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Life Changes

January 30, 2011 By Rhoda 381 Comments

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I am supposed to get on a plane for Israel tomorrow, but it is not going t o happen. I had to make the decision  not to go and I know it is the right decision for me.

In case you are wondering and reading between the lines  (and of course  you are, I would be wondering too), there are some major painful and difficult life changes going on with me at the moment.  I cannot share all the details at this time, but just know that I really need your prayers and support right now.

My 4 year blog anniversary is February and I have shared much of my life with all of you during this time and have kept this place drama-free.  Most of the time, I’ve kept this blog a happy and positive place to be, but unfortunately life sometimes brings pain and trials into our lives that we have absolutely no control over and we have to walk through them. One day at a time.

This is one of those times for me.  With God’s help, I will make it through this.  I cannot do it without Him.

Hard, painful, life shattering.

It may be awhile before I have any sense of normalcy again, but I will get there eventually.  The next couple of months will be very busy for me as I go down a new path.  I will be moving back in with my parents in Atlanta.  They are the best parents in the world and I’m so grateful to have them.  I’ll still be blogging and may share bits and pieces of what I’m doing as time goes on.  I hope you will stick with me.

I’ll be sharing more as time goes on with what this means for me, but for now please keep me in your prayers.  I took down the original Israel post in case you are looking for it.   Since those plans are so changed, it seemed to be the best thing to do.

Last week’s trip to Nashville and hanging out with friends was perfect timing for me and I’ll be sharing that this week too.

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  1. Mary Feagley says

    January 30, 2011 at 8:59 pm

    What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

    Blessings and peace!
    Mary

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  2. Anita @ GoingALittleCoastal says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:02 pm

    I will keep you in my thoughts. We will all still be here. Hugs to you!

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  3. Dana@AdoptionJourney says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:04 pm

    Rhoda – I love your blog. I love that you’re a Christian and that you’re a Birmingham girl – I don’t live there anymore, but it’s where I grew up. Praying for you.

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  4. Stacey says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:06 pm

    Rhoda, my heart hurts for you. I have always been able to see that you are a strong woman with great faith. Things will turn out well for you which ever way the road turns. You will be in my thoughts.

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  5. Ev says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:08 pm

    Rhoda

    You have been such an inspiration to me on so many levels. I love, love, love your style.
    I am so sorry to see you go through such a difficult time.

    Please take care of yourself. I will keep you in my prayers.

    Love,
    Ev

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  6. The Cottage Chick says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:09 pm

    Rhoda,

    As you know I am praying for you. It was delightful to meet you this week, but so sorry you are going through a difficult time. I have been there too many times to want to tell. I empathize with you. My heart aches for you. God Bless You my sister! We will be here to come along side in your journey.

    Love,
    Denise

    Denise

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  7. judy says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:10 pm

    You have been so inspirational to me. I have loved following your blog and I even purchased bead-board wallpaper from your Open Sky shop (It looks great in my laundry room, by the way). I am saddened to hear of your trial. Our pastor started a new sermon series today entitled, Thrive… finding God in Difficult Transitions. One thing he said today was, “You don’t always get to choose what happens to you, but you do choose how you respond to it.” I’ll be praying for you.

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  8. Tardevil says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:15 pm

    Rhoda, so sorry for what you’re going through, but I have to say, I’m glad you’re not going to Israel right now. I was worried for you. Even more so, knowing that your parents are elderly, and that you would be leaving them for a year. I always try to remember the saying “when God closes a door, he opens a window”. I usually find that seems to be true. Will be praying for you to see happier days. This too shall pass.

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  9. RosieJo says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:26 pm

    Trust your instincts! If something is not right for you, you can’t force it to fit. You bring us all much happiness. Praying for the same for you.

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  10. Rebecca@This Present Life says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:26 pm

    Sending {Hugs} {Prayers} your way!

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  11. ashley @ pure + lovely says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:26 pm

    I already knew it, but after meeting you this last week, know that you are an amazing woman, with a ton of support behind you. You are truly incredible, and please know I am praying for you. If you need ANY help with ANYTHING I’m barely an hour away. Seriously let me know. Praying hard.

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  12. Allison says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:28 pm

    I don’t know you real well yet, Rohda, but I wanted you to know that I am keeping you in my prayers as you go though this challening time. Take good care of yourself.

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  13. Jenny says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:28 pm

    I am so sorry you are having a difficult time. I will be thinking of you and hoping for better times for you soon!

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  14. Mary says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:29 pm

    Rhoda,
    You are the first blog I read everyday…I can’t even imagine not being able to check in with you every day to see what your up to and what treasure you have found or what project you are tackling (still amazed at all your skills). I am so sorry to hear that you are going through an unexpected life change. You have a lot of support from readers so know that you will be lifted up in prayer as you start this new journey in your life. Please keep us readers posted on what your doing because it will be amazing no matter what it is.

    Mary (Birmingham)

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  15. Melissa says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:31 pm

    My prayers will be with you! Tonight we were singing some children’s songs at church, I was reminded of one when I read this post. It said something like this, God is with you in darkest valley, on the highest mountain, in your bed, He knows whats in your head. The gist of it being a reminder that He knows what you are going through, He knows what you are feeling, and He is right there with you. Remember, God will NEVER leave you, NEVER forsake you. I hope you find that He is real and is carrying you through this hard time.

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  16. Megan {Honey We're Home} says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:31 pm

    Rhoda, I will lift you up in prayer and I hope that you feel all of our love and support through the blogwaves.

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  17. Linda @ A La Carte says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:38 pm

    I am so sorry for your troubles. I have been down that very hard path and I know it is painful but ultimately healing. You are in my prayers.

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  18. Gretchen says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:46 pm

    You’re in my prayers. You have an entire community of bloggers thinking of you!

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  19. Lorie says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:46 pm

    Rhoda,

    It was such a blessing to meet you and I hope you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers while you go through this time of your life.

    Lorie

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  20. Melanie says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:49 pm

    Dear Rhoda, I am so sorry that you are going through a horrible trial and troubles in your life right now. Life can be so hard and painful sometimes. (I lost my 21 year old son just 16 months ago.) God bless you and keep you in His care.

    ~Melanie
    http://www.comfyhouse.blogspot.com

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