Moving back in with your parents when you’re my age is rather daunting, but really there is nowhere I’d rather be at the moment. They are my strong support, still after all these years and now I may have the privilege of looking after them in their older years and that is fine with me.
On the Thursday before our Friday move, I met up with friends, girls I’ve connected with in Birmingham and we met at my favorite Italian restaurant, Joe’s in Alabaster. I’ve blogged about it before and it is a wonderful place to enjoy a good meal. These ladies have all been so supportive to me over the past few months and I couldn’t have made it without them.
With a few pictures to seal the memory, we threw in one of melodramatic efforts just for some laughs. 
A couple more joined us for one last pic. My sweet friend, Janice (in the blue top), got a beautiful picture frame and had everyone sign the mat, which will then be framed with the shot above, so I can remember these girls forever. I have made some wonderful friends in Birmingham and will miss them all dearly, but I do hope to get back for a visit again. 
I had the nightly special, a superb chicken and pasta dish. It was magnifico! 
Doesn’t this look yummy too?
And to finish off the meal, I had to get a large slab of Joe’s famous strawberry cake, which is enough for about 4 or 5 people easily. We were stuffed and happy. 
The next day, bright and early, my family showed up ready to help with the move. We had lots of help from church staff, who brought over plenty of guys to help. We could not have done it without them and I’m immensely grateful for all of them who came out. 
They moved everything out of the house and down on the driveway, where my brother-in-law, Bruce, packed the 26′ truck like a jigsaw puzzle. I was very worried that we wouldn’t get it all in that truck. That worry was well founded and after lunch we had to go get another 14′ truck. 🙁
Here’s a tip for you: Don’t ever move! You will realize just how much “stuff” you really have. This was after I had 2 moving sales too! 
My friend from church, Sharon, was so much help. She has back issues so couldn’t move much, but she showed up early to help me get the big truck back to the house and that was a huge help. She later went back with me to get the 2nd truck. Thank goodness we got everything on the 2nd truck, except my house plants and Sharon is taking care of those until I can get back over to Birmingham to get them.
We took a lunch break and then the real work began.
Saying farewell to the empty house. I will miss it, but it is time to move on. No, the rug didn’t stay, it came with me. 
The 2nd truck got packed to the gills and we were finally ready to pull out for Atlanta, late in the afternoon. It was an all-day tiring job. 
My brother-in-law drove one truck and my dad drove the other one. 
And we had 2 cars too. We headed out around 5:00 Central time and made it home after dark. An exhausting day it was, but I’m glad it is finally over. My sweet dad had a metal storage building built in their backyard to hold all my stuff. I can’t say enough about my wonderful parents. It makes me cry to think about them and how good they are to me.
With bittersweet memories, I’ve moved out of the house we have lived in for 5 years and I am back to the room I lived in when I was 16 and my family first moved in this house. It’s not a fancy house at all, nothing like the Birmingham house, but it will be my new home and home is where those that you love are living.
Yes, I will miss the Birmingham house and the joy of making it a home, but when life changes drastically, we must make other arrangements. This is not something that was planned, but sometimes you don’t plan for life, it just happens when you least expect it. I know all of this didn’t take God by surprise, so I’m leaning on that promise and not my own understanding.
I still cannot share all the details, maybe one day I can, but I will say this:
I need to live with my parents because I have been taken advantage of financially, devastated to a large degree by the man I thought I could trust. It’s been a 3 month journey of dealing with where I thought life was going, finding out the truth, and knowing that I will survive this in spite of the pain of the reality that I now must live in.
That is only part of the story, but the rest will have to wait.
It is not the end of the world. I will survive. I will be OK. That I know.
So, I will move forward and I still hope that all of you will go with me on my new journey. Most likely, I will be getting a full time job again. That is nothing new for me. I have worked most of my life and can do it again.
I will confess that the last few months, I’ve felt that blogland has been passing me by. When you’re dealing with real life issues, decorating and projects definitely take a backseat. Nothing else is important but surviving. I won’t be in that pretty house anymore, doing projects and coming up with creative ideas there. I’ve seen all the wonderful creativity out there in the blogosphere and felt a little sad that I am not a part of it right now, but I know that one day I will have a house again.
The bottom line is this: I plan to keep on blogging, yes I do! I can’t imagine not blogging now, it is truly a part of my life that I still enjoy so much. It will just be different than what you’ve seen from me in the last 4 years. I’ll be sharing friend’s projects and hopefully some creativity along the way. And plenty of decorating ideas!
I might even talk my mom into letting me do some updates in their 1973 house. It’s time! Time to get rid of some mauve carpet in the bathroom I’ll be using AND strip off some dated wallpaper.
So, you might get to see a few projects outta me after all. And I’ll be looking for lots of other decor stuff to highlight for you too.
Thank you ALL so much for your prayers and support these last 3 months. It has truly wrapped me up in love like a warm coat and I so much appreciate you all.
It will be a new journey and where it leads, I have no idea. Finding a new normal will be at the forefront. I know it will be sweet. Very sweet. God sometimes allows trials and pain in our lives to draw us closer to Him.
Thanks again to all of you for your very sweet support behind the scenes of my life. It has meant the world to me.
I would very much love to meet up with many of you bloggers/readers in the Atlanta area for a lunch date sometime soon, so keep that in mind. Le Madeleine is one of my favorite spots, so that just might be a good place to meet. Hopefully, one Saturday coming up will work, so I will set a date and let you all know.
I have been praying for you. You are such a class act. I know your parents are glad to have you with them, no matter the circumstances. I am looking forward to this new type of blog and seeing what changes you will make to your childhood home. Like Dorothy said, ” There’s no place like home!!”
Hi Rhoda,
Just wanted to tell you that you have been in my thoughts and prayers, that God will let you and make a way for you through the wilderness you have been walking through. Hopefully, getting moved will help you to focus on the bright future He has in mind for you. I read your blog everyday, but don’t have time to do a lot of commenting. I enjoy your posts so much!! I wish you well dear friend, and will keep you in my prayers as you write on this new page in your book. He goes before you. Linda
Sweet Rhoda,
God bless you! Welcome back to the ATL and I hope we can meet in person soon. My heart is warmed that you have such support from your friends and family. Prayers that your new normal will bless you and settle in quickly.
xo Heidi
Rhoda, I’m so sorry you are going through difficult times and I hope that you will soon be experiencing happier ones. Very best wishes for lots of good things to come. Take care.
Hi Rhoda, I have been a follower of yours for several yrs now, I’m so sorry to hear about this trial! I’m praying for you and have thought about you often! I too have been going through a rough patch…I have not blogged in months…just don’t have the heart to do it! We are moving as well, on the 11th of April….it’s a bittersweet move as well! Please keep me in your prayers and I will you!
Dear Rhoda….I have been reading your blog for a short time but have felt a real connection to you through your writing. My heart aches for you as you take on this new challenge. I am glad you plan to keep blogging….I know God has His Hand on you and I look forward to seeing where He leads you. I hope you do some home projects for your parents, you have a gift for decorating. Praying for you as you transition to life in Hotlanta!!
Dear Rhoda~
Sending you much love and support. Hopefully one day I can give you a hug in person!
Blessings, Carol
The best of luck to your Rhoda as you begin this new chapter of your life. You seem like such a strong woman and I greatly admire that. Glad that you will have family and friends to support you.
Hugs, Anita
I’m wishing you (all the way from California) the best in your new FABULOUS life. It will be so, no doubt. You get to go and be someone’s daughter again. How bad can that be? I lost my mom four years ago at the age of 52 (her) and I would give anything to move back in with her right now. 🙂
God Bless…
So sorry to read what happened – your honesty is so moving. You have a wonderful attitude and I believe you WILL have another house sooner than you think! I welcome you to Atlanta and would love to get together with you for lunch when you’re ready to meet your Atlanta readers. Lisa.
Rhoda,
Whatever you blog about, it will have your personality, care, attention and love linked to it and there is no way any blog of yours will not be wonderful! You are such a shining example of a woman of faith, even in your difficult hours. Do you realize this? I plan to keep following along as I have for a few years now. 🙂 Well, if you ever get up North, let me know. If we EVER move down South, I’ll let you know. 🙂 God’s strength be with you in these coming months as you adjust to His plans for you.
Kristi
Hi Rhoda,
Yours is the very 1st blog I found and still read every day. I’m sending love and support your way. Things will get better and better.
Hi Rhoda: I too had to say goodbye to a beloved house and move on, but when one door closes, another will open as we all know…You have such a positive outlook that will keep you on the right path…and the right attitude. Best of luck and know that we are all out here in blogland pulling for you! :)) x
Rhoda,
I’m so sorry that you are going thru this ordeal, but it sounds like you are lending on God and with that, you will be just fine. Enjoy your time with your parents, they will be really special to you in the future.
Blessings,
Linda
Rhoda, I am so sorry you are going through this situation. Betrayal is such a horrible thing, isn’t it? I send you lots of prayers and good thoughts.
Your faith and positive attitude will carry you through this journey. I have you in my prayers.
Rhoda!
I don’t know any other words to say other than I’m sorry you were hurt like that. I’m in Atlanta and my folks live in Kennesaw, so I would love to meet up with you and become a new friend!
Good luck in setting up your new life, it’s going to be an exciting and challenging new time!
~Kathleen
My thoughts and prayers are with you!
Rhoda, you remain in my prayers! May God continue to bless you and your parents as this journey unfolds! Good luck, sweet friend!
Hi Rhoda ..
I don’t comment very much over here, but even though I don’t know personally please Know that I’m thinking of you and wishing you the best from the bottom of my heart…You will be ok, life goes on..All the best and keep those projects coming;))))))!!!..
Love, Silvia..
I sensed something was not right. I am so sorry, but as you say, God will take care of you. Look on this time with your parents as an opportunity….it won’t be wasted. How wonderful that they are still there for you. Love your blog….hope to continue hearing from you. God’s blessings in the days ahead!