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Pappy’s Memorial

February 15, 2008 By Rhoda 34 Comments

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Peter’s kids and their Pappy last October.

Last fall, I wrote about and mentioned that my husband’s grandfather (Pappy) had cancer. He was 97 and the prognosis wasn’t good anyway, but because of his age, treatment was limited. Pappy passed away on January 30th. We are sad to lose him, but he has lived a long, full, gracious life and was ready to go, after outliving two wives. My hubby had the chance to sit down with him just 2 weeks before he passed to talk and visit and share some things that were heartfelt and real. He was still very lucid and communicated his thoughts very well. It was a blessing that he lived his last months relatively pain-free and still had a very sharp mind. He was still driving as of the end of summer last year.

My hubby’s children, as well as his large, extended family are all gathering this Saturday for a Memorial service to celebrate the sweet memories and thoughts of a life well-lived by their Pappy. He was truly the patriarch of this family. I don’t think it will be a deeply sad day for all the family, but rather happy that he had such a long time here on this earth and is now out of pain and in a much better place. We know where he is spending eternity and that is always a comforting thought.

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  1. Susie Q says

    February 15, 2008 at 5:59 pm

    He loved an amazing life and was loved by his family. That is a true testament to a wonderful man.
    Bless him now as he enters into God’s care.
    Hugs to your husband for me dear Rhoda…and to you as well.

    Love,
    Sue

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  2. Tara says

    February 15, 2008 at 6:03 pm

    You’re right, not sad but a celebration of a life well-lived!

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  3. Betty says

    February 15, 2008 at 6:45 pm

    Rhoda,
    I’m sure he would be happy to know that his family is celebrating a home going and not tears of sadness…Betty

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  4. BailiwickDesigns says

    February 15, 2008 at 6:46 pm

    I’m so sorry for your loss. You’re right – 97 years is a very full life, and when those years have been well lived there are always wonderful memories that keep right on living. ::Jill

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  5. Anonymous says

    February 15, 2008 at 7:42 pm

    My condolences to you and your hubby. How wonderful that the family is getting together to celebrate such a wonderful life.
    Hugs, Lucy

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  6. francie says

    February 15, 2008 at 7:53 pm

    Condolences, love and hugs to your family. But joy comes in the morning! 🙂

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  7. PAT says

    February 15, 2008 at 7:59 pm

    Peter’s grandfather was a wonderful man, I can see that in the photos. To pay tribute to him with a celebration of his life is so very appropriate. I know he is missed, but the memories you all have of him will keep him with you.

    Our condolences, Pat and Jim

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  8. Rosemary says

    February 15, 2008 at 10:45 pm

    It sounds like he had a long and wonderful life.
    I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
    Rosemary

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  9. He Knows My Name says

    February 15, 2008 at 11:05 pm

    rhoda i am so sorry to hear this news. pappy was from a generation that i admire so much. they just don’t make them like that anymore. like brokaw said they truly are the “greatest generaton”. my sympathy to your family ~janel

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  10. justabeachkat says

    February 16, 2008 at 12:34 am

    I love your last sentence – “We know where he is spending eternity and that is always a comforting thought.” Because of this and because he lived such a long loving life, I’m sure it will be easier to celebrate his life rather than morn his death.

    Hugs!
    Kat

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  11. Jen says

    February 16, 2008 at 12:49 am

    Rhoda, I am sorry for your family’s loss. What a wonderful life “Pappy” must have lived and I am sure his legacy will be one to treasure. Celebrating his life will be a comfort to those who loved him most. It is so great that the family can come together for such an event.
    Many Blessings to you,
    Jen

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  12. Cottage Contessa says

    February 16, 2008 at 4:25 am

    I’m sorry for your family’s loss of this dear, amazing man. Hugs for you.
    Amanda (aka Cottage Contessa)

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  13. Adrienne says

    February 16, 2008 at 6:37 am

    Rhoda –
    It’s hard to lose a wonderful person no matter their age. My prayers are with you and the family as you gather to share his life and the love each one had for him and from him. Thankfully he had a long, good life.
    ~Adrienne~

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  14. the feathered nest says

    February 16, 2008 at 8:35 am

    Sorry to hear that, but it sounds like he had a long and wonderful life! What wonderful memories you all must share!

    Hugs to your family,

    Manuela

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  15. Jen says

    February 16, 2008 at 8:57 am

    I’m sending you hugs for your weekend…losing someone we love is so hard..

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  16. Niesz Vintage Home says

    February 16, 2008 at 9:59 am

    I’m so sorry for you and our family’s loss. It sounds like he had a very rich and rewarding life surrounded by family and friends.

    Truely a blessing.

    Kimberly 🙂

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  17. Rosie's Whimsy says

    February 16, 2008 at 10:10 am

    My condolences, Rhoda. Sounds like you have a treasure trove of memories….that is a most valuable legacy. ((hugs)) Rosie

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  18. Diane says

    February 16, 2008 at 12:50 pm

    HI Rhoda
    I am so glad that you have the comfort of knowing where his spirit is! There is a party in heaven upon each new arrival. I am sure of it!
    xoxo
    Diane

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  19. Cre8Tiva says

    February 16, 2008 at 1:18 pm

    a celebration of life is always a blessing…will be thinking of you all…i have missed visiting you…hugs, r

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  20. Penny @ Lavender Hill Studio says

    February 16, 2008 at 1:18 pm

    What a wonderful memorial post. I will be thinking about Pappy and your family today.
    Penny

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