking of spelling: I was trying to type something once that said "I was going yard saling". Well spell check disagrees with that spelling. It suggested sailing or selling. I was doing neither of those so I stuck with saling. Spell check just doesn't understand.
It's obvious Annon was never taught that if you don't have anything nice to say…..
I think you are great and you have fab ideas! I definitely could learn a thing or two from you on yard sales. I never think about going to them. You find such treasures!
Blessings to ya Girl!
Howdy Rhoda
Being a southern gal and from Texas at that I tend to dive in head first and mouth wide open 🙂
I love my visits to your blog.
Thank you for sharing all the great information to those of us who both appreciate and need your input.
Thank you for all the awesome photos today.
I learned a lot.
I am sorry you have been bothered
by a nameless faceless person with so much emptiness in their own life.
You just rememeber to eliminate the negative and latch on to the postive .
Karma is one mean broad !
Blessings to you sweetie.
Hugs
you go girl!!! I love your window treatments. any ideas on a blue room that has a lighthouse border. I am in the market to update the two windows in there. they are side by side. the light house is black and white strip and I have used black frames on the wall.
I'm sorry someone has been leaving you ugly comments, such a shame that some people have nothing better to do with their time.
I love your blog and can't imagine anyone having anything bad to say about you or your blog.
Tracy
I am so sorry someone was so cruel to you. I love visiting you and have learned so much and have received some fantastic recipes. Thank you for having this wonderful blog I can visit.
Janice
are people really that bored, that they really have nothing else to do. i really feel sorry for someone like that.
your blog is great, they are probably just jealous.