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Life Changes

January 30, 2011 By Rhoda 381 Comments

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I am supposed to get on a plane for Israel tomorrow, but it is not going t o happen. I had to make the decision  not to go and I know it is the right decision for me.

In case you are wondering and reading between the lines  (and of course  you are, I would be wondering too), there are some major painful and difficult life changes going on with me at the moment.  I cannot share all the details at this time, but just know that I really need your prayers and support right now.

My 4 year blog anniversary is February and I have shared much of my life with all of you during this time and have kept this place drama-free.  Most of the time, I’ve kept this blog a happy and positive place to be, but unfortunately life sometimes brings pain and trials into our lives that we have absolutely no control over and we have to walk through them. One day at a time.

This is one of those times for me.  With God’s help, I will make it through this.  I cannot do it without Him.

Hard, painful, life shattering.

It may be awhile before I have any sense of normalcy again, but I will get there eventually.  The next couple of months will be very busy for me as I go down a new path.  I will be moving back in with my parents in Atlanta.  They are the best parents in the world and I’m so grateful to have them.  I’ll still be blogging and may share bits and pieces of what I’m doing as time goes on.  I hope you will stick with me.

I’ll be sharing more as time goes on with what this means for me, but for now please keep me in your prayers.  I took down the original Israel post in case you are looking for it.   Since those plans are so changed, it seemed to be the best thing to do.

Last week’s trip to Nashville and hanging out with friends was perfect timing for me and I’ll be sharing that this week too.

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  1. Rhonda says

    January 30, 2011 at 7:47 pm

    Rhoda,
    This is when you fully rely on God to hold you up and comfort you.
    Can you imagine going through this without Him? I’ve never understood how non believers get through hard times.
    Please know that I will be praying as you go forward.
    I will miss having you in Birmingham to report on the yard sales and great places to shop there.
    Rhonda

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  2. Susie Harris says

    January 30, 2011 at 7:47 pm

    Rhoda,
    You are one of the strongest women I know. I know that you will be facing some tough times ahead but you are not alone. We are all here with you. Praying with you all the way. I’m sure this was a hard decision to make but I think you are on the right track. Hang in there sweet friend. I’m here for you….love you, Susie

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  3. Pam says

    January 30, 2011 at 7:48 pm

    Bless you on you life changing journey and be safe.

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  4. Dawn-Hydrangea Home says

    January 30, 2011 at 7:49 pm

    So sorry to hear you are going through something so difficult. I will be praying and thinking of you!

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  5. Sharon says

    January 30, 2011 at 7:50 pm

    Rhoda … you will get through it. It may not seem like it at the moment, but life will be wonderful again. You are strong, and you will be enveloped with love by your family …. and your blog friends will be supportive of your changes.

    Chin up … and carry on.

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  6. Sheila says

    January 30, 2011 at 7:50 pm

    Oh, Rhoda! I’m so sorry to hear this, my sweet friend. You are right. We’ve been blog friends for several years now, and I just want you to know I love you and am thinking of you. I’m so sorry things are in upheaval in your life, but I love you and will pray that things will work out. Again, I’m sorry and am holding you close at heart.

    XO,

    Sheila

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  7. Angela says

    January 30, 2011 at 7:51 pm

    So sorry you’re going through this. You’re in my prayers. God is with you always.

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  8. Melanie says

    January 30, 2011 at 7:54 pm

    I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

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  9. Jima says

    January 30, 2011 at 7:58 pm

    My prayers are with you. God is faithful to carry you when you need it most.

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  10. Amanda @ Serenity Now says

    January 30, 2011 at 7:59 pm

    My prayers are with you. You are the epitome of a strong, beautiful, gracious, Southern woman. Keep your chin up and know that your readers are supporting you with thoughts and prayers. Hugs to you from Virginia tonight, Rhoda!

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  11. Katherine @ Grass Stains says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:00 pm

    Rhoda, I’ve long told my readers that I only write about 7% of my life — even though it SEEMS like I share every tiny detail of it! There are some things that we all have to make choices about whether to share or not to share, and relationships and/or circumstances that we have to protect. I will keep you in my prayers and hope that you will find peace in this road you’re walking today, this week, next month and into next year … however long it takes.

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  12. Ann says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:00 pm

    Rhoda,
    I don’t know you in person, but feel like I do from your blog. I have been there and no how much pain you are in, but I also was able to go home to my wonderful parents. There is nothing like family and faith at times like these. Truly, God will not give you more than you can handle. He will build strength in you as you go through this. I will pray for you.

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  13. Cara says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:01 pm

    Rhoda, you are who first inspired me to start blogging, and start thrifting for decor! We all love you, and I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

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  14. Jamie says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:01 pm

    Rhoda–
    So sorry for what you are going through right now. I’ll pray for the best for you. Just remember, the sun will shine again!

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  15. Becki says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:02 pm

    PRAYING!!

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  16. Lesa says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:04 pm

    Dearest Rhoda, I realize you don’t know me from Adam, but I felt led to write to you when I read your blog today. I feel like you are an old friend from school that I catch up with through your blog. I am So sorry to hear that you are going through a rough patch. Please know that I will pray for you and your family. God doesn’t make mistakes, so just trust in him and you will be fine. And of course we will hang in here till you are feeling up to writing again. Keep your chin up, girlfriend 😀 With best regards, Lesa

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  17. [email protected] says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:10 pm

    Oh girl, so sorry to hear you are undergoing struggles. You will be in my prayers, and remember whatever you are facing, you are in the Fathers hands.

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  18. Layla says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:12 pm

    Praying for you as you go through this tough time, Rhoda.
    You know I’m just a hop, skip, and a jump away- so don’t hesitate to call if you need a friend, or help with the move. Love you girl. XOXO

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  19. Stephanie says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:12 pm

    I have been following and reading your blog for several months now, and have enjoyed getting to know you through your site. Please know that I will be thinking of you and praying for you. I am sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult time, but know that your real-life and blog-life friends will be there for you!

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  20. Shelley Smith says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:13 pm

    Oh dear! I hate that you are having to go through anything this rough. I am so sorry!
    Please know that I have and always will be a devoted reader.
    Your writing style and personality is what keeps me coming back. Not projects, or features. I love your blog for YOU.

    I’m keeping you in my prayers.
    Best wishes,

    ~Shelley Smith

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