I am supposed to get on a plane for Israel tomorrow, but it is not going t o happen. I had to make the decision not to go and I know it is the right decision for me.
In case you are wondering and reading between the lines (and of course you are, I would be wondering too), there are some major painful and difficult life changes going on with me at the moment. I cannot share all the details at this time, but just know that I really need your prayers and support right now.
My 4 year blog anniversary is February and I have shared much of my life with all of you during this time and have kept this place drama-free. Most of the time, I’ve kept this blog a happy and positive place to be, but unfortunately life sometimes brings pain and trials into our lives that we have absolutely no control over and we have to walk through them. One day at a time.
This is one of those times for me. With God’s help, I will make it through this. I cannot do it without Him.
Hard, painful, life shattering.
It may be awhile before I have any sense of normalcy again, but I will get there eventually. The next couple of months will be very busy for me as I go down a new path. I will be moving back in with my parents in Atlanta. They are the best parents in the world and I’m so grateful to have them. I’ll still be blogging and may share bits and pieces of what I’m doing as time goes on. I hope you will stick with me.
I’ll be sharing more as time goes on with what this means for me, but for now please keep me in your prayers. I took down the original Israel post in case you are looking for it. Since those plans are so changed, it seemed to be the best thing to do.
Last week’s trip to Nashville and hanging out with friends was perfect timing for me and I’ll be sharing that this week too.
I don’t comment here that often but do follow and enjoy your blog very much. Like several others have said, regardless of whether we know the details or not, know that many are thinking of you and praying for you right now. When I was going through a divorce several years ago one of my friends used to sing I am Woman, Hear me Roar…it really helped:)
Sending warm wishes your way for strength through difficult times!
Just recently started my own blog a few weeks ago and I’ve enjoyed reading yours for a few months now. I’m sorry to hear of the difficult time you are going through and I am sending warm wishes your way. I live in Alpharetta and before kids I was an Interior Designer. I love you style. If you are any where near here would love to meet up with you. You can contact me through my blog.
Oh Rhoda, my heart aches for you. It was so wonderful to meet you this past week & I am so sorry for this painful period in your life! I hope it passes quickly and on the other side is a whole new beautiful life for you!
I look forward to your Blissdom re-cap post & was hoping I could have a copy of that picture you took by the fireplace of all of us on Tuesday evening? Thanks so much & much love is being sent your way!
Miss Rhoda, I just wanted to say that I am sorry you are in pain. I’m glad you have been blessed with supportive friends and family, and a resilient spirit that knows how to search for and find peace in God.
Whatever your situation may be, I pray that it resolves quickly.
Much love from a Tennessean in Carolina…
(Also a devoted reader who never comments… sorry!)
Cayce
I hope you get through this, God bless you and your family.
Rhoda- my heart dropped when I read you are going through such a traumatic time. While you don’t know us, your readers, we feel close to you anyway. Please know we care and you are not alone. Your internet support system is here! hugs and hearts.
There are almost no words to describe pain like that, but you are a strong woman with a beautiful life left to play out. I also don’t comment much, but your blog was one of the first I ever read and I have been an avid follower ever since. I am blessed that you are rooted in the only SURE foundation, Jesus Christ. I will for sure be lifting you up and look forward to all your future posts and will remain a faithful supporter! Thanks for such great inspiration!
-Jill D. in NC
Rhoda –
I’m a daily visitor to your blog and wanted to let you know how sorry I am that your life took a turn you didn’t want it to take. I’ve been down a similar path and remember well the confusion and frustration of trying to deal with a major life change I did not want but could not control. Dealing with the powerlessness of feeling like my life was a runaway train was the hardest thing I’ve ever done, but I did come out the other side wiser and stronger. I knew it was good again when a friend commented that the smile was back in my eyes and not just on my face. I know you’ll be there again too. My best wishes for your journey – it’s not always smooth, but I believe in the end, you’ll be where you belong.
Sandy
Rhoda – I know what you mean about presenting our blogs and what others’ perceive our lives to be. But…live is hard…a lot. I feel like I sugarcoat a lot or leave out the stuff I wish I could write about, but don’t. Maybe it is my way of ignoring some of the difficult times. Either way, it is theraputic. Your friends and follwers will be here with you through it all! Fear not!! I have a lot of family in the Atlanta area. I hope you find great joy in the little things while you transition. Blessings to you!! Carol
Saying a prayer of peace for you and that He will sooth your hearting heart in a way that is beyond our understanding. (((hugs)))
Rhoda, I am truly sorry for the pain you are going through right now, but I appreciate you letting us know that this part of your journey is a little rocky and you need some support. I feel as if I know you through your wonderful blog. You are such a lovely, God fearing woman and have so much to offer. God will show Himself faithful as He always does and you will persevere. You are in my prayers, sweetie! Hang in there and enjoy your parents 😉
Prayers for peace and remember, WE are all here for you too 🙂
…praying for you rhoda…for all the things He will do for you..you are not alone…i am in atlanta…so my prayers will meet yours each day…blessings friend…
Rhoda, my prayers are with you as you go through this difficult season in your life. You WILL get through this. “He will not let you fall, He will not let you fall, He is never weary and He will not let you fall.”
Blessings,
Joyce
I enjoy your blog so much; the decorating advice, thrift store finds, recipes etc. I can tell you are a really good person and have a wonderful family. I will keep you in my prayers that God will watch over you as you go through this difficult period in your life. Take care of yourself!
I am just now reading this but the HUGE number of comments really speaks to your character! I have really been thinking about you the last few days. I will continue to pray for you and I hope that things turn around for you soon. You are truly loved in blogland!
🙂 Erin
Rhoda,
I have followed and loved you since the old MSN decorating message board I “met” you on years ago. We were both Atlanta girls at the time. Pre Peter days even. Please know you will be in my thoughts and prayers. I have been right where you are, so I really know how hard it is. God will see you through and I really do hope you continue blogging.
Big hugs, Lyndy
Rhoda,
My heart grieves for you and these life-changing wvents at this moment. You have been such a positive influence in my life for several years now. You have inspired me with your love for beauty, creativity, and your faith in God. As you go through these life changing moments just know that I will be praying for you and hope for the very best in your future.
May the Lord bless you and keep you,
Jen
As one who has read your blog and enjoyed it so much for some time, please know that I will be thinking of you and praying for you during this time of life change. You are a virtual friend, but the thoughts and prayers are VERY REAL!