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Life Changes

January 30, 2011 By Rhoda 381 Comments

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I am supposed to get on a plane for Israel tomorrow, but it is not going t o happen. I had to make the decision  not to go and I know it is the right decision for me.

In case you are wondering and reading between the lines  (and of course  you are, I would be wondering too), there are some major painful and difficult life changes going on with me at the moment.  I cannot share all the details at this time, but just know that I really need your prayers and support right now.

My 4 year blog anniversary is February and I have shared much of my life with all of you during this time and have kept this place drama-free.  Most of the time, I’ve kept this blog a happy and positive place to be, but unfortunately life sometimes brings pain and trials into our lives that we have absolutely no control over and we have to walk through them. One day at a time.

This is one of those times for me.  With God’s help, I will make it through this.  I cannot do it without Him.

Hard, painful, life shattering.

It may be awhile before I have any sense of normalcy again, but I will get there eventually.  The next couple of months will be very busy for me as I go down a new path.  I will be moving back in with my parents in Atlanta.  They are the best parents in the world and I’m so grateful to have them.  I’ll still be blogging and may share bits and pieces of what I’m doing as time goes on.  I hope you will stick with me.

I’ll be sharing more as time goes on with what this means for me, but for now please keep me in your prayers.  I took down the original Israel post in case you are looking for it.   Since those plans are so changed, it seemed to be the best thing to do.

Last week’s trip to Nashville and hanging out with friends was perfect timing for me and I’ll be sharing that this week too.

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  1. Bren says

    January 31, 2011 at 6:41 pm

    I only know you through your blog and I just want to give you a hug! Through all the pain and trials remember to smile at the little things and your laughter will grow each day. You are in my prayers…..B:)x

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  2. Kim says

    January 31, 2011 at 6:49 pm

    You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry you are going through a difficult time.

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  3. Melissa S says

    January 31, 2011 at 6:50 pm

    Peace, prayers and love!

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  4. Emily says

    January 31, 2011 at 6:56 pm

    Rhoda, I found your blog only last fall and I’ve been following you since. I had to let you know how much I’ve enjoyed reading your posts and your photographs. Your making life changes and going through a difficult period in your life…….but your are so Blessed to have your wonderful parents to help you. Your blog is The One, to inspire me to attempt my own. I hope you will continue after your move. I feel like we are practically neighbors, I live in Tuscaloosa and I’m always looking for an excuse to drive up to Birmingham. Hope your not away very long, you’ll be missed. God Bless………

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  5. Jamie says

    January 31, 2011 at 6:57 pm

    I feel very selfish – I look forward to reading your blog every afternoon and have never commented. I only follow a few blogs and love yours. I pray that you remain strong – you seem like such a lovely person!

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  6. ColleenwithMurals&More says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:01 pm

    Hi Rhoda. You don’t know me, but I was introduced to your blog from Sarah & Miss Mustard Seed. You have inspired me more than you’ll ever know – but that’s not what I’m writing.
    I lost my home in September. I’m living with my mother and my Hubs is living with his – in 2 different cities. It’s been horribly rough. Yet, thru it all, I’ve found a new deep and profound faith in not only the Creator, but also myself.
    I pray you find peace and joy thru all of this. I know you will. I just wanted to be one of the people who writes down just how much your shared words mean to me.

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  7. Sheila says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:02 pm

    Whatever it is, we welcome you back to Atlanta. I am a Georgia girl myself and love it here. Keep trusting in the Lord and he will lead the way. Praying for you!

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  8. Zoe says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:04 pm

    Rhoda,

    Sending you lots of love and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Your blog means so much to me and I so appreciate all the time and effort you put into it.

    You have so many friends out here pulling for you.

    Hugs,

    Zoe

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  9. edith says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:16 pm

    You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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  10. Bette says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:24 pm

    I have been reading your blog for a couple years and always enjoy.
    This is the first time I have ever made a comment on any blog. I just want to say you are in my prayers and I pray that you know you are thought and prayed for by many. Love in Christ

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  11. bonnie says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:25 pm

    It is very obvious you have many people who admire you, care about you and want to encourage you. It is also very evident you will be bathed in prayer. May you feel the tremendous outpouring of concern and know your Heavenly Father cares and will be there for you.

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  12. Nancy says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:31 pm

    So sorry for the difficult time you’re going through. Prayers to you…

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  13. Kerry says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:31 pm

    I have enjoyed your blog for so long! I hope you find the answers you need. Praying for you!

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  14. MarilynHoleman says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:41 pm

    Dear Rhoda, I will pray for you. Remember to keep your eyes on Jesus.

    In Him, Marilyn

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  15. Nancy says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:43 pm

    I am hearing you! Please know that we all are thinking and praying for you! You will do wonderfully! Nancy

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  16. Debra says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:44 pm

    Rhoda,

    I am a long-time reader, and seldom “commenter”. Your creative blog and your sweet commentary on other projects and folks you have met in “blog-land” are a source of joy and inspiration. I will think of you and pray that the “peace that passes understanding” will be yours…..

    Debra

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  17. Pinky says

    January 31, 2011 at 7:49 pm

    Rhoda, I am so sorry to hear you are going through this pain. But, I know you are RESILIENT and will come through this. I am glad you ahve your parents fopr support. I will keep you in my prayers, look for new posts from you and certainly, STICK WITH YOU!!!!!!! YOu have been a wonderful inspiration to so many. Keep your faith. XOXO, Pinky

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  18. Vici says

    January 31, 2011 at 8:09 pm

    May God bless you and keep his loving arms around you!

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  19. Deb says

    January 31, 2011 at 8:28 pm

    Rhoda-

    You will definitely be in my prayers as you work through what you need to work through.

    You have been such a positive influence in this world of blogging for me personally- and wish only the best for you. Thank you for sharing with us- and know you are supported and loved.
    All the best-

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  20. Debbie says

    January 31, 2011 at 9:10 pm

    Hi Rhoda! You don’t know me. I am not a blogger. I am just a girl that enjoys reading your posts. I feel like your a friend of mine. I am sorry to hear that you are going through some difficult times. I just said a prayer for you and will continue to do so. What is the saying,
    If God brings you to it he will get you through it.

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