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Life Changes

January 30, 2011 By Rhoda 381 Comments

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I am supposed to get on a plane for Israel tomorrow, but it is not going t o happen. I had to make the decision  not to go and I know it is the right decision for me.

In case you are wondering and reading between the lines  (and of course  you are, I would be wondering too), there are some major painful and difficult life changes going on with me at the moment.  I cannot share all the details at this time, but just know that I really need your prayers and support right now.

My 4 year blog anniversary is February and I have shared much of my life with all of you during this time and have kept this place drama-free.  Most of the time, I’ve kept this blog a happy and positive place to be, but unfortunately life sometimes brings pain and trials into our lives that we have absolutely no control over and we have to walk through them. One day at a time.

This is one of those times for me.  With God’s help, I will make it through this.  I cannot do it without Him.

Hard, painful, life shattering.

It may be awhile before I have any sense of normalcy again, but I will get there eventually.  The next couple of months will be very busy for me as I go down a new path.  I will be moving back in with my parents in Atlanta.  They are the best parents in the world and I’m so grateful to have them.  I’ll still be blogging and may share bits and pieces of what I’m doing as time goes on.  I hope you will stick with me.

I’ll be sharing more as time goes on with what this means for me, but for now please keep me in your prayers.  I took down the original Israel post in case you are looking for it.   Since those plans are so changed, it seemed to be the best thing to do.

Last week’s trip to Nashville and hanging out with friends was perfect timing for me and I’ll be sharing that this week too.

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  1. melissa @ the inspired room says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:06 pm

    Rhoda,
    You are such a blessing in blog world — no matter what, you will be held in our prayers and we’ll hope you’ll still pop in when you are ready and able. I’m so sorry for all you are going through. Keep your faith strong and take care of yourself.
    So wonderful to see you at Blissdom, I’m glad you came!!
    Many prayers & hugs,
    Melissa

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  2. Jessica @ These Are The Days says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:06 pm

    Oh, I’m so sorry. I met you briefly outside the (in)courage party and you mentioned you weren’t going but I had NO idea you were going through such a trial. I am SO SORRY, if I’d known, I’d have given you a bigger hug! I’ll keep you in my prayers dear. You can make it through this…sounds like your faith will bring you through. Hugs.

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  3. Amy of WhisperWood Cottage says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:06 pm

    You are in my thoughts and prayers, Rhoda.

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  4. sandy says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:07 pm

    Dear Rhoda. I am sorry to hear that someone who has brought so much joy to my life via the internet is going through so much pain. Good luck to you as you venture forward and God Bless.

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  5. Carol says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:08 pm

    Rhoda,
    I am sorry to hear that you are facing difficult decisions and major changes. I will definitely keep you in my thoughts and prayers. You are an extremely classy and talented woman, so you know by now that God won’t give you anything you can’t tackle. I hope your blog will act as a blessing and an escape for you during these times.

    Carol
    antiquetexan.blogspot.com

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  6. Debra from Bungalow says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:09 pm

    Oh Rhoda,
    Your heart must be breaking and my heart broke as I read this. Yes, I will pray for you…. I feel like I know you as a real friend. God will take care of you, have faith and trust in Him. ((( ))))

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  7. Marty says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:10 pm

    I never comment, but I read your blog regularly. My heart sank when I began reading this entry. I am brokenhearted for you. Know I will pray. (I also live in Atlanta.)

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  8. Holly says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:11 pm

    Oh, Rhoda, I am so sorry and will certainly be praying with you. I have emailed you before- you gave me the suggestion to go to Joe’s with my friends and even though we don’t really know each other just knowing you are a fellow Alabamian made me feel a kinship to you. I am sure you will be surrounded by many women who love you and admire you and will be praying for you because you are so special and loved. Sending hugs and lots of love. Holly

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  9. Kim says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:11 pm

    Rhoda, we are all here for you. So sorry for this new trial for you to go through. Certainly will keep you in my prayers.

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  10. Cathy says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:14 pm

    Rhoda, I feel like I know you through your posts and beautiful pictures. Praying you find peace and happiness – wherever this new path takes you!

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  11. Montee Wellman says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:15 pm

    prayers go out to you during this time,

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  12. Sharon Driggers says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:15 pm

    Rhoda, My thoughts and prayers are with you during this trying time.

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  13. Annette Taylor says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:16 pm

    Prayers coming your way!! Thought of you and lots of other bloggers that I follow this weekend as I was also in Nashville this weekend but not for Blissdom. I was staying next door at the Holiday Inn Express and was so wanting to come over and sneak a peak!!
    So glad you were surrounded by sweet friends!!

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  14. Cassie At Primitive & Proper says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:17 pm

    rhoda, i don’t really know you but i do read your blog. and when i read this i knew i just had to say i will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. thank god for good parents- i am so happy you have them to help you through this time.

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  15. laura trevey says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:17 pm

    Thinking of you Rhoda…

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  16. Terri Steffes says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:18 pm

    Rhoda, you have my prayers and love and support. Please let me know what I can do to help. I will be here!

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  17. Allison @ House of Hepworths says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:18 pm

    Rhoda, I’m so glad I met you last week. You are such a sweet beautiful person. I wish you nothing but the best, especially during this trial in your life. Please know that I’m thinking about you. {{{HUGE HUGS}}} to you, my friend.

    ~Allison @ House of Hepworths

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  18. Marianne says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:18 pm

    Rhoda ~ I am so sorry to hear you are going through tough times. I shall pray for you daily whatever your trials are. When one door closes the Lord opens another…

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  19. Melissa's Heart and Home says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:20 pm

    Rhoda I’m sorry and I do believe I understand what you are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with at this time sweet friend. We’re all here for you if you need us. Keep us posted.

    Warmly, ~Melissa

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  20. Lana Austin says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:21 pm

    I absolutely will be praying! You know I think the world of you!!!!!!!!!
    I’ll write more in an email in a few days, but for now, just know that I’m praying double time!

    And you absolutely HAVE to come to Italy now!

    🙂

    Prayers/blessings/hugs,
    Lana

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