Hi, friends! I’m back today with a Fashion over 50 edition. Nothing too exciting and you’ve seen all of these pieces before, but maybe not exactly like this combination.
It’s been a long week with dad back in the hospital and I’ll share more on that as we get more updates, but I appreciate all the prayers so much. He’s in good care at the hospital and we are all 3 taking turns staying with him at night. I have another stint tonight. Lauren is coming home this weekend for the 4th of July holiday and we are glad to have her here too. She will cheer up her grandaddy big time! We are all learning about c diff and what it’s all about. If you follow me on Facebook, you will see the update there that he has the bacteria c diff that comes from taking antibiotics and then getting diarrhea. We had to take him back to the hospital, he was progressively getting worse every day. He’s so weak right now, but is on antibiotics that kill the c diff and hopefully this will get him back to normal. We think he may be in the hospital for a week and then go to rehab to get mobile again. He is so weak, he can’t stand and walk and that’s hard to see. I’m sure he will get it back, but it will take time. So, that’s the nutshell of where we are right now. It’s so frustrating that taking an antibiotic can cause this kind of horrible outcome and I don’t think the doctors share that nearly enough, the side effects of antibiotics. It makes me so mad that doctors don’t tell people, hey these antibiotics are going to kill the good bacteria in your gut, so you need probiotics to counteract that and if you get diarrhea, then you might have c diff. Most people have no idea what probiotics are, my parents certainly didn’t! No one warned them and now we are in this mess. All of us will be going on probiotics now too. I’ve done some of them before in drinking kombucha, but we all are going to get them in our systems even more now. My brother-in-law brews his own kombucha and if you don’t know that one, look it up. It’s a fermented beverage that’s good for your gut with lots of probiotics.
They had no idea that any of this could happen, but it did and now we have to deal with it and c diff is a serious thing, we’ve found out. Daddy is strong and we think he will get back to normal, but it will definitely take time. He’s not going to snap back in a week. So, keep the prayers coming and I’ll do a weekly update as time goes on and we see where we are. That knock on his head was nothing compared to what we are dealing with now!
The jeans are Mother jeans that I got last year. They are pricey, but fit well and hug in all the right spots, with a flared leg. I like the dark wash.
This top you’ve seen before too and it’s from C Wonder. It’s a lightweight soft cotton that is very supple for summer wear. Again, C Wonder is out of business.
Paired with these neutral tan heels, it’s a pretty outfit that’s casual, but not too casual.
Shoes are Aerosoles Foreward (affiliate link) in tan and they are available at Walmart now.
Jewelry came from the mart and it’s been fun to have in my wardrobe. I just love the coral and turquoise combination.
Here’s a closer look at the jewelry. I’ve been happy that I picked up this set over a year ago at the Atlanta mart. I think it was a total of about $28, so a real bargain. Again, the mart is only open to the trade and I can get in because of my blog, so if you get a chance to go, the cash and carry jewelry rocks!
That’s it for today! Thank you as always for stopping by and hanging out with me, I appreciate that so much!
Diane Dahl says
So sorry to hear about your dad. I know several people that have battled c diff. I’ll be praying!
Andrea G Corley says
Still praying for your dad and the whole family! I know it is so hard to watch when they are weak and unable to stand. I pray the cdiff will subside quickly with the new antibiotics. I know your mom appreciates all the help! Let me know if we can do anything!
I like those jeans you are right the look comfortable and great fitting!
Again let me know if I can do anything to help with your family!
Andrea
Brenda says
I will surely pray for your Dad. My own Dad (who’s91) is right now in rehab from a hospital stay last week for an UTI. They can get so weak so quickly at this age. Cdiff is a dangerous thing and you are so right we are not warned about it near enough. Watch for the UTI thing too–my Dad is spot on mentally, but when a UTI hits he is totally confused–this is something else the doctors don’t warn us enough about in the elderly. Prayers for you all, being the caregivers is a hard job too.
Roxanne says
Brenda, you are so right about the UTI thing. Before my mom passed away last year, several times we thought she had had a stroke or developed overnight mental problems. The doctors told us it was UTI. I had never heard of that before, but other friends with elderly parents said they have been through same thing.
Lauren@SimplyLKJ says
Agree with you both. It’s happened to my mother as well as several friends elderly mothers (seems it hits women more).
Tee says
All the previous comments are spot on concerning UTIs in the elderly. Also, falls are one of the most dangerous things for elderly as well. As we age, the brain shrinks and when the head has trauma the brain has more room to move around in the skull, so the danger is greater. I dealt with this with my mom, so just keep a close watch on your dad. I hope the c diff improves. I understand buttermilk is good for adding healthy bacteria to your gut. Antibiotics can be dangerous, but the doctors just use them like they are passing out lemon aid. Prayers for your sweet dad and all of you taking care of him. Being a caregiver is a very hard job.
TAG says
Hi Rhoda, I have been reading your blog for several years, but I believe this is my first comment. I’m in my fifties and a couple years ago I got cdiff from an antibiotic I was taking. It’s a tough thing to go through. The first 10 day antibiotic they commonly use to treat it made me feel just a little better, but a week later I started to feel bad again. I then took Vicomycin which made a difference quickly. They don’t usually use this one first. If your dad isn’t feeling better talk to the doctors about trying this antibiotic. Also, cdiff is highly contagious so make sure there is a lot of hand washing, separate laundry, bleach disinfecting, etc.. When he is feeling better eating oatmeal, applesauce and other “prebiotic” foods along with probiotics like Kefir and yogurts help. I also took Align probiotic for several months. Hope this helps. Prayers to your Dad.
Barbara Hunnicutt Moore says
OH NO!! How can something that supposed to help you hurt you so badly?? I am so very sorry this has happened to your dad. Please know you all are in my prayers and I am only a phone call away if you need anything, anytime.
Ruth says
I agree with the comment from Tag.
Six months after my dad died following a cdiff infection, I took a simple amoxicillin prescription prior to a root canal. I had the cdiff infection in my system and the amoxicillin killed off all the good bacteria. I was then hospitalized for a week suffering from cdiff. It is a miserable sickness, prayers for your dad and family.
kathy olson says
Praying for your dad.
Coral is your color. It looks great.
Kathleen says
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I always enjoy the pictures and stories about your family, especially your Dad and his garden.
Roxanne says
Rhoda, I will pray for your sweet daddy that he is completely healed. C Diff is a terrible problem. I ended up twice in the hospital due to antibiotics. It is horrible. My doctor also told me to take a probiotic every day for the rest of my life. We all love your parents like they are our own.
Lynne says
Praying for your Daddy. I am so surprised he got C-Diff because he is such a healthy man and hasn’t been sick before. It is easily picked up in nursing homes and hospital. I do not touch the bed rails of anyone in the hospital or nursing home I go to see now. My Mother had a very bad case of C-Diff due to continuous use of antibiotics because of her UTI’S. Be diligent about keeping your hands washed when you go to visit and after you leave the hospital. By the way, I love this top!
Terie says
Also praying for your daddy! Mine is in Hospice care in the final stages of a 4 year long fight with bone cancer. It is SO hard to see your daddy be that ill when they are so vibrant in everyday life ! Best wishes and hugs for you and your family during this difficult time!
Coral is definitely one of ” your” colors! Love those shoes- I am trending more and more toward attractive but very comfortable shoes and Aerosoles fits the bill!
Take care and please know many people are thinking of you!
Lauren@SimplyLKJ says
Will continue to keep your sweet daddy in prayer my friend. As you know, I too contracted C-Diff after antibiotic use for what I was told was chronic sinus infections. Turns out I had a SEVERE dust mite allergy!!! Once I made changes to our home and took the necessary “natural” allergies fighting supplements they all but disappeared, but not before C-Diff did a number on my immune system. My doctors believe that was the trigger for all my gut health issues (including my gluten sensitivity). Antibiotics should only be taken when absolutely necessary, and you are so right…with probiotics!! I take one daily regardless. Kombucha is great, as are certain yogurts, but most really need a supplement and it is best to rotate them every couple months or your body just gets used to it.
Rhoda says
Good advice, Lauren, and I hate that you had to go through this too. Most people probably have no idea what c diff is, just like our family did not. It’s appalling to me that doctors hand out antibiotics like candy!
Sandy says
Beautiful outfit and you wear it so well. Oh my goodness! My husband has been telling me to take probiotics and after hearing this I will. Sending prayers or a full recovery for your dad. He’s a strong man and will all of your care, he will be getting back to his self. I never heard of c diff.
Deanna Rabe says
Praying for your dad!
I like your outfit, and thanks for the info on your shoes. I’ve been looking for a nice tan shoe, so I guess I check out Wal-Mart!
I really like your jewelry!
Patti Osmus says
I’ve been a reader for about 5 yrs. now and love seeing pics and stories of your parents! Your dad reminds me of my PaPa(still miss him after 40 years) – tall, strong, and somewhat of the silent type. Hope he recovers soon – prayers for your family.
tina says
Probiotics are a good thing to take even if you are not on antibiotics. I even give them to my dog! My grandfather had C-Dif years ago. I hope your dad is doing much better and home soon!
KATHYSUE says
Oh Rhoda, it just breaks my heart to hear about your Daddy. I have 3 friends that got C-diff and it is very serious. I am glad they figured it out. I did not know this but found out from a friend whose mother was on antibiotics for an infection and she became quite confused and even delirious, that sometimes older patients will get that way when on antibiotics just a little fyi, I had no idea. Looks like these crazy antibiotics are a necessary evil aren’t they. I am praying for him and his medical team and all of you that are giving him loving care.
Melesa Garrison says
I have never heard of c diff, but definitely praying for your sweet Dad. I do know that sometimes the side effects of meds is sometimes worse than the original problem. You look like you are losing weight…Take care and eat, you are too beautiful to blow away! Lol
leigh says
I am so very sorry to hear about your dad, and, yes, you are so right that doctors don’t inform their patients more on the side effects of antibiotics… C-diff is a very serious thing! I take a probiotic every day and have Greek plain yogurt daily as well and have for years as recommended by a doctor to me years ago. I have seen a huge difference in boosting my immune system, and rarely have a cold now or allergies….and they are hugely important when you are on an antibiotic….Doctors need to give this info more frequently!….I will keep him in my thoughts and prayers as well as you and your family… Take care of yourself as well, and also your mom….keep her hydrated, eating and as rested as possible!
leigh says
PS Wishing him a Happy 90th Birthday as well!