I am supposed to get on a plane for Israel tomorrow, but it is not going t o happen. I had to make the decision not to go and I know it is the right decision for me.
In case you are wondering and reading between the lines (and of course you are, I would be wondering too), there are some major painful and difficult life changes going on with me at the moment. I cannot share all the details at this time, but just know that I really need your prayers and support right now.
My 4 year blog anniversary is February and I have shared much of my life with all of you during this time and have kept this place drama-free. Most of the time, I’ve kept this blog a happy and positive place to be, but unfortunately life sometimes brings pain and trials into our lives that we have absolutely no control over and we have to walk through them. One day at a time.
This is one of those times for me. With God’s help, I will make it through this. I cannot do it without Him.
Hard, painful, life shattering.
It may be awhile before I have any sense of normalcy again, but I will get there eventually. The next couple of months will be very busy for me as I go down a new path. I will be moving back in with my parents in Atlanta. They are the best parents in the world and I’m so grateful to have them. I’ll still be blogging and may share bits and pieces of what I’m doing as time goes on. I hope you will stick with me.
I’ll be sharing more as time goes on with what this means for me, but for now please keep me in your prayers. I took down the original Israel post in case you are looking for it. Since those plans are so changed, it seemed to be the best thing to do.
Last week’s trip to Nashville and hanging out with friends was perfect timing for me and I’ll be sharing that this week too.
I just wanted to let you know that I will keep you in my prayers, I am sorry for the hard times you are having to deal with now! Thanks for inspiring us all, And while we all have those feelings of being alone during hard times– just know that there are hundreds of readers pulling for you while you are struggling and a loving Father in Heaven! With lots of love, Cassity
Your blog has always been one of my favorite’s! From reading your blog over the last couple of years I can tell that you are one strong gal!
I know that you can handle whatever it is that is bothering you!
thoughts and prayers are with you.
You are in our thoughts and prayers. When Iwas going through a terrible time in my life, my uncle told me exactly what I needed to hear: “This too shall pass”. I hope that gives you some comfort.
C
I’m writing to you with tears in my eyes: I’m so sorry to hear this! My heart hurts for you…
You share so many wonderful photos, ideas, recipes & you’re just SO entertaining to read: you’re my “special break” each time I get a SH email post.
Please know that I will be praying for you during this time. I’ve been there – many years ago. May the Lord bless you with a peace & understanding that only He can provide.
Bless you and we’ll all continue prayers for you and know that God has a plan for you. I recently went through a VERY tough one myself so can totally relate.
Rhoda, know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
I’m so sorry that you’re facing a difficult time, Rhoda. I’m a relatively new reader (just discovered you … happily … a few months back), but even I could tell there was something different about your tone when you announced the Israel trip. I wish you strength, courage, and peace, my friend.
I have been following your blog pretty regularly for several months, now. Just want to say I only wish you the best. Hang in there, during this difficult time of your life. You are a stong, dynamic person and you will come out of this even stronger. Sending prayers and thoughts your way from the Midwest.
Rhoda, I know God must have something very special planned for you. I’m so glad you have him to go to at this time. You’ll be in my thoughts and prayers.
I’ve enjoyed reading your lovely blog for a year or so, and never commented. So sorry that you are going through a difficult time, I am sending prayers and warm wishes for a new beginning your way!
Sending you all the best at this difficult time. I hope you may once again (very soon) experience the joy that your blog brings to us.
Please take care.
Good luck to you in this difficult time. God bless you!
I’ve been exactly where you are now…..and it is painful, but in a while, it won’t hurt so much to breathe, to look at the beauty around you and begin to enjoy your life again. You are not alone; prayers and good thoughts…….
Thoughts and prayers coming your way – take care!
Someone shared this scripture with me 8 years ago when I was going through some life changes:
James 1:2-4 – “Dear Brothers & Sisters, whenever trouble comes your way, let it be an opportunity for joy. For when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow. So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be strong in character and ready for anything.” (New Living Translation)
May God use this scripture to comfort you as it did me. You are in my prayers.
I’m praying for you during this difficult time.
Dear Rhoda,
As I read the above, tears came to my eyes. I have never commented on your blog before, I am a little shy? but I have made it my daily reading for several years!! You do not know how much it has meant to me to get on here and look around and see all the love, caring and just all around loveliness your blog presents. The last two years have been a major time of adjusting my mind and heart to some very painful, heartbreaking days. Your blog is a refreshing, cheerful reminder of discovering everday beauty and pleasure and having fun doing it. I will continue to read your blog! “The Lord is my Shepherd I shall not want” Psalm 23:1 My prayer for you.
i’ve been a follower for a few months (the bham connection caught my attention at first :)) and have thoroughly enjoyed every one of your posts, but have never commented. my heart was so touched by what you wrote and i wanted to let you know that i will keep you in my thoughts and pray for God’s peace and strength as you go through this difficult time.
Rhoda, I’m sorry you’re going through this difficult time. I was worried for you when I read about your move to Israel. I’m believe you have made the right decision, and that it was a hard one. I’m sure you know these things too. Birmingham’s loss is Atlanta’s gain. Take care.
Allison
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