How many more recaps like this will I write? I have no idea, but welcome to year 16 in my blogging journey. I’ve written recaps sharing my blog story all the way back to the beginning in 2007, so if you missed those, it might be worth a read. Blogging has been part of my life for so long that I can’t imagine not doing it anymore. This year has some changes coming, however, and I’m excited to share those with you all!

I have to say that this is the year I start pulling back a bit and not posting as much. I’m not planning to quit in the foreseeable future, I will probably leave my blog up until the internet is no more (I doubt that will happen) or I get too old to type on here, whichever comes first. Ha! But, I no longer have the burning desire to keep climbing higher on the internet or social media. That feeling has been with me for a few years and is even more pronounced now. I want to settle into a semi-retirement I guess you could call it, posting when I feel like it and still sharing some old content as I have been doing for several years too.
I’ve written around 4,000 posts on this blog over those 16 years and that’s a lot of talking! It’s been so fun for me and I can’t imagine stopping it, so I will not. But…and there’s always a but, I want to be free to slow it down even more than I have and not worry at all if I don’t post. I’ve watched others stop blogging and just cold turkey quit. I don’t plan to do that either, but slow blogging is a term I’m going to embrace.

Mark and I have been in our house for 5 years now and we are almost at the end of our project journey in this house. No, we aren’t moving either as many I’ve seen do, to buy another house or build a house to then showcase on their blog or social media. We’re not about to do that. We love our house and are staying here for the long haul, but that means we don’t have a lot more projects to do and that might get a little boring since I do write this blog and DIY and home improvement are a big part of what I write about.

My goal for this year is to travel more. I’ve been saying that for awhile and we are finally going to do it. The last couple of years have been weird travel years anyway, with the pandemic things have been not so normal, but hopefully that’s all opening up more now. Thank goodness for that!

{This Daisy dog gives me joy!}
On that note, let me just say that as I said for the last couple of years on my yearly recap that I’m still extremely concerned about our country and the world in general. Our entire country seems to have lost its mind all at one time, on every front and it’s very disconcerting to say the least. I’ve never been very political on this blog, but the last few years have caused me to do more research and reading than I ever have in my life and what I’ve found is not a pretty picture. Many of you know exactly what I mean. I won’t get any deeper into the state of our country on here (you don’t come here for politics), but life has been very hard and is likely to get harder this year for so many. It breaks my heart to see where our country is at this time. If you have been reading my blog for long, you know I’m a conservative girl and that’s where I lean politically. That hasn’t changed a bit but my eyes have surely been opened even more the last few years. God is our only hope, our refuge in time of trouble and I know that His will and truth will prevail. That gives me much comfort in what we are all facing in the future. The outlook looks so dismal, but my faith is strong that God will see us through, no matter what comes our way. We cannot give up hope.
I loved the December 31st devotional from my Streams in the Desert:Â
Thus far has the Lord helped us. (1 Samuel 7:12)
Yes, He sure has and I know he will continue to help us.

{Charleston}
So back to the blog. We really want to travel more this year…go to new places we haven’t been before, in the US and out of the country. I don’t know yet what all that will be, but I’m going to start planning more trips. I have to find places we can visit that don’t require the vax, you know the one. We did not, nor will we ever get the shots, so that could be a deterrent for where we travel depending on policies in the future. That’s not a political statement, nor do I wish to argue, but that’s our position and we are united on that front. For instance, Viking requires all passengers to be vaxxed, so it looks like we will never go on another Viking cruise unless their policy changes. I’m reading up on those policies to find out which cruise lines don’t have the mandate. So far, from what I’ve read, NCL and Royal Caribbean do not. I’d like to do a European cruise this spring/summer and then we plan to go back to New England in the fall. So I can see us doing way more travel and weekend trips and of course, I’ll share all those here on the blog. You might not see a lot of brand new things going on house wise, but I’ll keep the blog going at a pace I’m happy with. Now is the time for us to travel before we get any older.

I can’t believe that the time has come for me to draw SS payments, but it’s here. My full retirement age is 66 and 4 months and if you’re close to my age, you know what that means. April here I come! I’m looking forward to a little more travel money to play with. There are so many places I’d like to see and visit and that will be a clear focus for us as we move into this year, so be prepared for me to take longer breaks between posts. I’m just not sure yet what all I’ll be posting, but I do think it will be less. My plan is for my blog to be part of my retirement income and I’ll keep it going even if one day I stop posting much of anything new.

I’d love to hear from all of you too.
What do you like the most? Please feel free to chime in here and let me know what you think on what I post here on the blog.
I know my posts about my parents are always popular and you love them, so of course I’ll continue to share our family. That’s a given. We don’t know how long we will have mom and dad with us, so I will do recaps all along about them and their health.
I’ll continue to do the weekly series Home Style Saturdays and Style Showcase with my friends. You’ve probably figured out by now that those posts are recycled posts that we share with each other, so chances are you might not have seen them all and it gives us a great opportunity to share content with each other’s audience and yes, helps us keep traffic flowing on our blogs. Thanks for supporting those weekly features! We all have some really great content and sometimes it gets buried so it’s nice to show it off again.
I’m not sure if I’ll continue the Friday Favorites series on a regular basis. I might do once a month or so, we will see how it goes.
Life feels so short at times, the days fly by and we want to make the most of it, so thank you for joining my journey and reading along. I will probably continue some fashion posts during the year, but that’s not going to be a huge focus for me either. I may do a couple shares a month. If anything, trying to share fashion when I started that a few years ago has gotten even more challenging since I don’t plan to buy new clothes all the time just so I can share them and make commissions. That’s the thing about being a fashion blogger, you have to constantly share new clothes to make a living. I’m so glad I didn’t choose that solely as my topic. Once those clothes can’t be affiliate linked, they are useless to share. So that’s not what I want to depend on to make a living, nor do I want to spend my time on that. There are a ton of fashion bloggers to follow if that’s your thing. I love clothes, but I can’t do it all the time.

I’d like to get more involved in my community, so that’s going to be a focus too. I am a member of our local Acworth Business Association and I’ve enjoyed getting to know other women in my community. I’m trying to join the tourism board as a volunteer and I’m hoping a spot opens up for me this year on that. So those are a few things I’d like to get more involved in. I’d like to help make my own community a better place.
How can you support me and my blog?Â
God has blessed my blog more than I could have ever dreamed 16 years ago when I started it. I make a very nice living off my blog. My ad network revenue is the main way I make this blog work. So let me mention this to you all.
The best way you can support me and my blog is to continue to come here, LIVE on my blog when I post and open my emails when I send them out and read the posts here. That’s the VERY BEST way to support me.
That’s the main way I make an income and blog pageviews is how I get paid from my ad network. I’m so grateful that I have the opportunity to make a business of this blog and it’s supported me well for over 10 years of making money. God has truly restored everything I lost when I moved from Birmingham to Atlanta all those years ago (2011). He is faithful and has never let me down and I’m eternally grateful!
I know that ads are annoying and I still get comments about that sometimes. I think reading on a phone is probably the most annoying way to read a blog and that’s where most of the ad intrusion comes in. I read on my laptop for most everything I read these days and I don’t see the popups like some of you have said. But, again thank you for looking past the ads and for your support all these years. I couldn’t do it without your continued support.
Amazon Shop and Home Decor links
The other ways you can support me is to buy through my affiliate links on Amazon and Like to Know It. I don’t share links constantly, but if you can please help me out there too. I make commissions when you use my links and that adds to my income.
You can find all my links under Shop my Home on the home page of my blog on the menu bar.
I have an Amazon shop with lots of good products that I use and some that I love and recommend as well. The shop has categories you can look at with lots of products. Anytime you buy from Amazon and use my link, I earn a small commission without it costing you anything extra. Thank you for buying through my links!
I also have many items linked in my Home Decor page here on the blog that I update along the way. Some of the links are things in my house and they might not be available anymore, but I link all I can that are active.

Another Fact of Blogging for So Long
My email list has declined over the years instead of growing. People unsubscribe and remove themselves and so that’s also disheartening, but a real part of blogging that I have to deal with. My pageviews here continue to decline year after year, so I don’t know what things will look like in 5 more years. Five years ago, my pageviews were double what they are now. That’s the truth of running a website and I face all the challenges with a BIG dose of reality. There’s so much competition for pageviews and even though there is room for all, people only have so much time to go around and reading blogs might not be at the top of the list all the time. I totally get that. That’s why I want to step back and just do this at my own slower pace. I can still make a nice income, but I don’t feel the pressure to try to grow anymore. I still see the hustle going on out there and I don’t want to be a part of that. I’ve done very well over these years and have had much success at blogging way past any of my expectations and I’m so grateful for the blessings that blogging has meant to me.

As I draw this to a close, thank you all again for ALL your support and love over the years. I’m not going anywhere, but again, I do plan to slow it down and that means less posts and more breaks over the year. Posts may be more sporadic and slower to come. If we go on vacation, I’ll no longer feel the need to do a lot of posts to share when I’m gone. I just don’t have it all figured out yet, but I feel the need to take any pressure off and just be me, living life at the pace I feel like going. That includes social media. I still have a presence on all the social media sites, but I don’t feel the pressure to perform there at all anymore. I will share when I want to and I do not care if I grow on those at all either.
This recap might be a bit different from the others, but it’s where my heart is headed for now. Thank you all again, I could have never made this blog successful without a core audience to share with and you all make that possible! With that being said, bring on 2023! I’m ready for it! And I’m ready to travel and see more of the beautiful world that God created for us!




Rhoda, I have been following your blog postings for well over 10 years. during the early years of your blogging, I learned a lot about do-it-yourself projects. I have really enjoyed following you all these years and enjoy the posts that you have given us about your family. I wish you the best of luck going forward and look forward to any posts that you have in the future. enjoy your travels and enjoy your semi-retirement.
Thank you Rhoda! Been with you a long time and will continue to be there with you. Love your blog content and your heart.
Follow your heart, Rhoda….I totally understand. You put so much of yourself into your posts! I have followed your blog for a long time, and really enjoy the variety of posts. Enjoy your travels. Keep us updated on Mom and Dad. And I agree, “thus far He has helped us”, and He will continue to…
I cannot remember when I started following you but it has been at least 12 years. I totally understand your desire to scale back. Excited to continue following you in your travels and life.
Rhoda, I’ve truly enjoyed all your posts. I repeat what others have said, follow your heart and your convictions. I’m feel the same way you do on all your points about this current state of the country and world. I hold out hope that the pendulum will swing. I believe one must stay true to themselves.
Rhoda, I love all your posts and I truly understand slowing down. If you are looking at cruises, check out Regent. They are not requiring vaccinations unless a particular country requires. Most of Europe currently does not. Relax and enjoy your life with Mark and your sweet parents. Your followers will still be there.
Hi, Pat, thank you, I went on a tour of Regent in Miami in late 2019 and the ship was fabulous, but honestly I don’t know if it’s affordable or not. I’ll have to check them out. I was hoping they would sponsor a trip and send me, but that hasn’t happened yet.
I had never heard of the word ‘blog’ before our dear friend, Vicki, suggested I take a look at Southern Hospitality. I’ve enjoyed every one of your posts since that day. I’m reminded often these days that life is a circle. You and your sweet hubby are simply at a new place in your circle. No one deserves to slow down a bit more than you. I will still enjoy every post. Enjoy every second of your new place in your circle. I’ll enjoy hearing your stories however often they come my way.
I am glad you are not going to stop posting altogether. But I totally understand why you want to scale it back. I look forward to reading about your trips! Best wishes for 2023!
Have fun traveling Rhoda! I am praying for the country and world and so are many neighbors and friends. God bless you and your family
I’m right in step with what you’ve said. I read all your posts. I’ll be interested in where you travel which has no vax requirements (come visit UT). Incidentally, you look so much like my sister-in-law that when I read your posts, I feel like it’s a family visit! Take care!
I’ve been with you a long time and always enjoyed your posts, especially the home improvements and tours of other homes. Thanks for sharing your family with us too. Wishing you the best in the next chapter of life (I’m almost SS age too) and hope you have great experiences wherever you land! Praying for our country too!
I’ve been following you since almost the beginning of your blog. You’re one of three I’ve never unfollowed. You are genuine and your light shines through everything you do. My husband and I plan to do more traveling now too. Maybe you can stop here and give everyone pointers and tips? Regardless, thank you for everything you do and enjoy your travels with Mark!
I love your blog posts for many years and have enjoyed seeing find love again in life. I’ll take whatever and whenever you feel like posting. I know that many enjoy your projects but also find your recipes and fitness inspiring too.
Rhoda, your blog is really the only one I follow and I have enjoyed it for about five years. I love your style, share your values, and always enjoy your post about your mom and dad and of course Daisy. I am contemplating a semi-retirement as well, so I completely understand where you are. Enjoy this new chapter of your life.
I’ve followed you from the beginning and have loved reading about your remodels and your family. I also enjoy your Instagram posts. Blessings to you and Mark! Vickie @laurin_and_lee
I have been reading your posts for many years. I can truly say that yours is the only one that I have been consistent with, mainly because you talk about a variety of subjects without pushing any specific agenda…i.e. clothing, decorating, etc. I love hearing about your parents and your family, all of the projects, your stories……I, too, am conservative and I pray that our great country will be safe from within and without of the rampant dissension occurring all around us. Will look forward to your 2023 posts from wherever you are and wish you the very best in your journey!
Good for you! You need to take time to do all the things you can and enjoy life. I also feel like it will just get harder from here on out. In particular, I would love if you can share what you find about places to visit that don’t require the poke. We will not be doing that even if it means we can’t travel. The last time I checked American Cruise Lines wasn’t requiring it and they have some nice trips. We are planning a New England one with them. Good luck and I look forward to any posts you share. I appreciate your light in a darkening world 😊
Have been with you since the beginning-favorite posts are about your family -love keeping up with mom and dad and the kids. I am looking forward to more travel posts as I enjoy visiting places through others eyes!
Happy 2023!
I love your blog! I have been reading it for at least 10 years … following the DIY on your homes, your sister’s new home, and your decorating advice in general. I also enjoy your fashion Wednesday’s, if for no other reason than to keep me in the know about what is on the fashion front. I am retired now myself … so I know you will enjoy being free of a the everyday responsibility of your blog. Enjoy your travel and p,ease post about it along with tips on where to visit … I may be following right behind you in your footsteps! 😃
I will miss you Rhoda. I have followed your blog for so many years, maybe since the very start. I always looked forward to your new additions every few days. I especially loved your including your whole family in your stories, and enjoyed you write ups on your visits to the mountain home of your parents, your dad’s vegetable gardens and your constant and very lovely additions and renovations in the homes you lived in. Thank you so much for all the yeas when you filled me with so much joy, sharing your life with us.
I will continue to visit you blog and hope to hear more from you. Bu I do want to wish you the very best in all that your future plans. Take care always.
Judy
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