I am supposed to get on a plane for Israel tomorrow, but it is not going t o happen. I had to make the decision not to go and I know it is the right decision for me.
In case you are wondering and reading between the lines (and of course you are, I would be wondering too), there are some major painful and difficult life changes going on with me at the moment. I cannot share all the details at this time, but just know that I really need your prayers and support right now.
My 4 year blog anniversary is February and I have shared much of my life with all of you during this time and have kept this place drama-free. Most of the time, I’ve kept this blog a happy and positive place to be, but unfortunately life sometimes brings pain and trials into our lives that we have absolutely no control over and we have to walk through them. One day at a time.
This is one of those times for me. With God’s help, I will make it through this. I cannot do it without Him.
Hard, painful, life shattering.
It may be awhile before I have any sense of normalcy again, but I will get there eventually. The next couple of months will be very busy for me as I go down a new path. I will be moving back in with my parents in Atlanta. They are the best parents in the world and I’m so grateful to have them. I’ll still be blogging and may share bits and pieces of what I’m doing as time goes on. I hope you will stick with me.
I’ll be sharing more as time goes on with what this means for me, but for now please keep me in your prayers. I took down the original Israel post in case you are looking for it. Since those plans are so changed, it seemed to be the best thing to do.
Last week’s trip to Nashville and hanging out with friends was perfect timing for me and I’ll be sharing that this week too.
So sorry to hear such a wonderful, beautiful soul is going through a difficult time.
I think the very best thing we out here can do for you is offer up prayers on your behalf…and that’s exactly what I’ll be doing. I’m a firm believer in “If God brings you to it, He will see you through it.”
With Much L♥VE,
♥ Becky in SC ♥
Hi Rhoda, I’m so sorry. I’ve only been reading your blog for a few months, but I really enjoy it and get a lot of inspiration from you. I’ll be praying for you as you make your way through.
“For I know the plans I have for you says the Lord…..” He will neve put on us more than we can bear. God is strengthening you through all this that you may see a small glimpse of the power of His love. Lean on Him and know that it all will come to pass. I prayed for you before posting this and will continue.
Thank you for opening up to us, Rhoda, so we can bring you support and prayers in your time of need. You have brought so much joy and happiness to your readers. It’s our pleasure to send love back.
Thoughts, prayers and love coming your way Rhoda! While I don’t know your “personally”, it sure feel like I do. My heart is breaking for you to have to go through this pain! Please know you have so many people thinking about you! We will be here!
Not sure what is going on, and I don’t need to know. I can tell your heart is aching right now. Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I’ve had a lot of sadness in my life recently, after the death of both parents and my MIL. Listening to this really helped me today: In Touch: The Valley Experiences in Our Life
Jane
Hi Rhoda: I am very sorry to hear this news…I only hope you stay strong and you will get through it…keep focused, strong, healthy and it will turn out better than you think – I will use this cliche but I have found it so true: ‘when one door closes, another opens’ – and sometimes very quickly and unexpectedly or more slowly, but it will open. I hope this helps!! xxoo
Blessings to you….
rhoda, when you get ready to talk and take the load from your shoulders; we are here to support you, to lend a listening ear, and to offer words of encouragement.
stay strong, kim
Dearest Rhoda,
My heart is aching right along with you. I feel as if I know you for I too have been following your blog for a long time even before I became an “official” follower. Your faith has always shown through in your blog. God never promised us a life free of heartache, pain, and suffering when we became Christians. HE did promise us though that we are never alone. HE will carry you through this valley and whisk you once again to the mountaintop in HIS own perfect timing and HIS own perfect way. Please know that I am adding my prayers for you right along with all the other wonderful people here. I love your sweet Southern charm and am so saddened to know of your pain. Life is difficult at times. That’s why having GOD in our lives makes things much more bearable because HE is in control. Blessings sweet lady.
~Country Lady~
Oh Rhoda, I’m so sorry! You are such a sweet soul and I wish the very best for you, no matter what path life takes you down. You’ll definitely be in my prayers!
Consider yourself hugged 🙂
Gina
Sweet, sweet friend, I’m just a phone call or Skype away. You are precious and I know that God will lead you and guide you every step of the way.
xoxo
Rhoda, I am so sorry for you to be experiencing such pain. You are a blessing to everyone with whom you come in contact, and many of us are scratching our heads and thinking, “Why on earth should RHODA have to suffer like this?”
I will certainly pray for you. You are a dear and wonderful woman, and I wish nothing but life’s best for you.
Well, dear friend, you have been on my heart and mind since we talked last week. I’ll be talking to you soon but if you need me before then, don’t hesitate to call me. As to the info you asked me to re-send, I’ll give it to you over the phone rather than share via e-mail. You know I’m here for you and anything I can do to help, I’ll be happy to do.
From reading all the comments above, you can see that you are much loved and admired. Many prayers are going up for you. And another cliche, time heals all wounds….I know, I’ve survived some pretty serious wounds in the past but time IS the great healer.
XOXO!
Judy
Rhoda, I am SO sorry. I will be praying for you daily over the next couple of months!! Please let me know if there is ANYTHING I can do. We will miss you TERRIBLY in Birmingham – I hope you’ll be able to visit often!! Again, if you need help with anything during the moving and transitioning process, please let me know!
Rhoda, I am hurting for you.. Just know that you have many many friends out in blog land who love you and will keep you in our prayers.
I know God has a plan for you and it will better than we can imagine!
Love you sweet lady!!!!!
You are strong, courageous, beautiful, and full of grace. You are a testimony of what it looks like to be a true woman of faith, and my life is so much richer with you as a friend! Lean on us in those moments you feel weak and know that you are LOVED!
Praying for you….
I will surely be sending you good thoughts and keeping you in my prayers. Take care of yourself!
Dear Rhoda,
Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Keep your chin up and know that God does indeed have a plan.
Love Your Friend,
Deborah
xoxo