How many more recaps like this will I write? I have no idea, but welcome to year 16 in my blogging journey. I’ve written recaps sharing my blog story all the way back to the beginning in 2007, so if you missed those, it might be worth a read. Blogging has been part of my life for so long that I can’t imagine not doing it anymore. This year has some changes coming, however, and I’m excited to share those with you all!

I have to say that this is the year I start pulling back a bit and not posting as much. I’m not planning to quit in the foreseeable future, I will probably leave my blog up until the internet is no more (I doubt that will happen) or I get too old to type on here, whichever comes first. Ha! But, I no longer have the burning desire to keep climbing higher on the internet or social media. That feeling has been with me for a few years and is even more pronounced now. I want to settle into a semi-retirement I guess you could call it, posting when I feel like it and still sharing some old content as I have been doing for several years too.
I’ve written around 4,000 posts on this blog over those 16 years and that’s a lot of talking! It’s been so fun for me and I can’t imagine stopping it, so I will not. But…and there’s always a but, I want to be free to slow it down even more than I have and not worry at all if I don’t post. I’ve watched others stop blogging and just cold turkey quit. I don’t plan to do that either, but slow blogging is a term I’m going to embrace.

Mark and I have been in our house for 5 years now and we are almost at the end of our project journey in this house. No, we aren’t moving either as many I’ve seen do, to buy another house or build a house to then showcase on their blog or social media. We’re not about to do that. We love our house and are staying here for the long haul, but that means we don’t have a lot more projects to do and that might get a little boring since I do write this blog and DIY and home improvement are a big part of what I write about.

My goal for this year is to travel more. I’ve been saying that for awhile and we are finally going to do it. The last couple of years have been weird travel years anyway, with the pandemic things have been not so normal, but hopefully that’s all opening up more now. Thank goodness for that!

{This Daisy dog gives me joy!}
On that note, let me just say that as I said for the last couple of years on my yearly recap that I’m still extremely concerned about our country and the world in general. Our entire country seems to have lost its mind all at one time, on every front and it’s very disconcerting to say the least. I’ve never been very political on this blog, but the last few years have caused me to do more research and reading than I ever have in my life and what I’ve found is not a pretty picture. Many of you know exactly what I mean. I won’t get any deeper into the state of our country on here (you don’t come here for politics), but life has been very hard and is likely to get harder this year for so many. It breaks my heart to see where our country is at this time. If you have been reading my blog for long, you know I’m a conservative girl and that’s where I lean politically. That hasn’t changed a bit but my eyes have surely been opened even more the last few years. God is our only hope, our refuge in time of trouble and I know that His will and truth will prevail. That gives me much comfort in what we are all facing in the future. The outlook looks so dismal, but my faith is strong that God will see us through, no matter what comes our way. We cannot give up hope.
I loved the December 31st devotional from my Streams in the Desert:
Thus far has the Lord helped us. (1 Samuel 7:12)
Yes, He sure has and I know he will continue to help us.

{Charleston}
So back to the blog. We really want to travel more this year…go to new places we haven’t been before, in the US and out of the country. I don’t know yet what all that will be, but I’m going to start planning more trips. I have to find places we can visit that don’t require the vax, you know the one. We did not, nor will we ever get the shots, so that could be a deterrent for where we travel depending on policies in the future. That’s not a political statement, nor do I wish to argue, but that’s our position and we are united on that front. For instance, Viking requires all passengers to be vaxxed, so it looks like we will never go on another Viking cruise unless their policy changes. I’m reading up on those policies to find out which cruise lines don’t have the mandate. So far, from what I’ve read, NCL and Royal Caribbean do not. I’d like to do a European cruise this spring/summer and then we plan to go back to New England in the fall. So I can see us doing way more travel and weekend trips and of course, I’ll share all those here on the blog. You might not see a lot of brand new things going on house wise, but I’ll keep the blog going at a pace I’m happy with. Now is the time for us to travel before we get any older.

I can’t believe that the time has come for me to draw SS payments, but it’s here. My full retirement age is 66 and 4 months and if you’re close to my age, you know what that means. April here I come! I’m looking forward to a little more travel money to play with. There are so many places I’d like to see and visit and that will be a clear focus for us as we move into this year, so be prepared for me to take longer breaks between posts. I’m just not sure yet what all I’ll be posting, but I do think it will be less. My plan is for my blog to be part of my retirement income and I’ll keep it going even if one day I stop posting much of anything new.

I’d love to hear from all of you too.
What do you like the most? Please feel free to chime in here and let me know what you think on what I post here on the blog.
I know my posts about my parents are always popular and you love them, so of course I’ll continue to share our family. That’s a given. We don’t know how long we will have mom and dad with us, so I will do recaps all along about them and their health.
I’ll continue to do the weekly series Home Style Saturdays and Style Showcase with my friends. You’ve probably figured out by now that those posts are recycled posts that we share with each other, so chances are you might not have seen them all and it gives us a great opportunity to share content with each other’s audience and yes, helps us keep traffic flowing on our blogs. Thanks for supporting those weekly features! We all have some really great content and sometimes it gets buried so it’s nice to show it off again.
I’m not sure if I’ll continue the Friday Favorites series on a regular basis. I might do once a month or so, we will see how it goes.
Life feels so short at times, the days fly by and we want to make the most of it, so thank you for joining my journey and reading along. I will probably continue some fashion posts during the year, but that’s not going to be a huge focus for me either. I may do a couple shares a month. If anything, trying to share fashion when I started that a few years ago has gotten even more challenging since I don’t plan to buy new clothes all the time just so I can share them and make commissions. That’s the thing about being a fashion blogger, you have to constantly share new clothes to make a living. I’m so glad I didn’t choose that solely as my topic. Once those clothes can’t be affiliate linked, they are useless to share. So that’s not what I want to depend on to make a living, nor do I want to spend my time on that. There are a ton of fashion bloggers to follow if that’s your thing. I love clothes, but I can’t do it all the time.

I’d like to get more involved in my community, so that’s going to be a focus too. I am a member of our local Acworth Business Association and I’ve enjoyed getting to know other women in my community. I’m trying to join the tourism board as a volunteer and I’m hoping a spot opens up for me this year on that. So those are a few things I’d like to get more involved in. I’d like to help make my own community a better place.
How can you support me and my blog?
God has blessed my blog more than I could have ever dreamed 16 years ago when I started it. I make a very nice living off my blog. My ad network revenue is the main way I make this blog work. So let me mention this to you all.
The best way you can support me and my blog is to continue to come here, LIVE on my blog when I post and open my emails when I send them out and read the posts here. That’s the VERY BEST way to support me.
That’s the main way I make an income and blog pageviews is how I get paid from my ad network. I’m so grateful that I have the opportunity to make a business of this blog and it’s supported me well for over 10 years of making money. God has truly restored everything I lost when I moved from Birmingham to Atlanta all those years ago (2011). He is faithful and has never let me down and I’m eternally grateful!
I know that ads are annoying and I still get comments about that sometimes. I think reading on a phone is probably the most annoying way to read a blog and that’s where most of the ad intrusion comes in. I read on my laptop for most everything I read these days and I don’t see the popups like some of you have said. But, again thank you for looking past the ads and for your support all these years. I couldn’t do it without your continued support.
Amazon Shop and Home Decor links
The other ways you can support me is to buy through my affiliate links on Amazon and Like to Know It. I don’t share links constantly, but if you can please help me out there too. I make commissions when you use my links and that adds to my income.
You can find all my links under Shop my Home on the home page of my blog on the menu bar.
I have an Amazon shop with lots of good products that I use and some that I love and recommend as well. The shop has categories you can look at with lots of products. Anytime you buy from Amazon and use my link, I earn a small commission without it costing you anything extra. Thank you for buying through my links!
I also have many items linked in my Home Decor page here on the blog that I update along the way. Some of the links are things in my house and they might not be available anymore, but I link all I can that are active.

Another Fact of Blogging for So Long
My email list has declined over the years instead of growing. People unsubscribe and remove themselves and so that’s also disheartening, but a real part of blogging that I have to deal with. My pageviews here continue to decline year after year, so I don’t know what things will look like in 5 more years. Five years ago, my pageviews were double what they are now. That’s the truth of running a website and I face all the challenges with a BIG dose of reality. There’s so much competition for pageviews and even though there is room for all, people only have so much time to go around and reading blogs might not be at the top of the list all the time. I totally get that. That’s why I want to step back and just do this at my own slower pace. I can still make a nice income, but I don’t feel the pressure to try to grow anymore. I still see the hustle going on out there and I don’t want to be a part of that. I’ve done very well over these years and have had much success at blogging way past any of my expectations and I’m so grateful for the blessings that blogging has meant to me.

As I draw this to a close, thank you all again for ALL your support and love over the years. I’m not going anywhere, but again, I do plan to slow it down and that means less posts and more breaks over the year. Posts may be more sporadic and slower to come. If we go on vacation, I’ll no longer feel the need to do a lot of posts to share when I’m gone. I just don’t have it all figured out yet, but I feel the need to take any pressure off and just be me, living life at the pace I feel like going. That includes social media. I still have a presence on all the social media sites, but I don’t feel the pressure to perform there at all anymore. I will share when I want to and I do not care if I grow on those at all either.
This recap might be a bit different from the others, but it’s where my heart is headed for now. Thank you all again, I could have never made this blog successful without a core audience to share with and you all make that possible! With that being said, bring on 2023! I’m ready for it! And I’m ready to travel and see more of the beautiful world that God created for us!




I’m came in late following your blog, but this last year or two I’ve enjoyed it and the features with your parents. I think it’s marvelous how well your parents are doing (my family went through dementia with my mother so I definitely can relate) and I always enjoy your Dad when he prays. Reminds me of my Grandfather and church when I was a lot younger! You and I re the same age and I will be collecting late summer! I too have backed off on my blog, though I never took it to the level you did. It seems times have changed and people’s interest has too. Look forward to whatever you post in the future. Btw I catch the updates on Facebook.
I have been reading your posts since the very beginning. I really enjoy the postings about your Mom and Dad. I am currently taking care of parents with Alzheimer’s, and I appreciate hearing different tips etc. that you have used to help with your Dad. I wish there were affordable nursing homes near me that are as nice as your Mom and Dad’s place is!! I would love to see more link parties, where your readers could post ideas. That is something you could do without personally having to post content.
Anyway, enjoy your semi-retirement, and I will be keeping you and your family in my prayers.
Rhoda,
I like so many of your faithful followers have been following for 10/12 years. Who can keep track. I have loved all of your content and found inspiration and I thank you for providing that. Seeing your Mom and Dad through the years has filled a void after the loss of my parents within a year of each other. I will miss you but knowing I can get a dose now and then will help. I am very happy for you to be going into retirement. You’ve worked hard for it so enjoy every minute. My husband and I just retired this last summer and it is wonderful. Congratulations and best wishes from one of your OG Blog and Instagram friends, Liz.
I am a newer follower Rhoda and will continue to follow you as you are one of my favorites. I enjoy your content especially updates on your sweet parents, but I also appreciate that you tell it like it is. I’m praying alongside you for our country and world as well. Enjoy the slower pace and I will look forward to reading your posts whenever you feel like sharing.
I can only say I wish you all the best in your semi-retirement. I have enjoyed your blog so very much and look forward to each post. The state of our nation, country and world is very depressing but I’m with you in knowing God will be with us. He has been so good to me and I am so thankful for my upbringing and faith. This journey of life is getting shorter so enjoy the last miles however makes you happy. May God continue to bless you and Mark and your families. Stay strong in the faith and your convictions. Looking forward to your posts however sporadic.
Like so many I have been reading and enjoying the variety of your blog topics for 10+ years. What I’ve liked the most is that you write about those things close to your heart…your family, your faith, nesting your home and your community. So follow your heart in this next phase and we will all love the journey. I am especially looking forward to some travel posts.
I have enjoyed your blog and following your life journey for years ( pre Mark 😊).
I lost my mom 9 months ago and dad has stage IV cancer. You sharing your parents move, your dad’s battle with colitis a few years back, the dementia and you’re mother’s back issues and how they stayed strong in their faith was so encouraging. Home and fashion sites are a dime a dozen but letting us into your “real” life while sharing great decor and project info makes your blog more attractive to me. I’m glad you’re not quitting cold turkey!
I’d love to read about travel decisions, planning an itinerary for those of us over 60, reviews of restaurants etc. if you continue blogging.
Blessings in the new year,
Lisa
Long time reader, infrequent poster here. I’ve followed your blog for years. When you first moved into your old house, redid the landscaping, screened porch and the basement, I was hooked! Your blog is the first one I look for every morning. I’m turning 70 this year, so I completely understand the desire to slow down and enjoy every day. You’re so lucky that your parents are safely housed in a great facility. I still alternate with my sister spending nights at my 90 year old mom’s house so that she can stay home. Residential care facilities here are very short-staffed and in some cases dangerous if you’re in a skilled care facility which my mom would need. Also, thank you for admitting to being conservative. Your faith and love of family have kept me coming back. Too many people don’t stand up for the values we learned as children. Good luck in your gradual slow down. I will be here until you stop!
Rhoda, you were the first blogger i followed, and although I will miss your posts, I am glad you are slowing down to enjoy life a little more. We’d all be very sad to lose you completely, lol. There is nothing I would change about your content, and I am a bit of a dinosaur…I like to read you on my computer…not my phone, not on social media, but here, on my old fashioned PC. Be well and enjoy. Thank you!! xoxo to you and your family!
I enjoy reading your posts each day. I would have to say the post about your sweet parents are my favorite. Really enjoy hearing your dad pray reminds me of my dad. The jobs you and Mark have completed in your home have been great. Enjoy your semi retirement. We love being retired.🙏❤️
Thank you my friend for this update & congratulations on your retirement & slowing down! I started following you way back since you lived in Alabama & then met you in person when you were renovating your Kennesaw, Georgia home. I met your dad when he was helping you for that reno. Then was privileged to go with you on a cruise & one of your weekly lunches with your parents. Also our several beach vacations with girlfriends was so fun too! I’m so happy you are slowing down and traveling more! I don’t blog but I can see that this social media world is a lot! I just read it to get ideas but not into the “shopping” fever to buy a lot of clothes & other things. Your faith is the most important thing & your husband & lovely family. You are a treasure to all your friends & I always thank God we are friends. Do stay in touch! God bless you Rhoda!
I have been following u from the very beginning…its funny , i used to copy so many of your ideas in my house…like all the plates and platters on the wall in your dining room , plus many more…I am happy to say…I think we both have come a long way from those days…lol…I will continue to visit…love the update on your parents…love that dog!! I want one…but like u I want to travel more and having a dog makes it difficult…so I will enjoy Daisy…looking forward to more posts as they happen..enjoy your life.
Rhoda, you’re my first stop each morning as I begin reading my favorite blogs. I’m disappointed that I won’t see your posts as often, but…congrats! Your plans sound amazing and are well-deserved! I find your posts so uplifting and inspiring, and it’s always been an added bonus to find a kindred spirit: believer, similar age, conservative, non-vaxxer, Southern girl! Wishing you and Mark the very best!
I’m a long time follower and wish you much joy as you make this shift. I will miss seeing you frequently in my feed but understand how life shifts. Please share some of your travels!
Your blog is part of my early morning routine. I look forward to it each and every day regardless of the topic. You have become extended family. Happy New Year and wishing you many wonderful travel opportunities.
I think you should be crowned the Blogging Queen! You and Melissa @ The Inspired Room have stayed with blogging for a super long time. Enjoy your slowing down time and knowing there is less stress to produce content. And take those trips while you still can! ♥️
I’m happy for you that you’re able to semi-retire. I’ll miss seeing frequent posts but look forward to seeing them when you do. I agree our country is so lost right now but my faith in the Lord gives me hope. I’m happy to hear you’ll continue to share your sweet parents with us. I love seeing them and watching him lead prayer. We’re going on a cruise in May with Princess. I’m pretty sure they dropped their vaccine mandate but I could be wrong. Enjoy your travels!
I’ve been following since you & your Dad fixed up your last house. Enjoy everything you do & agree with your feelings about the country. Very sad! You do need to travel while you can. We did a good bit but almost 80 & husband 82 & are feeling a little tired thinking about travel! Our last big trip was Viking in 2018 Prague to Budapest. Loved it. Best wishes to you & your whole family!
Well, my friend (as yet unmet!) I have been here since the beginning and this place has never felt like a business venture. It has always felt like a visit with a friend! I’ve watched the rise (and fall) of so many bloggers and influencers over the years. It can be a fabulous income but there is a steep price to pay and I have always admired that you have done it your way. You’ve stayed true to yourself and your convictions. And when it got a tougher to do that these past 3 years, you handled it with strength, grace and with no regrets! I don’t blog and I don’t even think you follow me on Instagram (which is just a personal account/ no business) but I have so enjoyed our conversations through messages and comments at “your place”- I truly feel like you are a personal friend! So much more I could say, thinking back over the years. But I’ll just say – I’m along with you for the ride in this life! If we don’t meet here, we will surely meet in heaven one day! Happy and Blessed New Year to you and Mark and your family! And if you road-trip to Wetumpka, let me know! I’d love to meet up with y’all and enjoy a day with you in our pretty little town on the river!
I completely understand your choice to relax & enjoy life more! Being a few years older than you, it seems we all hit an age where we finally get that we’re not going to be here forever, and NOW is the time to do all the things you truly want to do. I have thoroughly enjoyed your blog and all the family you’ve shared with us. It strengthens my belief we have more in common than I would have ever imagined. I can’t wait toser how this year unfolds!!