I am supposed to get on a plane for Israel tomorrow, but it is not going t o happen. I had to make the decision not to go and I know it is the right decision for me.
In case you are wondering and reading between the lines (and of course you are, I would be wondering too), there are some major painful and difficult life changes going on with me at the moment. I cannot share all the details at this time, but just know that I really need your prayers and support right now.
My 4 year blog anniversary is February and I have shared much of my life with all of you during this time and have kept this place drama-free. Most of the time, I’ve kept this blog a happy and positive place to be, but unfortunately life sometimes brings pain and trials into our lives that we have absolutely no control over and we have to walk through them. One day at a time.
This is one of those times for me. With God’s help, I will make it through this. I cannot do it without Him.
Hard, painful, life shattering.
It may be awhile before I have any sense of normalcy again, but I will get there eventually. The next couple of months will be very busy for me as I go down a new path. I will be moving back in with my parents in Atlanta. They are the best parents in the world and I’m so grateful to have them. I’ll still be blogging and may share bits and pieces of what I’m doing as time goes on. I hope you will stick with me.
I’ll be sharing more as time goes on with what this means for me, but for now please keep me in your prayers. I took down the original Israel post in case you are looking for it. Since those plans are so changed, it seemed to be the best thing to do.
Last week’s trip to Nashville and hanging out with friends was perfect timing for me and I’ll be sharing that this week too.




Hang in there, R. Thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers.
Of course, you are in my prayers. God will keep you, sustain you and lead you to a brighter future! I just know it.
Remember, sweet lady- He gives and takes away! And He is beside you and in you during your most trying times. Keep your head up- you are loved.
Rhoda- I will just leave this with you- something that has become my mantra when I wonder what is in store for me and can’t stand the loss of my control over things-
“May today there be peace within you. May you trust God that you are exactly where you are meant to be. May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith. May you use thise gifts that you have received (and you already have!) and pass on the love ( you’ve done that too!) that has been given to you. May you be content knowing that you are a child of God. Let his presence settle into your bones, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, and to baske in the sun. It is there for each and every one of us…” Peace- Joanne B.
I am praying for you Rhoda…i am sorry you are going through this trial and i hope you feel a special closeness and love from the Lord during this time. SO many people care for you, especially HIM and so thankful you have your parents.
There is nothing I can see except that I *loved* meeting you, and am praying for you, sweet girl. Lots of love from Virginia~xxoo
Friend, I am thanking God in advance for seeing you through
to a brighter tomorrow.
You & yours are covered in prayer, patti
((((Rhoda))))
I love you.
Kim
Im so sorry to hear all of this Rhoda. All I know is that God has brought you this far. He will NOT leave you or forsake you. May you feel His sweet presence even in the midst of this heavy trial.
Blessings
XO
Dear Rhoda,
I hope you will feel the power of many prayers as you rebuild your life. I’m so happy to “know” you and I wish you the very best. Praying for you! Right now!
Big Fan and Virtual Friend,
(((Hugs)))! ~Angie
I am a loyal reader….never commented…..but I love all your stories about family and decorating and cooking….So sorry about your situation, but praying for good things to happen for you. Don’t stop sharing !!!
God may not change the circumstances, but He promises to be with us ALL THE WAY THROUGH!
Dear Rhoda….I have been reading your blog since you started four years ago. When I started reading it, I was going through a life change myself in moving from ATL to NJ. I was missing ATL and your blog kept me connected to the South and all its charm. We are the same age, so in many ways, I feel a strong bond with you. I wish that you did not have to go through this life change. But, it’s wonderful that you still have your parents for support, I do not and that’s often hard. I will keep you in my prayers. One thing I have learned about you is that you are resilent, strong and determined. You WILL get through this tough time and the sun WILL shine again. Blessings to you.
Dearest Rhoda, I am so sorry to hear this. You are certainly in my prayers and will continue to be as you go through this difficult time. I enjoy your blog so much; you are always so honest and candid and YOU! That is why you are so loved. You can move forward with strength from your Faith, your Family and your Friends. Hugs to you! Diane
Rhoda,
I am so sorry for the difficult time you are going through. Please remember that our loving Father is right there with you. May you lean into Him during this time and may He give you the grace and strength for each day. I will be praying for you.
Dear Rhoda, I am so sorry to hear that you are going through a rough time. I am glad you are staying in the states, and I’m very glad that you listened to your heart and made this difficult decision to stay. I will be praying for you along with everyone else in blogland. You are the best!
Rhoda,
My heart aches for you. I know that you are facing very difficult decisions and I pray that you will feel God’s sufficient grace and be strengthened for the journey. You have inspired all of us with your wonderful blog and I know that you will also inspire us as you face these challenges with grace and dignity. Here’s another virtual hug and a prayer!
You have been added to my prayer list and God will hold you close and carry you through this time in your life. You don’t know how many lives you’ve touched with your blog but I want to thank you for the Godly life experiences and talents you have shared. Jane
I enjoy your blog so much and was so sad to hear of the difficult time you are going through. I’ll be sending up a prayer for you today and I hope you feel the love and support of all your “bloggy” friends here in Alabama and all over the world. Take care…
Rhonda,
I just saw your smiling face at Centsational Girl so I thought I’d come over and leave a comment! Your blog looks amazing and I love your header (which is new for me).
I know all will be well, you are a powerful woman!!
xoxo
Maria