It seems that I have a blog stalker who loves to drop by and leave me mean and nasty comments, all the way from the way I decorate, to yardsales, advertising, and the way I live my life. Since she continues to drop by every couple of weeks for the last month (and of course, hiding behind Anon. and usually at night when I’m not on the computer) I’d just like to take this opportunity to put her right where she apparently wants to be, front and center. And this will be the only time I address this here on the blog. I refuse to get into a “who can out retort who” contest.
Dear Anon: There are plenty of people who do like my blog and me, so I really don’t care what you think about me, my house, my decorating abilities, or my blog for that matter, so do yourself a favor and don’t come back. You promised that the last time and then again, last night decided to stop by and throw a little more mud my way. Your comments will continue to be deleted. I feel sorry for people like you who apparently have nothing better to do than sling criticisms and nastiness on others and it’s really very sad. So, I hope you’ll make good on your earlier promises and just be GONE. You are not a friend of mine and you’re not welcome here. I have the DELETE power and will just zap your comments if you decide to leave more, so don’t bother.
And here’s just a little advice for YOU. You might want to learn to spell if you continue to throw snarky comments at people who yard sale (not yard sail). There’s no boat involved in this sport. 🙂
Now, on to more fun topics!!
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Some of you have asked about choosing and making window treatments for your home, so I thought I’d just share a bit about how I came up with all of mine. Like I mentioned before, my mom has done all my sewing for me my whole life and has sewed countless window treatments for me, as I’ve used them for a few years and then got tired of the fabric or decided on another style. I usually keep them for at least 5-7 years and the ones in my house now are no exception. It’s too costly to trade out window treatments on a whim, so I try to stick with classics that will last a long time for me.
Now, let me just say that my window treatments would never pass the test of a real designer, but they work just fine for me. I’m sure a workroom seamstress will look at these pics of my mom’s sewn treatments with a frowny face and probably think that they look homemade and that’s fine. They work for me! 🙂
First up, my beachy guestroom that I redid for under $500. Since I found the comforter set at a yardsale, it was easy to just buy the 96” length panel for this window from Target. Done, finished. Hang it on a black iron swing-arm rod and this window is A-OK by me. Again, I’ll tell you that one trick I’ve learned is to hang those window treatments as high as you can on the windows. Hang them high and hang them wide, outside your actual window where the edge of your molding is covered, but not the entire window. Makes those windows look so much more important and bigger than they might be in person. This optical illusion works wonders on most all windows.
My mom made this little treatment for a screened porch I had and then redid it for my laundry room when I moved in this house. I had this apple green velvet from Ballards in my stash and she added the black leaf fabric to the top and bottom of this little treatment. I just shirred it on an iron rod and again, took it all the way to the ceiling. Trim is such a great way to personalize your window treatments. Even if you buy ready-made window treatments, you can always add some trim to them to give them an extra special look. This trim was left over from my kitchen project, which we’ll get to in a minute. I always save every scrap of trim just in case I can use it elsewhere. I love trim and have used my hot glue gun to add trim to pillows, but really prefer fabric glue. It just works and looks better to me. You don’t get those globs of glue that you get with the hot glue gun.
I’m not above buying panels out of a catalog either. These are some simple linen/cotton panels that I found at the Company Store online and the pair was about $70. Not bad at all. These aren’t even lined, but I loved the fabric pattern and since they were hanging on top of the wall and not covering the windows, it didn’t even matter if they were professionally lined or not. And actually, the catalog showed the dark border as the bottom of the window treatment, but it was so pretty and would be behind the sofa, that I switched it and put the prettiest part at the top. They fit the bill for my den and look great in here on a simple iron rod. So keep that in mind when you are looking at ready-made panels in the catalog. How can you change them to work in YOUR house. Oh and by the way, most of my window hardware you see in ALL these pics came from yardsales. Without exception, almost every single thing came from yardsales over the years. There are great things out there to be found, I’m tellin’ ya! So check those out as you’re looking too.
These are actually 2 valances that my mom made for me too. They started out as just the floral fabric and were simple little treatments that I think I had shirred on a rod at first. After I found the solid gold silk bee fabric at a yardsale for about $1, I asked her if she would rework them for me and add the silk on there. She did and this is what we came up with.
She added the gold silk as a cuff at the top and as a little skirt on the bottom and then we put a row of trim over the seam to dress it up. Since my one window here was way wider than my old house’s single window, I just hung these both together and they appear as one treatment now. This was a perfect treatment for this window coming up the stairs into our livingroom.
Our upstairs guestbath is really a very simple treatment to make. If you sew at all, you could do this one. It’s just a rectangle, lined on the back with off-white lining and I used clip rings to hang it from the iron rod. Again, my mom made this one too. With some brush fringe across the bottom, that adds a little pizazz for very little money. I couldn’t hang this one up any higher, since I needed to cover the top of the window.
This shower curtain topper was made pretty much the same way and the whole thing is shirred on a rod so has a rod pocket. Added the brush fringe again and that band of checked fabric was from my toile drapes in the other bedroom. I added the covered buttons just to make it more custom. You could do this with any combination of fabrics and that checked band is just hot glued together to form the swags.
I had 2 sets of toile drapes that my mom made me for my bedroom about 8 years ago. Still love this fabric combo and used one set of drapes in my dining room and one set in the toile guestroom. I was happy that it worked out like that since each room has one big window. The great thing about using panels is that you can move them from house to house and they will always work. Might need to hem them, but they still still work as long as you keep them long enough to begin with. These puddle slightly on the floor.
I took some pics underneath to show you how easy these are put together. This black checked topper is an upholstery weight material and is simple sewed back to back with the panel and the topper hangs down. Added some bullion fringe to this one too. I haven’t actually tried sewing panels, but I think I could do it. This is just simple straight line sewing.
Lined with white lining and hemmed on the sides. Again, this hardware, poles & honking big fleur de lis finials were found at a yardsale when I was in Atlanta.
Rings are sewn right onto the top of the panel and they form their own pleat with the heavier fabric on the topper.
Back of the topper fabric.
Again, mom made these blue silk drapes in our master bedroom. I love the little scalloped paisley she added to the top of these. I had seen a pic and asked her to try it and they turned out so cute. Unfortunately, this silk has faded along the edges since I hung these 3 years ago. The morning sun comes in here strong and even through the white blinds a lot of heat is generated. But, I’ll live with them for a few years before I change them out.
Behind the panel. And yes, I found this pole and finials at a yardsale too.
The little topper is just attached at the top and flops over the front.
While we’re in here, I thought I’d show you the Linden Street lamp I got from that deal a few months ago. I love this new lamp in here in the reading nook.
Now, to the kitchen. I’ve gotten a lot of questions about this fabric. I’ve had this valance for 7 years now and still love it. The fabric is Braemore Garden Tureen in Crimson and I don’t think you can find it anymore. At least, I haven’t seen it online in quite awhile. I do think there is a lime green version of it that is still available though.
I saw a valance like this at Forsyth Fabrics in Atlanta way back then and took pics of it front and back, so we could copy it. My mom did a great job with it and we figured out how to put it together and get the same look. It picked three fabrics for this and I love how they all work together. The plaid is just pleated and added on the bottom and the top is sewed as the lining and the topper and just folds over the top so it can be seen. Simple pleats along the top create the little bit of swag that you see and this window is wider than my old window was so I think I even took out a few of the pleats to make it wider. If you’re trying to make something like this, I think the rule of thumb is to make your valance about 2 times wider than your window and the pleats will take up a lot of the fabric too.
I fell in love with this fabric at first glance because it has bunnies on it.
See? This is what I fell in love with.
Again, trim from Forsyth’s in Atlanta was added along the seam at the bottom. At the time, I splurged on this trim and it really makes these.
And here’s the back of it so you can see how it was put together. We allowed enough of the green fabric to line the back and still have enough to drape over the top as a cuff. Rings were sewed on the top. See, not so hard when you see it put together.
So, I hope this has helped you all a little to see that you can have custom drapes without spending a fortune. Now I know you’ll probably say…..yeah, but your mom made all of those. And yes, she did. I’m sure blessed with that. But, there are a lot of seamstresses in every town who work at home and charge reasonable rates, so if you do want something custom made, it’s definitely worth it to get what you want.
Birmingham’s own, Pate Meadows, has some wonderful window treatment patterns, so check them out too if you haven’t before. Most of the fabric stores in Atlanta carry their patterns and I’ve used them several times. They are very stylish and Southern Living has used Pate Meadows treatments many times in their showhouses.
The best part about custom is you get to choose your fabrics. You’re not stuck with whatever the manufacturers are offering on their ready-mades. I just love having my own choice of fabrics and styles in my house. Not cookie-cutter at all. And I hope this gives you some inspiration to try something new in your own house. And better yet, learn to sew! I have that sewing machine I found at a yardsale, so I need to get busy myself and learn some new things about sewing.
For an extra special treat, go over to my friend, Judy’s blog for some design on a dime drapes. Drop cloth drapes with an attitude. You will love this one too!
Orange Peanut says
You are just great and I have to say, you are very clever and have great taste! I stop by from time to time and enjoy everything I have seen!
Michelle@Fromhousetohome says
Great curtain ideas! I hope that nasty person stays away.
~Michelle
Tales From My Empty Nest says
Sorry you are having problems!!! I have read many other blogs who have been having problems lately. It is sad to me that some people have nothing better to do than hurt others with their hurtful comments. Love your beautiful window treatments!! Thanks for sharing all your wonderful ideas and tips regarding window treatments. Love & blessings from NC!
Amanda says
Thank you for taking the time to share your window treatments. They are lovely!
You are blessed to have such a helpful Mom!
Blessings,
Amanda
Centsational Girl says
Love that black and white damask and that toile. You are so talented !
Rhoda Rocks !
Cote de Texas says
hhehe – glad to know I'm not the only one terrorized. Jeez – I mean – just don't read it!!!
ok – my favorites are the panels from the catalogue Company store -I don't know why – I just love those. And I also love the toile ones too. I need some in my family room – can i borrow your mom for a while???????
And Judy's are fabulous too!!!
Carole says
My thinking is that this person must be jealous of all your beautiful creations. How could anyone not like your decorating style. I'm new to this blog but find all your posts and details wonderful. I especially like this one about the window treatments since I have been trying to create my own and this gives me great inspiration. I really love your shower curtain!
Jessica says
Morning Rhoda~
I have to admit I've been stalking your blog for awhile….I find such inspiration here. 🙂 It's a shame some feel the need to be unnecessarily ugly. Keep on posting & I hope you have a great weekend!
~ J ~
Anonymous says
Love seeing all the window treatments. I am one of those you (long ago) sent the directions to for the kitchen valance. I love it.
Regarding your *stalker*, I'm sorry this is happening. I havent' seen the comments, but I think I would ignore her (him?). Someone trying to cause trouble I suppose. Try praying for him/her, they must be very unhappy in their own life.
tina
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Rhoda @ Southern Hospitality says
Thank you ALL for your overwhelming support and great comments. Really makes my day! 🙂 Truly!
To the Anon looking for the link to Judy's curtains, it is there, just hover on the words.
BTW, Judy and I are meeting up today for some fun shopping here in town! YAY!
Nancy says
Mornin' Rhoda,
I am so sorry to hear about some evil NUT, that is causing problems! I have heard of this same thing on another blog. I hope this is not going to be like RMS…at least we can delete the comments, here!
Your window treatments are beautiful! Thanks for sharing them with us.
Hope you have a great weekend!
Nancy
Kara says
So sorry about your anonymous creep, I really hope that you are not taking it personally. You have a fabulous blog and inspire so many people like me to try new things. You are loved!!
Oh, and your drapes are all gorgeous!
KKB says
I {great big heart} you and your blog!! I've learned a lot from you and thanks, thanks thanks!! xoxo
Natalie says
Go Rhoda! A favorite saying of mine is, "I don't mind, you don't matter!" Keep in that in mind when you receive rude comments. Your sight is lovely and your true followers admire your sense of style (and how you can put rudeness in its' place!) hahaha…
Your curtains are delightful! What talent you possess!
Have a happy weekend!
The Stylish House, LLC. says
Rhonda,
You are one classy and talented lady who is loved by many! I guess you know you have really made it when you get these horrid and nasty comments. Now on to this post, WOW you have some great window inspiration here. Thank you for sharing. ~Cathy~
Angie Antwine says
Hi there!
Please, please, please, don't let the nasty person get to you! You did the right thing by addressing it! I just LOVE your blog and look forward to checking it daily. You have given me so many great ideas for my home. Keep up the good work and don't worry about those folks who have nothing better to do than rain on other's parades! Take care!=D
~Angie
Richella says
Thank you so much for this post! The pictures are wonderful, and it's great to read about how all these beautiful treatments really can be made at home. God bless your mom for doing this sewing for you. What fun the two of you must have.
And GOOD FOR YOU for dealing with the mean comments. As a new blogger, it's hard for me to imagine having blog traffic that's mean-spirited, but I'm sure that this does happen. What a good idea to address this head-on. One of the things I love about blogging is that most people I've run into are so kind and encouraging–and that's the way it should be.
Keep up the good work! You are very much admired and appreciated.
Torey says
I can't imagine why anyone would want to attack such a sweet and lovely lady. . . Is there anyway to just turn off the anon comments? Really, everyone can just get a google account can't they?
Margaret says
Dear Rhoda,
It amazes me with all that is going on this this world, that some people will actually troll blogs in order to spread negativity. There is nothing forcing any of us to check in daily to your wonderful blog. We read because your kindness and inspiration gives all of us a boost to improve our homes and have a little fun while we're doing it! You come across as such a genuine person and somebody who would be a loyal and fun friend. I can tell your readers from personal experience, that you have a lot of talent and great ideas to share. You sincerely want to help people who are stuck with a decorating dilemma or those who just want some ideas to make the most of their home decor. I hope you know that your blog is a bright spot in my day and I always find myself smiling while enjoying your humor and ideas.
Your house is beautiful! I love your taste. Thank you for sharing your time and talent with all of us who think you are GREAT!
Margaret, Virginia Beach
Roeshel says
Great tips and gorgeous drapery! You have me looking around and wanting to change it up! Thanks for the inspiration – as usual!
Sorry to hear about the blog bully. My guess is annon has a case of jealousy. You're the sweetest and there's no reason for ugly here.
TGIF! Have a great weekend!