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Life Changes

January 30, 2011 By Rhoda 381 Comments

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I am supposed to get on a plane for Israel tomorrow, but it is not going t o happen. I had to make the decision  not to go and I know it is the right decision for me.

In case you are wondering and reading between the lines  (and of course  you are, I would be wondering too), there are some major painful and difficult life changes going on with me at the moment.  I cannot share all the details at this time, but just know that I really need your prayers and support right now.

My 4 year blog anniversary is February and I have shared much of my life with all of you during this time and have kept this place drama-free.  Most of the time, I’ve kept this blog a happy and positive place to be, but unfortunately life sometimes brings pain and trials into our lives that we have absolutely no control over and we have to walk through them. One day at a time.

This is one of those times for me.  With God’s help, I will make it through this.  I cannot do it without Him.

Hard, painful, life shattering.

It may be awhile before I have any sense of normalcy again, but I will get there eventually.  The next couple of months will be very busy for me as I go down a new path.  I will be moving back in with my parents in Atlanta.  They are the best parents in the world and I’m so grateful to have them.  I’ll still be blogging and may share bits and pieces of what I’m doing as time goes on.  I hope you will stick with me.

I’ll be sharing more as time goes on with what this means for me, but for now please keep me in your prayers.  I took down the original Israel post in case you are looking for it.   Since those plans are so changed, it seemed to be the best thing to do.

Last week’s trip to Nashville and hanging out with friends was perfect timing for me and I’ll be sharing that this week too.

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  1. Mary says

    January 30, 2011 at 11:58 pm

    Rhoda I am so sorry that you are hurting and will be praying that you will lean heavily on the breast of Jesus like the beloved John did that night before Jesus went to the cross for us. You are His beloved and He will carry you through it all.

    bee blessed
    mary

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  2. Missy says

    January 31, 2011 at 12:27 am

    Rhoda, I have enjoyed getting to know you through your blog. You are a very special lady. I am sorry to hear about your life changes {the trip, and etc…} not going the way you thought. It sounds like a difficult time that you are going through. Lean on your friends and family and you will be blessed.
    Take care,
    Missy

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  3. Kim says

    January 31, 2011 at 12:41 am

    I’m so sorry you are going thru some hard times but I know with God’s help you will be fine. You’re blog was one of the first ones that I started to read. You were one of the reason’s I thought I would give the blog world a whirl. You are truly an inspiration to me in decor and in life. I know that if you put your trust in the Lord he will never let you down. You are on my prayers.

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  4. Barbara F. says

    January 31, 2011 at 12:59 am

    Rhoda, I’m another long time reader, yours was one of the first blogs I ever started to follow. I will be sending up prayers for you as you deal with whatever difficulties are coming your way. I’m so glad you have loving parents to spend time with – that’s a true blessing.

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  5. Julie M ~ The Little Red Shop says

    January 31, 2011 at 1:18 am

    I’m lifting you up in my prayers, Rhoda. Thank you for sharing your request with us.

    God Bless You!

    Julie M.

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  6. DENISE says

    January 31, 2011 at 2:44 am

    Rhoda,
    I am so sorry you are hurting. You have been a true inspiration to all of us and you will be in my prayers.

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  7. Vicky says

    January 31, 2011 at 3:12 am

    Dear Sweet Rhonda you know we are all here for you! Keep the faith my dear friend and your new path will lead you in the right direction. Sending prayers your way everyday! Hugs, Vicky

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  8. Kathy says

    January 31, 2011 at 4:26 am

    Rhoda, sending you support as you face these challenges. God bless.

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  9. Judy Clark says

    January 31, 2011 at 4:49 am

    My Beautiful, Precious Friend:

    You and I know that I have been awake many nights in the last few weeks praying and interceding for you. God is in control of your life. This painful time will be behind you soon. I love the story of Joseph in the Bible when he tells his brothers who sold him into slavery. “You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.” This is only the beginning for you my friend.

    Love you,Judy

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  10. Laura says

    January 31, 2011 at 6:23 am

    Dear Rhoda,
    My prayers are with you! I was very sorry to read your post and had no idea you are going through this difficult period. You have wonderful parents and that is such a Blessing! Remember All things come together for good to those who love God and are called according to his purpose.

    Best of Luck,
    Laura (from Fl, now back in NJ)

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  11. Nicole says

    January 31, 2011 at 6:32 am

    Rhoda-please know that you are in my prayers. You’re an inspiration to many! The Lord will see you through this and your readers will be right here for you. I live in Marietta/East Cobb so please don’t be afraid if you are out junkin’ one day and fan says hi! 🙂

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  12. Arlene @At Home with the Grimms says

    January 31, 2011 at 6:33 am

    Dear Rhoda….I am so sorry to read that you are going through a hard time. I have enjoyed reading your blog and I am glad that you will continue to share your life with your blog friends. Praying that God will guide your steps in the days to come.

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  13. Leslie says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:09 am

    Rhoda, you are in my prayers. I’m sorry you are going through this.

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  14. Debbie L. says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:23 am

    Rhoda, my heart breaks for you this morning. I am so very sorry dear one. I know that the Lord will guide you out of this deep valley you are in now. I pray that each new morning brings healing to your heart and you will reach the top of the mountain again. Whatever you are going through just know that there are many many people who care and are praying for you.

    Hugs,
    Debbie L.

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  15. Julia @ Hooked on Houses says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:25 am

    Sending you hugs and prayers!!

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  16. Katie says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:25 am

    So sorry Rhoda,
    You are a really neat lady that has so much to offer. I will praying that you are doing okay. Many people go though tought roads so you are not alone. Many of us can relate I am sure. You are loved.

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  17. Laura says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:46 am

    You are in my prayers, Rhoda. When I am going through a tough time, I always pull out my hymnal and go straight to “How Firm a Foundation”. I hope those lyrics give you strength, too.

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  18. Roxanna says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:54 am

    You have chosen not to take a journey which was not right for you & now you are beginning a different journey. May you find strength in God, friends, family and followers to help you through this difficult time in your life. It is unfortunate that sometimes life is not what we want or expect & I know God will lead you to where he wants you to be. Difficult times always seems to make us feel humble but then always hopeful. I will keep you in my prayers.

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  19. Laurie says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:58 am

    Rhoda, I’m so sorry you’re going through rough times right now. I love reading your blog everyday and enjoy it very much! Just remember you have a lot of friends and your family is there for you! It sounds like you have wonderful parents and will support you no matter what. I will keep you in my prayers!

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  20. Sheila Hill says

    January 31, 2011 at 8:04 am

    Dearest blog friend, I have tears as I just read your most recent post. I have been curious about your plans to go to Israel and not that’s not happening…for whatever reason and for whatever is causing your pain and heartache, I am so very sorry. I will lift you up in prayer right now! So many times, I look back and know there were only one set of “footprints.” God Bless you and email me if you need someone to pray with. Most Sincerely, sh

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