My Blogging Story: Part 1

Without a doubt, the most-asked question I get when I tell someone that I’m a full-time blogger, is this:

How did you get started blogging?  

Then they will ask what I blog about.  

Then they ask if you can make money blogging.

Most folks who don’t know anything about blogs, will tilt their head slightly, smile, eyes slightly glazed over, and want to know what in the world a blogger does. There are many people out there who don’t have a clue about this online world we live in.  Many people don’t log on every day  to scour the internet for ideas and inspiration.  Sure, they might go on news sites and check their email, but they are not getting mesmerized by the blogosphere.

I know many of my readers are not bloggers, but I hope you’ll find this series interesting too!


Heck, so many people don’t even know the blogosphere exists.  Most bloggers feel like we are at the center of what is hot and hip.  How could the rest of the world not see that?  We try to stay informed and up to date on what our passion is all about, but there are plenty of folks out there who just don’t know anything about this thing we call blogging.

There is no one size fits all manual for “how to blog”. 

But oh, how blogging has changed my life. 

In February I’ll hit my 5 year blogoversary, truly a milestone.  Sort of like dog vs. people years, 5 years in blogging is a long, long time.

So, in celebration of that 5 year mark,  I thought it might be a good time to look back and document my blogging journey. I’ve seen several bloggers do just that and even though at times, I think what else can I add to the conversation about starting a blog, sustaining a blog, and turning a blog into a business, I realize that yes, I do have things to share!

Blogging is truly a learn it as you go type of thing.  On the job training, so to speak.

Just from the sheer amount of years that I’ve been doing this thing called blogging, that alone makes me something of an expert on the subject.  Do I know it all?  Oh noooooo, of course I don’t and at times feel like I’m still such a novice on all thing blogging, especially the technical side!

Do I have plenty to share about my personal experience with blogging.

Oh, yes I sure do!

Anyone that blogs has a blog story.  I have my own unique perspective on it all and I’m hoping that sharing my story will give inspiration and insight to those of you who are new to this crazy blog world.

The blogosphere is still growing and growing and growing. Where it will go, no one knows. That is one of those unknown things that none of us have the answer to.  

So sit back, grab something to sip on and here begins my blog story.  I’m going to break it into at least 5 parts (maybe more, I have no idea how rambling I’ll get on all of this), for every year that I’ve been blogging.  February will start my 6th year of writing this blog  and I would never dream that I’d have that much to talk about, but it seems that I do! 🙂

It seems that another unique thing about bloggers is the fact that most of us, when we started blogging, had no idea where it was going to lead us.  I started on a whim, just for fun.  A hobby.  Something to do that was an outlet for my passion of interior decorating, DIY projects, and thrifting for the most part.

My journey began in February of 2007. 

I had been living in Birmingham with my husband at the time for a little over a year.  I quit my corporate job in Atlanta when we moved over there at the end of 2005 and set up house, with plans to be a stay at home wife.   I had worked my whole life in the 8 to 5 corporate world, so staying home was a novelty to me at the time.

I had long been involved with online decorating boards, since around the mid-90’s. Better Homes and Gardens and GardenWeb’s That Home Site were 2 sites that I frequented constantly back in those days.  So, I knew my way around the web, it was a fun world for me to hang out in.

In early 2000, I joined an online site called Great Impressions, which started as a public site, then went private due to large growth.  It was started by a small group of us who spun off from Better Homes and Gardens decorating boards and quickly became a popular hangout for like-minded women who loved their homes and  were devoted to decorating.  We talked paint colors, we shared projects and celebrated design triumphs.  We talked each other through design dilemmas. We were able to set up photo albums online and look at each others’ houses.  Now that was a new and exciting thing, to actually be looking at other house pics from all over the country.  That was a mere 12 years  ago, that’s how fast this online world has evolved.  It was a really great group of women and it was very fun for about 5 or 6 years.  There are still some from the old group that read my blog and occasionally I will get a mention of that in a comment.

During those years of Great Impressions, one of my online friends from that group, Kim, started a blog called Daisy Cottage.  She was smitten with an older cottage home and had always wanted to live in an old home, so we celebrated with her when she moved into Daisy Cottage, her beautiful cottage in Florida.  Kim and I became buddies and we were kindred souls.  I would visit Kim’s blog and look at her pretty pictures.  She would encourage me to start my own blog.  I laughed, not really planning to do it, but one day in early 2007, on a whim, I decided to set up a free Blogger account.  Later, in 2008, Kim and I met in person when I was visiting Florida for a few days.  We are still good friends to this day and I love her dearly.   She is such a sweet, supportive,  and creative friend.   That was part of the  journey for me of meeting other bloggers in person and that hasn’t stopped either.  It has just gotten better over the years.  Bloggy friendships have absolutely been the best part of blogging for me.

So, Southern Hospitality was born. 

I don’t even know what made me choose the name. It just seemed to me that Southern Hospitality was a phrase that would embody what I wanted to share on my blog, so that was it.

My blog had a name.  An identity.

That free Blogger account started me on my blogging journey that month in early 2007.  I had no idea what I was doing.  Back then, there were hardly any decorating or design blogs at all.  It was mostly crafting, sewing, artsy sort of blogs and it wasn’t all that huge in numbers.  I remember going through blogrolls that I would find on other blogs and that’s how I found most of the blogs that I would visit and leave comments on.  Back then, it was a pretty small community and getting to know other bloggers happened easily.

I would click from blog to blog, leave a lot of comments and then all of a sudden I began to get comments back on my blog.  Oh, how exciting that was!  Someone was actually reading my blog.  They liked what I was doing.  It felt good to share and have others validate my projects or ideas.  I think I’m going to like this blogging thing.  It’s a lot of fun!  I had a little point and shoot camera and knew nothing about getting great photos, but I started seeing beautiful photos on other blogs and wondered how they did it.

That year of 2007 moved on through the summer.  I felt the need to go back to work in mid-summer of that year.  I knew that there were some financial issues going on  at home and we needed more money coming in and so I began to look for a job.  I was enjoying my blog and keeping it going by blogging about 3 times a week or so.  Whenever I had something to share, I would share it.  I didn’t have a real schedule in mind with blog posts, but when I did something fun or completed a project, I would put it on the blog.

In August, I landed a really great job working for a local privately owned company in Birmingham.  I was the assistant to the President and it was a nice place to work.  I planned events, took care of his calendar, ordered office supplies, and handled a lot of things around the office.  That was the type of job I had in the past, so I was used to working in that sort of environment.  I shared my office and all about my new job on my blog.  I had lots of comments and encouragement and my readers wondered if I would keep blogging.  I said I was going to keep blogging. I enjoyed that creative outlet too and didn’t want to stop.  It was a fun online world that I enjoyed being a part of.  Many of my original readers are still with me, I’m happy to say!

My job lasted until the end of that year and I quit after Christmas, at the request of my ex-husband after only 5 months of working.  Looking back, I should have kept that job, although it would have done nothing to stop the unbelievable avalanche that would happen 3 years later.  It would have helped us a lot, but I deferred to his request and quit.  I wrote all about that too on my blog.

And if you are new here and have no idea of the drama of a year I’ve been through, read Life is Not a Magazine Cover for all the details (my divorce is final, by the way).

I had no idea at the time that this blog would be my lifesaver down the road.  No idea that 3 years later, my life as I knew it would completely fall apart and crumble to pieces.

BUT…..God in His infinite wisdom, knew!

So, that first year was just for fun, sharing my hobby of decorating and my passion for the home.  It was great fun getting to know so many other bloggers out there, but it was nothing like the sheer volume in this home/DIY niche now in 2011.  Not even close!  2007 was my first year of sharing and share I did.

I shared my projects at home, along with my yardsale adventures.  I found out there were lots of girls out there who were addicted to yardsales too.  I wasn’t alone in my penny-pinching ways.

Back then, I remember spending hours and hours learning how to change my background, getting my feet wet with html.  And wow,  is that a crazy world!  Html will drive you insane.  I have always been good with computers, so learning new things has come easy for me in that area.  I made my very first header all by myself and boy, was it pathetic. I wish I still had it saved, but sadly I don’t.  🙂

That first year was a complete learning experience.  I saw many new bloggers come on the scene in that first year too and it was a great time of growth and just learning the ropes.

There was SO much to learn and learn I did.  I had no idea what I was doing, nor where I was going, but I was having fun.   I decided when I quit that job that it might just be time for me to start my own business and pursue the decorating thing that I had always wanted to try.

So, 2008, was the year for that.

I announced on my blog that I was starting my own decorating business with hopes of getting my own clients in person as well as offering online services.

I got my business  license and officially became a self-employed business person in early 2008 and shortly after established my business as an LLC.  I was on my way to doing something different.

I was traveling a new path and where it would lead, I had no idea.

To be continued……I will write another post later on, continuing my blog journey.   No posting schedule on this series, but I will keep writing until I get to the finale to date, which is where I am now.  I’m going to share lots of tips and details on blogging along the way too, so hopefully at the end of this series, you will feel like you’ve learned something. 

Continue Reading Part 2

Continue Reading Part 3

 

- Rhoda

Comments

  1. Dear Rhoda,

    I’ve read your blog story parts 1 & 2. Thanks for being so open and transparent. I believe your transparency is the primary reason for your success. You are a real woman with real life issues like the rest of us, yet you find inspiration and create beauty in amazing ways! May God continue to bless your blog as you bless your readers in many ways.
    Love you sweet friend,
    Vic

  2. Hello! Thank you for sharing this, I have recently discovered the decorating blogs and have fallen in love! I have been a member of an online musical blog since 2006. Because I love decorating and sharing my home and ideas I would often post my projects there. One of the readers suggested that I start a blog and share my home and stories and gave me a link to your blog as well as others. I have been a little afraid of taking the plunge because I thought I was just not internet savy. After reading your blogging posts I have decided to give it a try. Thank you for all the inspiration.

  3. I’m glad when you said “have a drink” I went immediately to the kitchen, and poured out the leftover champagne from my birthday party last night! I’m excited to read the entire series, I love hearing how your blog (and your life) has changed so much over the last 5 years. The good and the bad. Although I haven’t actually clicked to the “bad” parts yet. Oh, the baby is up from her nap, here’s hoping the champagne doesn’t bother her too much:)

  4. Hello Rhonda!
    I just feel like I’ve known you forever. Love your voice and your story. So far is an inspiration to me. I am a mom of 2 little girls with a great husband too. Started blogging about a year ago and have so much to learn. Its been in my mind the question of “what would I ever do if something (God forbid) happened in my marriage?” You see I am a stay at home mom too! Can’t wait to keep reading and find out what happened to you and your business! We woman need to be business woman!

  5. Hello,
    I am so thankfull I found your blog! You have inspired me with your story. I wont go into details however I have been homeless for for the past 3 years living from place to place. However, my dream of becoming a homeower will happen in less then two weeks. This has been a great acomplishment! I miss the feeling of a home, and your blog has made me feel that homy feeling agian. I will use some of your inspirations and creativity to put together my new home.
    Thank you, and keep up the great work!

  6. I to have started over after a divorce. Am following my dream, set up my web site and am actually trying to blog. You are an inspiration. I love your blog

  7. WOW! I JUST started my blog this week (I felt the Lord leading me in this direction for awhile, but I kept coming up with excuses!)..
    I was looking for tips on blogging and I found YOU!
    This is a wonderful story..I only finished Part 1 so far, but I’ll be back to read the rest.
    Lori

  8. Stumble upon your blog this weekend and gave this article a read. I have wanted to write a blog but didn’t know where to start…. Well after reading this and a little nudge this morning, I published my first blog!!!!
    Thanks for the encouragement through your words!!!

  9. Rhoda, I’m reading your Blog Stories and I have been truly rejuvenated by your honest journey. I am new at this blog thing and I am one of those persons you mentioned in your first story. I’m not computer savvy either so I have a double dip of learning curves I’ve been winding through. I found your blog because I was searching for someone who dabbled in more than one passion and you popped up. I love everything that represents home and the memories created there. Thank you for your inspiration. I will be following your journey and learning every step of the way.

    Warm Regards,
    Marsha Jones

    • HI, Marsha, so glad you found me! Thanks for the sweet note, I look forward to having you hang out with me.

  10. Just got linked today – but am so blessed…would read more on the “to be continued”….

  11. Stacie Johnson says

    I came across your post/blog while researching Cash Liquidation Sales…
    I am a firm believer that nothing happens by “chance.”
    Thank you for your contribution to Inspiring others! You have a new follower!
    Blessings,
    Stacie J

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