I am supposed to get on a plane for Israel tomorrow, but it is not going t o happen. I had to make the decision not to go and I know it is the right decision for me.
In case you are wondering and reading between the lines (and of course you are, I would be wondering too), there are some major painful and difficult life changes going on with me at the moment. I cannot share all the details at this time, but just know that I really need your prayers and support right now.
My 4 year blog anniversary is February and I have shared much of my life with all of you during this time and have kept this place drama-free. Most of the time, I’ve kept this blog a happy and positive place to be, but unfortunately life sometimes brings pain and trials into our lives that we have absolutely no control over and we have to walk through them. One day at a time.
This is one of those times for me. With God’s help, I will make it through this. I cannot do it without Him.
Hard, painful, life shattering.
It may be awhile before I have any sense of normalcy again, but I will get there eventually. The next couple of months will be very busy for me as I go down a new path. I will be moving back in with my parents in Atlanta. They are the best parents in the world and I’m so grateful to have them. I’ll still be blogging and may share bits and pieces of what I’m doing as time goes on. I hope you will stick with me.
I’ll be sharing more as time goes on with what this means for me, but for now please keep me in your prayers. I took down the original Israel post in case you are looking for it. Since those plans are so changed, it seemed to be the best thing to do.
Last week’s trip to Nashville and hanging out with friends was perfect timing for me and I’ll be sharing that this week too.
Prayers and HUGE hugs for you dear! We will still be here…we can’t get enough of ya! 🙂
I am another whose life you have touched through the internet. Praying for you….
Rhoda,
Although I’ve never met you, it’s not hard for anyone to see what a strong, amazing woman you are. Sometimes, we “strong, amazing” women are faced with real and ugly decisions. But, I have no doubt that you have thought long and hard about this one. I’m so glad that your faith and strength are with you right now. I’m also glad you have such wonderful, supportive parents! I don’t know where I would be without mine! They’ve stood by me through my very real and very ugly decisions.
You may not be blogging about the same home, the same man, or the same vacations. But, please know, you have so much to offer to so many. We all hope to hear from you soon!…Amanda
Rhoda,
Yes, you will be in my thoughts and prayers as you move forward in facing the days ahead. The most wonderful thing about blogging are blog friends and I know you have many. I’ve been blogging long enough to know that some of our virtual friends are as supportive as one can be. Many hugs.
I am so sorry that you are going through a painful trial right now. I am thankful that you have your mom and dad to lean on. Please feel free to share your burdens if you want or to take some time to heal from the hurts. Take care dear Rhoda.
You are in my prayers. Change is scary and in times of change it seems that all you want is normalcy. I will be praying for God to give you guidance and peace.
~Crystal
It sounds like we will all keep you in our hearts and prayers. May God’s love bring you peace and hope. ♥♫
I will be thinking about you a lot. You have my prayers and I know a lot of others! I hope you don’t lose your wonderful smile during this difficult time – know that we are all pulling for you darling!
To look on the brighter side, you’re better off in the USA at this moment. Lifting you up in prayer. I know that the classy, bright and loyal Woman of Faith that you are will help you move forward through these times of difficulties. May God guide you and hold you close in the days ahead. You are loved.
I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through such a hard time. Please know we are praying for you!!
I am so sorry to hear you are going through such a painful time in your life. I don’t have a blog, and never comment, but your blog is the first one I found when I started reading them, and I check in everyday. I hope you continue to let us know how you are doing. I will keep you in my prayers. I also live in Atlanta and shop many of the same places you like to visit. If I see you around the city, please don’t think I’m crazy if I come say hello. I wish you all the best in whatever life brings you. I do believe there will be happiness on the other side of this sad time for you.
Rhonda, I have followed you for 3 years my friend…But never comment..But as a woman I need to tell you my heart and prayers are with you my friend..God Speed..Hugs and Smiles Gl♥ria
Oh, sweet friend, you know you can count on me to be praying for you! I’m here if you need to chat. Our guest room is always available and Miss Daisy would love to give you extra kisses and would welcome your hugs. I’m serious…if you need some beach therapy, come here.
Much love and big hugs,
Kat
I read your blog all the time, but don’t comment much – just get inspired all the time. I am so sorry to hear you are facing a very rough patch in your life. My thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Rhoda,
Like so many others I am very sorry to hear of the struggle you are going through right now. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. You’re one of my favorite bloggers and one of the very first ones I ever read. You might even be the very first blog I ever followed 🙂
Take care of yourself and we of course will all be here when and if you need us. Hugs, Alicia
Rhoda, I am so very sorry for what you are going through. Like a true southern woman, you sure covered it with grace at Blissdom. I know I never would’ve guessed that there was any pain behind your cheerful smiles. Makes me hurt for you even more knowing what you were going through. I will certainly be keeping you in my prayers.
Well I am a newbie to blogworld but loved your blog and personal touch ever since I discovered it and just want to send you my best, and that I will most definitely keep you in my prayers. I hope that whatever it is that is going on will work out in due time and not cause you too much pain, sadness or grief. I had a rough year myself in 2010 so you have my sympathies and understanding….life can be so unpredictable with such unxpected highs and lows. That’s why one of my big resolutions for 2011 was to enjoy and live in the moment and not look over my shoulder ( as I had a habit of doing) waiting for the other shoe to drop. Life will go on as its meant to no matter how we might want it to be otherwise. I hope there is happiness, love and peace waiting for you sometime very soon:) Take good care.
Rhoda, I’m so sorry to hear of the pain you’re going through. Your blog has blessed so many of us, so know that we are here in your time of need. Blessings to you on your new path.
Heidi @ Show Some Decor
Rhoda, sorry you’re going through such a painful time. I’m praying for you.
Oh, Dear Rhoda! I’m so sorry you’re going through a difficult time.
You’ve always been an inspiration to me and one of the first blogs I started to read. You can trust you’ll be in my prayers that the Holy Spirit will give you direction and peace. Take care of yourself and we’ll all be here for you.
Blessings,
Shelia 😉
Rhoda, thinking about you, praying for you, missing you all the time!! You are such an amazing, strong woman, and I know you will come through the other side even more so. Love you!!