Planning a vacation is always so exciting and when we planned this beach vacation about 2 months ago, we had been anticipating going ever since. Mark’s family has been going to St. George Island for over 20 years and they have so many family memories tucked away. I went with the family for 2 years, the last time 3 years ago. Now that all the kids are grown and having kids of their own, it’s hard for everyone to get together for a beach trip, so we figured then that might be the last year unless they make the plans and make it happen.
Mark’s parents loved to go down there too and were there the 2 years I went. It was so much fun. I blogged both of those trips and you can see 2016 and 2017 St. George trips if you want to read more. I wrote a lot about St. George in the first post, so if you want to know more about this island, go and read those as well. Near Apalachicola, St. George Island is truly Old Florida, no high rises allowed. That’s the best part, you are truly away from it all and this part of the Panhandle of FL is not nearly as crowded as Destin and Panama City Beach.
On another note, Mark’s dad is not doing well. He was in the hospital for 3 weeks and rehab for 3 weeks and now at home for a couple of weeks, so we are very concerned about him as well. Just 2 short months ago we were all talking about going to the beach and then this turn of events with Mark’s Dad’s health. He had a tumor on his spine and couldn’t walk all of a sudden. That’s when he went in the hospital and we had hoped he might get rehab and walk again, but that didn’t happen. He just got weaker and weaker and he has cancer too, so the long term prognosis is not good. We don’t know how long we will have him.
Here’s a shot of the whole family on the 2017 trip. Doesn’t that look fun? It was!Ā
You know what they say about the best laid plans…they don’t always go as you imagine they will. Such was the case with our beach trip this year.
As you can imagine, we were excited to go even though it was a small group this year: Me and Mark, Mark’s sister Kim and BIL David, and Mark’s cousin, Gary and his wife Debbie, who brought 2 couples with them from Orlando. A much smaller crowd than year’s past, but we sure were looking forward to it. We all booked 3 houses to stay in and we were 7 houses apart, with Gary and Debbie in the middle with a pool.
We first heard about the upcoming Hurricane Sally the day before we were leaving for the beach. We knew from the weather app that it might be bad rain, but we couldn’t cancel because of weather anyway, so we all headed down to St. George on Saturday. I had no idea that it would really be as bad as it was.
That pretty St. George sign was a good sight to behold on Saturday. That day the weather was decent, cloudy with some sun.
I took these pics in between rain coming through, but we stayed here in The Extra Mile, a two bedroom beach cottage across the street from the beach.
It has a nice screen porch all the way across the front with a nice view of the ocean. Unfortunately we only got to sit here one day. The rest of the trip it was a soggy mess.
Inside is a spacious open floor plan with well stocked kitchen and a cushy sofa.
Cute and very adequate. Mark’s parents were supposed to go with us and stay in the other room, but Mark’s dad got sick and those plans were off. At this point, it does not look good for Mark’s dad, he’s not getting better and hospice is involved now. I mentioned earlier that he had a tumor on his back which caused him not to be able to walk. That was radiated in the hospital, but he also has other issues including cancer and after being in the hospital and rehab for 6 weeks, he’s very weak.
He has declined so much since going in the hospital and rehab. It’s very sad to lose our older generation and I knew when Mark and I got married that we would experience the loss of all 4 of our parents together. It sure isn’t easy, but I know we will get through this together.
The king size bed was very comfy.
View from our porch. Notice all the clouds. This was a precursor to what was coming.
Right across from us was a cute beach path directly to the beach.
We had hoped to all be on the beach at least part of the week there.
The first night we saw a partial rainbow.
Boardwalk over to the beach next to the house that Kim and David stayed in. We also had bicycles included in our rental and that was going to be fun to ride bikes around the island since it’s all flat. We rode once and it was very windy.
The first night we always go to the Blue Parrot so that’s what we did for dinner that night and we all ate there together.
The outdoor area wasn’t open, so we sat inside.
Grilled shrimp for me.
Pretty at dusk.
And the only sunset we saw that week. These pics actually look pretty good don’t they? But the reality wasn’t that pretty.
On Sunday we had part rain and part sun. We did get to go to Gary’s pool for a bit that afternoon and that was the only day I had on my swimsuit. We all walked out to the beach on Sunday in the wind and the sand was blowing all around. The storm was coming.
On Sunday night, we went to eat at the Red Pirate a place we found when we were there 3 years ago. They have great peel & eat shrimp, potato skins and fried mushrooms, so we got that again this year. All was not lost, we did get some pretty good seafood while there.
This is what we saw on Sunday. We walked out took pics and went back in.
We walked out there twice during our stay and it was really windy both times. This was between rain storms blowing through.
The waves were really pounding during most of this since the wind had kicked up with the approaching Hurricane Sally.
We knew we were in for rain, just not as bad as it was. Now I have to say I’m really sorry for the folks in Gulf Shores, AL with such devastation and Pensacola for all the flooding that happened there. There is major damage and flooding damage to clean up. Our vacation was ruined as were countless other people’s vacations and in the scheme of things, this is not a big deal at all. It was just disappointing in the middle of it but something that most of us will deal with at some point. We have no control over hurricanes and weather and everyone was at the mercy of this storm. I’ve seen the damage on the news and it’s so bad. Hurricanes are such forces of nature with tremendous power.
The only day we sat out by the pool on Sunday. The next day it all changed for the worst and lasted 3 days.
We did go out to dinner 3 nights and drove around a bit in the car so I took a few pics of houses while it wasn’t storming.
St. George is just as cute as ever, just not during a major storm blowing through.
The bay side of the island.
You can see how rough the surf and waves were here. The storm was moving so slow at about 2 mph that it took days to go through our area. The wind and rain howled for 3 straight nights, Sunday, Monday and Tuesday nights. It was loud! The wind was blowing between 25 and 30 mph. I can’t imagine going through a Hurricane closer than we were at the wind speeds they get up to. That must be horrendous. This is as close as I’ve ever been to a hurricane and I know I don’t want to be close to another one. Our house was shaking with all the wind.
Between rain squalls, Mark went over to look at the beach on Wednesday. It had been raining off and on for 3 straight days by then, some really blowing and pounding rain. Mark’s sister, Kim and David decided Tuesday night that they were leaving the next morning. With such bad weather lasting who knows how long, we were all bummed that this was how the week turned out. Nothing like the previous years.
Once they decided to leave, I though we might stay through Thursday and see how it looked and actually by then it was probably much better. We left early afternoon on Wednesday and decided to cut out early and come home. We had just had enough at that point. We felt that we probably wouldn’t even get to go to the beach but maybe part of Friday if then. I think things looked better Thursday (although still really windy) and Friday but we didn’t stay to find out.Ā We sat in our beach house most of the time, or visiting with Kim and David and his cousin, Gary. We all went out to eat together twice. It was just not what we thought it would be, rain all the time and a storm blowing through. You can’t predict these things, so you just have to deal with whatever weather comes along this time of year. We couldn’t have picked worse unfortunately.
Here’s a video of our porch during yet another blowing rain on Wednesday morning. This was the 3rd day of waking up to this.
We got dressed one night to go out and this was as good as I looked all week. I was pretty bedraggled looking most of the time. That wind did a number on my hair. We got to ride bikes in the wind one time and then we put them away. No bike rides, no beach, and the wind and rain was such that we didn’t even want to get out in it at all. Just to go out to eat a couple of times.
We didn’t make it over toĀ Apalachicola at all this trip. I hate we cut out on Wednesday (we were supposed to come home Saturday), but it just seemed pointless to stay. Maybe we would have enjoyed the last two days, I’m not sure. But we drove home in the rain and got home safely, thank goodness. There was so much flooding around and we saw plenty on the backroads of Florida and Georgia.
Sometimes you just don’t know what a vacation will bring your way and this was one for the record books. We all kept saying, well it is 2020, what do we expect? This has been some kind of year, hasn’t it?
Have you ever had a Hurricane ruin your beach trip. I heard from many on Instagram who had the same thing happen and I know there were countless people all up and down the Gulf coast who had theirs ruined too. As I mentioned, I know our situation was nothing compared to the destruction that is left in the aftermath of a hurricane, so I am keeping all that in mind, it’s just disappointing to spend money and have things turn out like that.
That was our beach trip to St. George Island 2020. One for the books!
Hi Rhoda and family. I enjoyed seeing your photos of vacation in St. George. Very sorry to hear of Mark’s father’s health difficulties. Sending encouraging thoughts, and prayers for his health and comfort.
Monday is my husband and I 35th wedding anniversary. For our honeymoon we went to Maine. We drove so we could see all the New England states. Hurricane Isabella also decided to go to Maine that year. We ended up driving right through her, as we tried to go inland to avoid her. At one point my husband had to get out of the car and help a local move a tree from blocking the road. When we look back we laugh about the whole thing! We still wouldnāt have honeymoonād anywhere else!
HI, Karen, I know we will laugh one day too, it could have been worse, so we are still blessed.
We never get use to hurricanes here in Florida but we expect them and respect them. They are quite prevalent in September. It seems school just gets started and then stops for hurricane days. I guess wherever you live you have to take the good with the bad.
Iām sorry to hear aboutMarkās Dad. It so hard to watch the end coming for our parents. Mine lived to their mid 90ās. The last years were rough.
HI, Nancy, I’m sure you in FL do have to get used to those storms coming in at both sides of FL. We sure never know what the weather will bring our way.
I have been to SGI many times, usually we had excellent weather. We did have a hurricane about 10 yrs ago that made us come home a little early but itās still the beach, thatās what we say!! Iām sorry about your FIL health issues. I hope he is comfortable as can be.
How nice that you were able to spend time with friends and family. We havenāt been able to travel seen our family at all in 2020 because of COVID-19 and even missed my husbandās motherās 99th birthday and my motherās 80th. We are healthy and so are they so we are counting our blessings even though itās been a tough year or everyone.
Hi, Monica, it has been a tough year and I’m counting my blessings too.
Rhoda,
My husband and I celebrated our 33rd wedding anniversary on Saturday. For the past three or four years, our anniversary plans have been ruined by hurricanes/storms! Our worst adventure was the cruise to Key West/Cuba that we had planned three years ago for our 30th anniversary. We were in Sarasota staying at Siesta Key and were going to drive up to Tampa to board the ship but that didn’t happen. Our cruise was cancelled and we had to get out of Florida and make the drive back to Virginia before things got worst. We did have some nice beach time in Siesta Key thankfully. However, we gave up this year trying for any type of beach vacation! Instead, we stayed close to home and rode bikes on the Capital trail near Williamsburg, VA and had dinner out. They weather here yesterday was just glorious and felt truly like Fall.
I have learned September is always dicey as far as cruises and beach vacations. On the other hand, we had some great beach and cruise vacations in the past during September but it seems lately that hasn’t been the case.
Prayers for Mark’s father and asking God for healing.
Hi, Teresa, what a story on your trips as well. I guess September lately has been dicey for sure. We’ve been in October before a couple years ago and didn’t have issues either. I’ve been very lucky in the past and never had issues but we sure are having more storms the last few years.
“Rhoda & Mark, so sorry you had such a “different” holiday this time. Hopefully, next time will be great. Keeping Mark’s Dad in our thoughts and prayers. This is so hard to see a parent not doing so well.
TRY TENT CAMPING IN THE RAIN! WE WERE IN THE GREAT SMOKY MOUNTAINS, MY HAPPY PLACE AND THE RAIN HASN’T STOPPED US FROM GOING!
IT WILL BE BETTER FOR YOU NEXT TIME AROUND!
HI, Nita, you’re so right, the next one should definitely be better. I can’t imagine tent camping in the rain. That’s not my idea of fun at all.
You just never know about the weather! It’s one thing that we absolutely cannot control. My husband and I went to Charleston a couple of years ago right after a hurricane. We were very concerned about what we might find, but we went forward with our plans. Blessedly, it worked out great. I am sure that there are many things about this recent trip for you that you will never forget. It does seem from your photos that there were some nice experiences for your group. I hope that you can remember the good as you look back on this experience.
HI, Patty, yes you are so right. I’ve never had a beach trip like this one, but you’re right, we did have some sweet moments. Looking back in the future, I’m sure we will forever remember this one from 2020.
Dear Rhoda, So sorry to hear how your trip turned out. I am especially sorry to hear the news about Mark’s dad. I will be praying for him for sure. I just got done reading another blog I usually read…and they had a lot of damage to their house and yard in Alabama, so I know that people are hurting all over for many different reasons. Glad you made it back home safely, dear Rhoda. Just chalk it up to 2020. However (I’ve heard 2021 could be even worse!)
God Bless you.
Thank you, Diane, yes so much damage and destruction and hurting people this year. It’s been a tough year overall.
Yes my husband and I were on a cruise ship on the outskirts of hurricane gilbert. That one ruined many places in Jamaica. We never got to our ports of call, finally San Juan accepted
our cruise ship to dock for a few hours. NOT FUN AT ALL, SCAREY WINDS, AND HORRIBLE SAILING AND TONS OF SICK PEOPLE. Don’t mess with mother nature. Don’t care if I ever go on a cruise again.
HI, Debbie, that sounds miserable. I’ve been fortunate to not have any big issues with vacations over the years until this one.
Rhoda – I’m so sorry about your vacation and Mark’s dad. Just when we think 2020 can’t get worse, it does. Being from California we deal with earthquakes, and more recently frequent fires, but hurricanes and tornados have always scared me more than anything else. St. George looks adorable, under better conditions and I recall your visit posts. Glad you and Mark made it home safely. Sending well wishes and prayers for Mark’s dad. xo
Rhoda: so sad to hear about Mark’s father. It’s part of aging for all of us, but it seems to catch us off guard. š My husband and I and friends of ours had planned to depart this past weekend for Orange Beach. Needless to say, that did not happen, and to see and hear about the devastation there and other beaches on the panhandle, was unnerving. Beach life is desired by so many – but the obvious downside to paradise is this! Your photos of St. G. Island are beautiful – and hopefully in years to come you will be able to enjoy it again. p.s. – we spent a few days on the Mississippi Gulf coast, and while not originally our agenda, it was an enjoyable trip.
THank you, Becky, you’re so right. Everyone loves the beaches and this is the down side to beach vacations. Storms are plentiful these days.
We were there during Hurricane Sally as well!! Weāre back on the island now and I found your blog when searching for hurricanes & St. George.
Had to comment to say I wish you hadnāt left early!!! Thursday evening & Friday were beautiful!! Friday was actually one of the prettiest beach days Iāve ever had.
HI! I know I regret that so much, we should have stayed. We were just so frustrated by that time. I won’t do that again!