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Life Changes

January 30, 2011 By Rhoda 381 Comments

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I am supposed to get on a plane for Israel tomorrow, but it is not going t o happen. I had to make the decision  not to go and I know it is the right decision for me.

In case you are wondering and reading between the lines  (and of course  you are, I would be wondering too), there are some major painful and difficult life changes going on with me at the moment.  I cannot share all the details at this time, but just know that I really need your prayers and support right now.

My 4 year blog anniversary is February and I have shared much of my life with all of you during this time and have kept this place drama-free.  Most of the time, I’ve kept this blog a happy and positive place to be, but unfortunately life sometimes brings pain and trials into our lives that we have absolutely no control over and we have to walk through them. One day at a time.

This is one of those times for me.  With God’s help, I will make it through this.  I cannot do it without Him.

Hard, painful, life shattering.

It may be awhile before I have any sense of normalcy again, but I will get there eventually.  The next couple of months will be very busy for me as I go down a new path.  I will be moving back in with my parents in Atlanta.  They are the best parents in the world and I’m so grateful to have them.  I’ll still be blogging and may share bits and pieces of what I’m doing as time goes on.  I hope you will stick with me.

I’ll be sharing more as time goes on with what this means for me, but for now please keep me in your prayers.  I took down the original Israel post in case you are looking for it.   Since those plans are so changed, it seemed to be the best thing to do.

Last week’s trip to Nashville and hanging out with friends was perfect timing for me and I’ll be sharing that this week too.

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  1. Monica Converse says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:13 pm

    Rhoda…sometimes the road to happiness takes it own route! You have offered us so much over the years – please know that you are in my thoughts – and I look forward to you redecorating your “NEW SPACE” !!! Monica – Canandaigua, NY

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  2. Traci says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:13 pm

    Rhoda,
    Just reading through your comments I have been so blessed. I hope you have felt so much love in each one. You are so precious to me and your readers. I wish I could fix the hurt, but I can’t. So I will take it to HIS feet and trust you to HIS care.
    I love you, friend.

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  3. Debra says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:16 pm

    Rhoda,
    Definitely will be praying…..and if there is anything we can help with being just a street over (even though I know you have super next door neighbors), please don’t hesitate to ask……..debra

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  4. Rachel Beal says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:16 pm

    I’m so sorry you are going thru this hard time right now, you will be in my prayers. Remember God has a plan for us all, and this too shall pass. Hugs, Rachel

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  5. Carol@SofasandSage says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:18 pm

    Dear Rhoda, it’s been forever, it seems, since I’ve been reading you, as time has been so tight these past few months. I am so sad to come back today and read that there is something really hurting you in your life. I believe in the power of prayer and you will be in my thoughts. You are blessed to have all these readers supporting you on this journey, whatever it may be. I hope you find enormous comfort in that. Make sure to take care of yourself.

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  6. Mrs H in WV says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:19 pm

    Rhoda,
    I am so sorry to read this post. You are truly an inspirational lady and one of the reasons I love to follow your blog is because you are so down to earth and real. My heart breaks for you, but as your “sister” I am praying for you. God has been there for me, time and time again, even in my darkest valleys and He has taught me so much in those troubling times. He is good, all of the time. Hugs..

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  7. Delinda says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:24 pm

    I am a regular reader of your blog and enjoy it very much. I’m sending good thoughts your way! Take care.

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  8. Lori says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:25 pm

    Hi Rhoda,
    I have been reading your blog for some time. Your posts always touch me with their sincerity and honesty. Please know that you are in my prayers. I wish you all the best during this difficult time. Please take care of yourself. That’s the most important thing right now.
    Lori

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  9. mary beth says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:25 pm

    Praying for peace and rest for you as you make this journey …so glad you shared your need with the rest of us, so that we can hold you up in prayer! Isn’t it a blessing to know that so many of your readers believe in the power of prayer and will be covering you in this way? Dear friend…Everything’s Going To Be Alright!

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  10. Linh C says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:26 pm

    Sorry you’re going through tough times right now. You’ll be in my thoughts and prayers.

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  11. Nancy Thomas says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:28 pm

    My prayers and thoughts are with you as you walk a new path.

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  12. Jamie baker says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:38 pm

    praying for you Rhoda! anything I can do for you here???

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  13. Jo says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:39 pm

    Of course we’ll be here! Life takes many twists and turns, some we choose and some just happen. Be kind and gentle with and for yourself….my thoughts are with you

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  14. sandi @the whistlestop cafe says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:40 pm

    You have my number dear friend. Call me if you have time or just want to talk. I will certainly be lifting you up in prayer.
    You have a way of letting your light shine… no matter where you are.

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  15. Jules says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:41 pm

    Rhoda – I’m sorry you’re going through this tough transitional time. You obviously have a great deal of love and support here 🙂 I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

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  16. Vanessa says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:51 pm

    I don’t really have the right words and I know that isn’t even what you are looking for. Just know that I am deeply sorry that you are in this painful season and I will be lifting you up in prayer, trusting with you that our Heavenly Father will surround you with comfort and strength.
    Vanessa

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  17. Mindy says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:54 pm

    I am a regular reader of your blog. I mostly enjoy your tips about places in Atlanta to visit and shop for great discounts since I live about an hour north. I wish you all the best as you go through things in your personal life. Just known you have complete strangers praying for you! Keep the shopping trips coming, I am headed to the decorators mart tomorrow!

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  18. Missy says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:57 pm

    So sorry that you have to face some diffcult changes, but know you are not alone.
    You are blessed to have a wonderful family and friends.
    Susie and I both are so worried about you and we are here if you need anything.
    I will never forget the first time I got to meet you in person. Your smile can light up a room. I will be praying for you to find peace in all that you do.
    Missy

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  19. Stephenie from Decorating Addiction says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:58 pm

    Rhoda,
    You are in my prayers. You will come out stronger than you ever dreamed imaginable. Keep looking up.

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