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His and Hers: Designing for the Sexes

March 9, 2011 By Rhoda 31 Comments

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I promised a look inside Lauren and Philip’s dwellings, with a look at how differently each of them look at decorating their surroundings.

Oh, the differences, they are pronounced as you will see. Lauren loves a romantic cozy cottage look, with lots of florals, a big comfy chair to sit in and places to curl up and read a book.  She enjoys her stuff and is very sentimental in keeping things for a very long time.

See that Asian style coffee table there (with end tables too)?  That is a hand-me-down from when I first moved into my first house in the mid-80’s.  Once I replaced it, the tables went with her and she still has them.  She’s going to have a moving sale once they get married and she needs to clean out her apartment, so if you are in the New Orleans area, you might want to go.

This is her favorite spot in her apartment, this cozy chair that she’s made into a reading nook.  Reading is a favorite past time for all 3 of us.  We love to read and always have!She does get it honest, since she was raised around me and my sister.  We have always enjoyed decorating and cozying up our nests.  The small kitchen barely fits 3 people.  Mom made her that cute valance over the window, it has strawberries on it.  Lauren is like a little old lady sometimes in what she likes to have around her. The stove with all her spices above.  She definitely has a love for strawberry things, as evidenced by the towel.  I don’t imagine that Philip shares that fondness. Antiques and florals in the bedroom, it’s a perfect retreat for her.It’s not a huge space, so she had to crowd in a dresser and vanity in this small area.The long and skinny bathroom has original vintage tiles. With peachy pink tiles on the wall. Her office space craft room is in the 2nd bedroom.  Lauren has a monogram machine and loves to create pretty things with it.  I’ve been the lucky recipient of several items myself.Sewing supplies on one side and her art gallery wall, all done by herself.  I think those are pretty cute.

So, you can see what style Lauren is.  Come along to Philip’s loft and we’ll take a look at where the newlyweds will be living once they return from the honeymoon.

It’s a very cool space, but so different from Lauren’s apartment. From the sidewalk, we walk through these really tall vintage doors to the inside hallway and we take an elevator up to Philip’s floor.These are the doors in the loft.  It’s an airy space with beautiful hardwoods and brick clad walls.  Philip likes bold colors and has used several throughout.  I really love his choice of colors in here.This orange/terracotta highlights the main hallway coming into the kitchen and living room.  Colorful artwork on the wall is a great choice too.Looking into the living room, this side holds a small table and chairs right outside the kitchen.  Love that brick wall and beams on the ceiling.Here’s the open kitchen, very nicely done.And the blue in here is very pretty.Here’s a great look at that brick wall and the eating area highlighted with some modern artwork.

Do you see a little difference between styles?  I thought you might notice that too. 🙂 These 2 will have to compromise on decorating together.  Here’s the main living area, with leather sofa and chair and a big flat screen.  Modern jazz paintings are hung above.   To the left through those French doors is the guest room.Lauren plans to put her sewing machine in here to work on her monograms.  She’d love to cozy this space up a little.  She will probably have to make do with what is there for now, but maybe adding some pillows, throws and lamps to the space, will cozy it up some.That old stationary barn door is very cool and another part of the brick is in here too.  They don’t have a lot of extra space, so will have to utilize what they do have.  And oh my, does that girl have some stuff. Here’s the efficiently small guestbath right off the main hallway.Down the hallway and around the corner is the master bedroom.  It’s fairly compact too.He’s promised her she can do whatever she wants in this room, so we will see what she comes up with.  I’m going to try to help her with the cozy factor in here, so that it can be masculine, but feminine at the same time.   They do manage to compromise on those decorating shows, so I know it can be done!The master bath. With tiled tub area.  Brick archway in the hallway leading to the master bedroom.  There are some very cool features in this loft.I’m quite sure that Lauren will manage to put her stamp on it somehow.And bring some coziness in there too.Philip has great taste (of course he does, he chose Lauren!)  like his bird sculpture made from an old microscope and all metal.I thought it was the coolest piece!We had fun getting a look at it too.  I’m sure the newlyweds will make it work for both of them with possibly a few discussions along the way. The large windows open up and you can go out on the roof.  Not exactly a balcony, but it’s flat enough to sit a chair on.   Flanked by those large shutters, it could work as a great parade spot for Mardi Gras.Which, from the looks of these Mardi Gras beads, the parade route goes right by here.  The loft is in the edge of the French Quarter, within walking distance to a lot of interesting places.

I wish them the best and hope that they can reach an agreement on decorating for both of their tastes.
If any of you in the Birmingham area are planning to stop by my final sale again this weekend, I am now changing it to Saturday, March 12th from 8-12.  This will be mostly Christmas decor that I’m paring down.

You can email me for any details!  Email is found under the envelope on my right sidebar.  Thanks!

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  1. Lauren@SimplyLKJ says

    March 9, 2011 at 6:05 am

    Yes, very different styles, but I can see the two combining. I think Lauren’s personal artwork would work great in that space! Can’t wait to see what they come up with.

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  2. Arlene @At Home with the Grimms says

    March 9, 2011 at 6:37 am

    I love all the exposed brick in the loft condo! I think Lauren is up for the job of cozying up that space. And I think it looks great for a Man’s place! My own grown up son had the minimalist look in his townhouse but that just meant he had a sofa, tv , bed and that was about it! My dear DIL really spruced it up when she moved in. Thanks for sharing! Good luck with your yard sale…wish I were not busy this Saturday or I would head down that way!

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  3. The Lady says

    March 9, 2011 at 7:19 am

    Although they have completely different styles, the way they are looking at each other shows how united they are in their love.

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  4. Jenny @ Kerrfect! says

    March 9, 2011 at 7:25 am

    I always decorate so as not to make my husband feel like he’s living in a little girl’s bedroom. lol. We don’t have any florals or fem. colors or overly girly decorative extras. The only place that is female is my craft room, it has pink and floral damask curtains and touches around the room. Once in a while I get tehe urge to buy some pink and white shabby chic sheets, lol but I resist.

    I love the exposrd brick in the photos!

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  5. Karyn says

    March 9, 2011 at 7:38 am

    Oh I love his place! She is a lucky girl. Does he own it?
    I think they can come to some great compromises. I moved from Dallas to Houston to get married. We both owned houses, obviously I moved in with him and I made my stamp – our stamp together. I would describe it as very Pottery Barn, but with no actual PB pieces!!!! …. I think if they did something like that and she femm’d it up a bit, they will be doing great. What a wonderful place and to be in NO to boot, SO LUCKY.

    Congrats to them!

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    • Rhoda says

      March 9, 2011 at 7:40 pm

      He does own it, bought it out of law school.

  6. tina says

    March 9, 2011 at 7:52 am

    You said it yourself – OLD LADY. Lauren is a too cute young thing to decorate like an old lady!

    Love the loft – those brick walls are great! I think they can make a few little changes and it still be a great place.

    I had to crack up – all the toilets are OPEN! HA!!

    tina

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  7. Tonia says

    March 9, 2011 at 8:00 am

    Those doors are awesome! The tiles in the bathroom from the house remind me of one of my bathrooms. Fabulous tour. I enjoyed it.

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  8. Melissa Lewis - Midwest Magnolia says

    March 9, 2011 at 8:21 am

    The two styles are indeed different, but if he is anything like my husband, he will let her put her stamp all over the place as long is she is in it and happy! And I gotta tell ya, I am drooling over all the exposed brick and beams and old Barn Door! Oh my, what a jewel of a home.

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  9. Missy says

    March 9, 2011 at 10:10 am

    That loft is amazing! Love all the features… the hardwood doors, exposed brick walls, barn door.. all of it!

    And I have to comment… I love that Lauren still has the old-school Nintendo set! Heck, if mine still worked after all these years, I’d still have mine, too.

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  10. Sally Bennett says

    March 9, 2011 at 10:56 am

    I Love Lauren’s apartment, and especially her bedroom. The old fashioned furniture in that room is beautiful. Very vintage. Love the vintage bathroom tiles, also. Her apartment is very cozy. I do hope she won’t have to give up very much. She needs to hold on to who she is.

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  11. Yanet of 3 Sun Kissed Boys says

    March 9, 2011 at 11:01 am

    I LOVE Philip’s apartment! The exposed brick and beams are gorgeous. I also love the doors from the chevron shaped ones to the barn ones.

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  12. Down Comforter says

    March 9, 2011 at 12:04 pm

    I am so interested to see how they merge the two styles! they apratment is great! I love the french doors.

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  13. laura @ the shorehouse says

    March 9, 2011 at 2:02 pm

    Not a bad bachelor pad at all! Well done, Lauren. 😉

    I looooveee the loft — the details are amazing. her antique bedroom pieces would look so great in there (in my humble opinion!) and I can’t wait to see what you help her create. I also spy a NOLA Jazz Fest poster that hangs in the shorehouse as well. 🙂

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  14. Kat says

    March 9, 2011 at 3:11 pm

    Philip has done an incredible job! I’m sure Lauren will be able to add her “touch” here and there to make it hers too. Beautiful. I hope you’ll share after photo later.

    Loved your visit here! It was great getting to spend the whole day with you and the girls.

    Hugs,
    Kat

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  15. sandi @the whistlestop cafe says

    March 9, 2011 at 3:44 pm

    What a fun post! We know that merging styles is only a part of marriage. I pray that they will learn the art of comprimise.

    Rhoda~ you have to check my blog today. I have the coolest link for ash wednesday! Let’s have lunch again soon.

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  16. Memaw says

    March 9, 2011 at 5:12 pm

    If they are like my husband and I they WILL make it work. We did.

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  17. Pat says

    March 9, 2011 at 5:42 pm

    Wow! two very different tastes…but do-able. I can definitely see the two combined. That old rug in her bedroom would go oh, so nicely with that leather brown sofa of his!
    I couldn’t help but wonder– did he choose the dress for her to wear? Cause,if not, see? it matches the paint in his loft!
    LOL…so see they have some similarities already!
    Living in a city so rich in culture ~ their styles are going to mesh together and fit right into the scenery! You can’t get more eclectic than the French Quarter, can you?
    Best Wishes to them both.

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  18. Heating Allen Town PA says

    March 10, 2011 at 5:22 am

    Well you both did a god job, they’re all beautiful!

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  19. Cindy says

    March 10, 2011 at 7:46 am

    Hi Rhoda,
    That loft space is so great, I love it, what a wonderful challenge to add a few feminine touches, yet keep it true. I love it!
    Hugs, Cindy

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  20. Suzie says

    March 10, 2011 at 8:45 am

    No problem making this work! They both have great taste and they will make that loft a beautiful combination of their styles! What a great post!

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