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Life Changes

January 30, 2011 By Rhoda 381 Comments

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I am supposed to get on a plane for Israel tomorrow, but it is not going t o happen. I had to make the decision  not to go and I know it is the right decision for me.

In case you are wondering and reading between the lines  (and of course  you are, I would be wondering too), there are some major painful and difficult life changes going on with me at the moment.  I cannot share all the details at this time, but just know that I really need your prayers and support right now.

My 4 year blog anniversary is February and I have shared much of my life with all of you during this time and have kept this place drama-free.  Most of the time, I’ve kept this blog a happy and positive place to be, but unfortunately life sometimes brings pain and trials into our lives that we have absolutely no control over and we have to walk through them. One day at a time.

This is one of those times for me.  With God’s help, I will make it through this.  I cannot do it without Him.

Hard, painful, life shattering.

It may be awhile before I have any sense of normalcy again, but I will get there eventually.  The next couple of months will be very busy for me as I go down a new path.  I will be moving back in with my parents in Atlanta.  They are the best parents in the world and I’m so grateful to have them.  I’ll still be blogging and may share bits and pieces of what I’m doing as time goes on.  I hope you will stick with me.

I’ll be sharing more as time goes on with what this means for me, but for now please keep me in your prayers.  I took down the original Israel post in case you are looking for it.   Since those plans are so changed, it seemed to be the best thing to do.

Last week’s trip to Nashville and hanging out with friends was perfect timing for me and I’ll be sharing that this week too.

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  1. La says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:23 pm

    Dearest Rhoda,

    I am so sorry you are going through one of life’s rough patches. You are a wonderful lady with strong faith. I have no doubt you will come through this difficult time with dignity and grace.

    I am sending positive and healing thoughts your way. La

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  2. debbie says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:24 pm

    Hi Rhoda,
    You are a very special lady, even for us whom have never met you, you can feel your sense of sincerity and kindness just through your blog. I will be thinking of you and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
    XO

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  3. Pat H says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:24 pm

    Rhoda, I’m so sorry. Your heart must be breaking. You have wonderful family who love you and will be there for you. Many prayers and hugs…Pat H

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  4. Victoria says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:25 pm

    God’s timing is amazing. Haven’t read your blog in months due to my work schedule. Finally sat down today to catch up on all my wonderful blogs and found yours first. Prayer warrior to your rescue, sweet Rhoda. There is nothing that He won’t do to protect and cover you and keep you safe in every situation. Praying and believing that His grace will keep you and not allow you to be shaken. He has everything under control and you will remain in the center of His perfect will and under the cover of his loving arms.

    ~ En Agape & Shalom (Nothing missing. Nothing broken.)

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  5. Lacy says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:26 pm

    Rhoda, I hate to hear you are going through a bad time right now. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I wish you the best and hope that all of the support you have here in blogland is encouraging and help lift your spirits!
    Lacy

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  6. Vicki says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:26 pm

    Hi Rhoda,
    Unfortunately “C” and I were unable to attend Blissfully Domestic, but maybe next year. So sorry to learn that you are going through such a trial. We will lift you up in prayer that you will be led in every step of the way. Blessings,
    V

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  7. Keely says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:28 pm

    I am broken-hearted for you. Sending prayers for peace and healing. kc

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  8. Julie Schaal says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:28 pm

    Prayers 🙂

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  9. Diane says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:29 pm

    Hi Rhoda,
    Sorry to hear that you are having problems. I feel like I know you well through your blog even though we haven’t met.

    You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

    🙂 Diane

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  10. Leanne says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:29 pm

    I’m so sorry. Reading this breaks my heart, but I’m so happy you have wonderful parents and loving friends in your life to help you through this trial. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I love your blog and getting to know you through it.

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  11. Wanda @ Just Vintage says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:29 pm

    Rhoda, I hate to hear you’re going through such troubling times. And you’re right. God will see you through it all.

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  12. Jennifer says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:30 pm

    Thinking of you Miss Rhoda! We will be here with all the way.

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  13. Pat@BPM says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:31 pm

    Rhoda, I have thought about you since you talked about the Israel trip. I want you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers. You have my email if you need to talk about anything. We’ve known each other several years, through the GI days and here and I consider you a friend. I’ve had a few “life altering” experiences to draw from and broad shoulders.

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  14. Raised In Cotton~ Carol says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:31 pm

    Dear Rhoda~

    A few short years ago I went through some traumatic times when I lost my Mom and 2 brothers in a 10 month span. Like you I always try to make my blog an inspirational and fun place to visit. That changed when I reached out to my blog readers and simply told my story of grief. The outpouring of love was something I will never forget and truly appreciated. I know that many of your Dear Readers will send that same heartfelt support to you including myself when ever you feel the need.

    Many Blessings, Carol

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  15. liz @ bon temps beignet says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:31 pm

    I’ll be thinking and praying for you, sweet Rhoda.

    {{lots of hugs}}

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  16. Dawn says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:32 pm

    Oh dear, of all the people I have met in the blog world, you would be the last person I would want to hear something painful happening to. Just try and remember that everything happens for a reason, even when we don’t know why at the time.

    I pray for your strength, my dear.

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  17. [email protected] says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:34 pm

    Hi Rhoda
    I have read your blog for years and you are one of my favorites. My heart hurts for you. You are in my thoughts. I, along with many readers, give you the gift of encouragement… when someone encourages you, that person helps you over a threshold you might otherwise never have crossed on your own. We are here to help you cross the threshold. Much love and prayer. xo diana

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  18. sara says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:34 pm

    praying for you…

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  19. Ricki Jill Treleaven says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:34 pm

    I will pray Philippians 4:13 for you.

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  20. Kate at Centsational Girl says

    January 30, 2011 at 6:35 pm

    Dearest friend, I am praying for you every step of the way. I admire your brave beautiful face I was blessed to be with, even during your time of trial. Always here for you, as are all of your faithful readers.
    xoxo
    Kate

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