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My Sweet Folks

July 18, 2009 By Rhoda 68 Comments

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Going home is always such a treat. I just love my parents and they have always, always been my rock and are to this day. Mom still cooks up a storm and last weekend was no exception. She whipped up this meal of fresh veggies for our lunch last Friday and man, oh man, was it good. Fresh tomatoes, peppers and cucumbers, along with green beans, potatoes and dumplings, sauteed squash and that dish in the middle is fried eggplant. She uses Panko Japanese breadcrumbs for those and it is delish! I came home with a pile of veggies myself and cooked it up this week. I still can’t fix my veggies quite like my mama does though! She’s had years of practice.

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Mom taking out the cornbread from the cast iron skillet. She can make some mean buttermilk cornbread.

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Mom sent us home with some of her homemade pepper sauce. The best on turnip and collard greens, which Peter hopes to grow at our house this year.

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This is the house I grew up in from the time I was 16. We lived in the house next door to this one originally (a 3 bedroom brick ranch) and then my dad built this house when I was a teenager. The cabinets are painted blue and my mom still has plenty of blue and mauve around. She is NOT into decorating, so I have no idea how my sister and I got so much into it, but we did. She cares not a whit about keeping up with trends, much less with the Jones’s. They live a simple and frugal life and that’s no doubt why they are so blessed with good health. It is not a fancy house at all, very basic, but it’s home to them and they have no desire to move anywhere else. Many a fabulous meal has been cooked in this tiny kitchen over the years.

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As I mentioned, we celebrated my day’s 82nd birthday over at my sisters. I forgot to take a pic of the food, which was pork chops with side dishes (got too excited and dove right into the food), but I did take a pic of the pound cake I made. Here are my parents sitting on the deck enjoying the good weather we had that day. It wasn’t too humid for a change. Buster’s getting some attention from my dad. Buster is a lap dog.

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I made this pound cake again (only this time I substituted cream cheese for the cream), a good Paula Deen recipe. My mom made a churn of homemade peach ice cream and we all pigged out.

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I sliced up fresh peaches to go with it and it was absolutely a perfect summer treat. We grew up making homemade ice cream with a hand-cranked churn (I always sat on it to keep it from moving) and I have some very fond memories of eating that homemade ice cream, usually vanilla.

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(me, Beverly, and my sister, Renee)

This is Beverly, an old friend of our family, and we invited her and her hubby over for our celebration. It was great to see her again. You see, we go way back with her big, extended family in Marietta, since her daddy and mama were one of the original families in the church when we moved to Marietta in 1963, the summer before I would turn 7. My dad became the pastor of the small church that he led for 27 years and her parents and mine have remained close over the years.

There are 7 siblings in her family, so they are a big bunch and here’s a fun little tidbit for you. She’s Travis Tritt’s aunt. Yes, the grammy-award winning country singer. Travis’s mother and Beverly are sisters and we know all of their extended family. Precious people. Travis grew up in my dad’s church as a little fellow, singing and playing his guitar in church. He had such a great talent, but we didn’t dream he would make it as far as he did, but he certainly did make the big time in country music. We’ve stayed in touch with this wonderful family over the years and after Beverly’s parents both passed away in the last 5 years, her daddy just in the past couple of months, my dad officiated the funerals for both of them, as well as Travis’s own father, who also passed away very recently. A finer family you will never find and it was great to catch up with her and hear about the rest of the family. The last time I saw Travis was over 4 years ago at his grandmother’s funeral and he was just as friendly as he’s always been, hugging each of us and catching us up on all he’s been up to since he became a country star. We have fond memories of Travis growing up as a small boy singing in church.

In fact, he wrote a song later on during his career called Bible Belt, which was written about a scandalous time in our little church involving a sordid affair with some youth leaders, when Travis was in the youth group choir which was traveling and singing that summer. It all came to a head during that trip while they were in fact, in Alabama at a church on a Sunday morning and the incident left an indelible mark on all of those young people, I’m sure. When the song came out and we heard it for the first time, we had to laugh all those years later at how awful the whole thing was at the time. That was just one incident that my dad had to deal with as a Pastor. Ahhh, the life of a Pastor is not easy. I was away at college during that time and my mom filled me in on the phone of all the goings-on.

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Now, here’s something I’m going to put on here that I’ve never done before. My mom likes to keep busy during the winter months and has always done some sort of needlework. She got this set of 7 dish or hand towels out when we were home recently and showed me what she had been working on over the winter. These are all angels, all hand stitched by my sweet mama on a white cotton pique dish towel. She just does it for fun and had never thought about selling any of these, but she really didn’t want to keep them, so I told her I would put them on my blog to see if anyone would like to buy them.

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I figured a fair price would be $42 for the set of 7 towels and I’ll even offer free shipping. So, if you are interested in buying these towels, please let me know by leaving a comment OR by emailing me. The first person to let me know will get them. That’s $6 each.

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She did a great job with them. Neither me nor my sister or niece really collect linens like this, so none of us wanted to particularly keep them, so I hope one of you would like them for your collection. Especially if you love angels.

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Thanks for going home with me!

See you Sunday afternoon for Thrifty Treasures.

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  1. Tammie says

    July 18, 2009 at 6:20 pm

    I think this may well have been one of my favorite post of all yours. Your sweet momma can sure whip up a mean meal! Gosh, I need some fried okra, fried squash, heck just something fresh from a garden and FRIED. I miss my very southern grandparents some thing awful… wish I could cook like they did! Thanks for sharing!

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  2. Rona's Home Page says

    July 18, 2009 at 6:47 pm

    Ah, I so wanted to join you for lunch.
    Thank you for including the photos ~ I'm so hungry.

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  3. Nicole @ BugaBoos says

    July 18, 2009 at 6:58 pm

    Your parents are precious, loved reading this! That food looks soooo good, I love love love veggies and fresh ones, even better! We have a little doggy named Buster too, and my dad is a pastor, so cool! Looks like you had such a wonderful time! Thanks for Sharing!

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  4. Southern Savvy says

    July 18, 2009 at 7:57 pm

    That veggie meal looks so good!! I'm hungry for fresh garden veggies now. But, I'll have to wait – things are backwards here in S. FL. We don't grow veggies this time of year and Farmer's Market shuts down after Mother's Day. Weird huh?

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  5. the undomesticated wife says

    July 18, 2009 at 8:03 pm

    Your parents are too cute for words! I bet Buster is one spoiled dog! 🙂

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  6. Becky says

    July 18, 2009 at 8:16 pm

    Your mom's cooking made me so hungry. My hubby's favorite is fried eggplant and I use to have a special meal that we call the feast of all that the garden offered us. It was my children's favorite meal ever.
    But I never learned to make cornbread in a skillet. Your momma must share that recipe with all of her new found friends that just may show up for dinner.
    God bless your dad and many blessing to your family as they celebrate him.
    Hugs
    Becky

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  7. Mary Ellen (megardengal) says

    July 18, 2009 at 8:26 pm

    So enjoyed this post! Your parents are my kind of people!! And it sounds like the Lord certainly has blessed them.

    Homemade Ice Cream- you are making me drool! Back home we would make homemade ice cream anytime we got together and when we would go camping we would bring along our hand cranks- of course you have to eat it all as there are no freezers the way we camp!!! Miss those times!

    blessings
    mary

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  8. mamamagnolia says

    July 18, 2009 at 9:26 pm

    What a delicious meal and wonderful visit to your home. I have very similar memories of my parents and grandparents homes. Enjoy reading your blog.

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  9. D says

    July 18, 2009 at 9:30 pm

    Thanks for the great post. That looks like some good eating for sure. I haven't had homemade ice cream in so long.

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  10. midnight macaroons says

    July 19, 2009 at 12:01 am

    You have the most adorable parents. Your mom sure knows how to cook. Look at all that wonderful food! It makes me hungry!!!

    Rhoda, would you give me some advice? I'm looking for a nice tan wall color. What color/paint brand would you recommend? Something light not dark.

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  11. Kari (GrannySkywalker) says

    July 19, 2009 at 8:47 am

    That table of food reminded me of dinner at my grandma's house. As did the "porch sitting" afterwards. I have great memories of the whole family sitting in rocking chairs or on the front steps of grandma and grandpa's front porch in Selma, Alabama. Nothing like a southern evening after a dinner of fine southern food. 🙂

    Kari

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  12. Hafford Family 5 says

    July 19, 2009 at 9:06 am

    Love your blog! Love you! Really loved this post, so missing my Granny's meals! We are still trying to keep some traditions going strong, though, like the homemade ice cream! Check this out if you have time! http://haffordfamily5.blogspot.com/2009/06/it-must-be-summer-vacation.html

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  13. Angie Seaman says

    July 19, 2009 at 9:47 am

    Oh my goodness Rhoda…you are killing me with all of that food girl. Potatoes, dumplings, etc.??? Oh yes, some of my favs! What a feast! Where is my invite? Ha ha! Hope you guys had a great time. It sure looks like you did. Isn't Mom always great about hitting the spot with homecooked meals? My Mom is the same way. It's amazing how "home" always feels so comforting even all these years later, isn't it?

    Keep sharing sista'! I love all of the pictures. Definitely keep them coming!

    Hugs, Angie
    http://www.angelicagracedesigns.com/blog/
    http://www.angieseamanphotography.blogspot.com

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  14. Rachel says

    July 19, 2009 at 10:03 am

    I love this post…but it makes me cry…lol. I'm young enough to be your child, so my grandparents are/would be your parents' age….and while they cooked/lived that way, only one of them is still with us…and she is mostly blind, mostly deaf, and unable to do any of the gardening and work she loved so much. She isn't even allowed to cook anymore, because she forgets things are on the stove.

    So I have to try and cook like that for my children, to carry on the tradition (my mom doesn't–she's a box/can 'girl'). Thanks for the pictures (and get the recipes and such from your mom! Those of us who are "generationally challenged" need all of the help we can get! 🙂

    It doesn't hurt that I grew up in Marietta ('74-'95). Makes me want to cry some more, lol. I miss 'home'…and I probably know what church your daddy pastored/where it was/is…

    Thank you SO much for sharing this. Even though it makes me sad/nostalgic, we need that. And it is so good to see that folks like your parents are still around, living, working, the way that they always have.

    Oh–and I LOOOOVE the towels! Did she design them herself, or use a pattern? If it was a pattern, can you find out where she got it, cause I'd like to make some myself…

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  15. Jen - Balancing Beauty and Bedlam says

    July 19, 2009 at 10:11 am

    Oh, you know I just love this post. PRECIOUS Family time! I've been gone for TEN days…ugh. Forgive me when I link up to my chalkboard post from last week. No yard sale-ing on the trip. So sad. 🙂

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  16. Ashley @ AshleysBusy says

    July 19, 2009 at 10:12 am

    hi Rhoda, that dinner looks delicious!! I just made fried green tomatoes last night, from all the veggies that my dad brought over. I fry my eggplant with panko every time I make eggplant parm, it is so extremely yummy.

    Loved reading about your family. And about the mauve, totally reminds me of my Mamaw. 🙂

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  17. Blushing hostess says

    July 19, 2009 at 10:53 am

    Lovely, it is heart and belly warming, no?

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  18. A Life In Focus Photography says

    July 19, 2009 at 11:14 am

    oh my gosh I am starving!!!! that food loved familiar and delicious. thanks for sharing.

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  19. midnight macaroons says

    July 19, 2009 at 11:32 am

    Thanks,Rhoda! I truly appreciate the advice on the wall colors. I'm going to run by Lowe's this afternoon. You've been a big help and I'll be sure to let you know how it turns out and what color I decided on. Have a super week!!!

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  20. Seeker says

    July 19, 2009 at 1:32 pm

    Hi Sweet Rhoda!

    You know, people in my generation would do so well to look, listen and pattern themselves after those with the wisdom, frugality and practicality of your parents…we might not be in such an economic mess if we did so! Thanks for sharing a peek into their lives.

    {you look so much like your mama}

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