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A Southern Home-Cooked Meal

August 4, 2013 By Rhoda 77 Comments

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Haven was wonderful, just beyond words!

We thought last year was great, well but this one was over the top fantastic. Everyone was happy and smiling the whole time and I can’t wait to share it with you.  Right now, I’m crashed on my bed trying to recover from it all.  Maybe I’ll be back to normal in a couple of days.  Sleep, I need sleep!

In the meantime, our family doesn’t need a big occasion to get together for a meal.  We eat together every chance we get.  My niece, Lauren, and her hubby, Philip were home last weekend for a whirlwind trip from New Orleans.  They just bought their first house down there and have already closed, but haven’t moved in.  Lauren takes after her mom and does a lot of Craigslist wheeling and dealing, so they found some great things to fill their house with and came up to rent a truck to get their treasures back home.  I didn’t take pics of all of that (forgot!), but I did take a pic of the family meal we had at my parents house.

lauren and philip

We ate a big meal, then we all helped Lauren and Philip load the truck for the trip back to New Orleans.  I’ll be going down there Labor Day with my sister, mom, and brother-in-law and we are going to help Lauren get some things done at their house, like painting and a few projects.  So, of course I’ll be sharing all of that with you. They bought a really pretty house with a backyard pool, ready to grow into it for the future.  She’ll have fun decorating her first house too and I can’t wait to help her!

So, let’s see how my mom puts together one of those famous Southern meals of hers.  She’s a pro at it, even at 85.  I did a video too of frying all of that stuff, so you will not want to miss that.  We had a family friend here too, helping mom and I want you to hear Miss Sue’s Southern accent.

mom in the kitchen

Mom is right at home in her kitchen and even though it’s small, she can turn out some fabulous meals in this kitchen.  I wish she had a bigger kitchen, with all the cooking she does. It definitely is not big enough.

frying eggplant

Mom and Miss Sue getting the eggplant and okra ready to fry.

eggplant mixture

Fried Eggplant is cut in strips (after peeling and salting), then dredged in flour, egg, and panko breadcrumbs, which I’ve shared before (see link). Then, deep fried in a big pan with Canola oil.

eggplant in panko

After flour and egg, then Panko breadcrumbs are added.

frying in the pan

Frying in the pan.

out of the grease

Golden brown and ready to take out.

eggplant fried

Don’t those look yummy?  They are, believe me!

cut okra
Fresh okra from the garden.

frying okra

She mixes equal parts flour and corn meal, then adds buttermilk for a batter for the okra.  Then it is dropped in one at a time.

potatoes

Potatoes cooking for mashed potatoes.

squash casserole

Aunt Fannie’s Squash casserole, which you can find the recipe in that link.

Mom in kitchen

Mom scurrying around the kitchen.

gravy

Making gravy from the roast beef drippings.  She cooked the roast in the crock pot, then added juice to her black iron skillet.  Then she mixes water and flour in a glass shaker and slowly adds that to the juice, thickening it up and adding a little salt and pepper. Yummy over mashed potatoes!

tervis tumblers

Does every Southern family have Tervis tumblers?  Ours does!

roast beef

Roast beef from the crockpot.

table set

I set the table, getting us ready to eat.  And I helped make the tomato, onion, cucumber, and avocado salad, while they were frying.

table with food

Here’s the spread of food, doesn’t that look fabulous?   I know, we are totally spoiled with this food my mom makes.

table with food 2

Everyone has always loved sitting down at her table.

my plate

My plate of yumminess.  I have grown up on this food and never tire of it.

peach cobbler

Peach cobbler for dessert, of course!  It’s that time of year.  Lauren was loving being home and eating at her Nana’s table.  She misses real Southern food in Louisiana, ain’t nothing like your family’s home cooking!

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  1. kathy says

    August 4, 2013 at 9:07 pm

    Man, my mouth is watering! It looks so delicious and the table looks so welcoming! Who wouldn’t want to pull up a chair??

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  2. Connie says

    August 4, 2013 at 9:07 pm

    You all have beautiful southern accents ! The food looks delicious.Thank you so much for shareing, it was a real treat for me to see.

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  3. Kelly - Talk of the House says

    August 4, 2013 at 9:09 pm

    If you didn’t need a big long nap after returning from the conference, eating all those delicious foods would certainly call for one! I’m stuffed because we just finished eating “breakfast for supper” but all your dishes still made my mouth water.

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  4. Sylvia says

    August 4, 2013 at 9:19 pm

    Wow, just look at all the wonderful Southern food. This makes me really homesick for some down home cookin’. Thanks for sharing.

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  5. Amy says

    August 4, 2013 at 10:59 pm

    That looks so so yummy!!! How wonderful to have these pictures of your mom doing her thing in the kitchen. She is absolutely the cutest 🙂

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  6. Diane Allison says

    August 4, 2013 at 11:38 pm

    I have been a quiet observer of you blog for quite some time and have enjoyed watching your new home come to life. I tried the peach cobbler recently and it was a BIG hit and just wanted you to let your Mom know how much my family enjoyed it. Thanks for your dedication in blogging and sharing so generously!

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  7. Jackie Toye says

    August 5, 2013 at 12:06 am

    Thanks or sharing! Your Mom and her Friend are so in sink. Loved watching cook together, while Dad caught up on his Z’s too cute.

    I’ve got to put Panko on my grocery list.

    I watched your Home Tour video also. You’ve done a great job. absolutely beautiful home.

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  8. Laurie says

    August 5, 2013 at 12:51 am

    I think I gained five pounds LOOKING at that table filled with all of that yumminess! That’s how my West Virginny granny used to cook. I loved eating at her table!

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  9. Susan says

    August 5, 2013 at 1:09 am

    I loved that video…your mom and her pal cooking up a storm! As for Lauren, if she’s in Louisiana she needs to learn to cook cajun! Everyone thinks our food is so hot and spicy but it doesn’t have to be. And I don’t make mine that way. Anyway, fun times!

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  10. Susan says

    August 5, 2013 at 1:30 am

    Your mom and dad are, in a word, amazing. You’re blessed!

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  11. Becki says

    August 5, 2013 at 7:19 am

    I always enjoy your posts but the southern cooking posts are a favorite! My family was from KY and that fried okra took me back there! Thanks so much for sharing the good ol’ recipes!

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  12. Judy Clark says

    August 5, 2013 at 7:34 am

    Hi Rho;
    It is 6:30 in Austin and I am starving. I have been blessed many times with your parents hospitality. Your Mom is a fabulous cook. Love you girl.

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  13. Barbara Hunnicutt Moore says

    August 5, 2013 at 7:47 am

    Note to self: finagle an invite to your mom’s table….haha!
    Thanks is just to small a word to express my gratitude for this past weekend. You’re the BEST. And that says it all.

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  14. Celia says

    August 5, 2013 at 8:55 am

    Rhoda – looks delish!! I’ve made your Mom’s Peach Cobbler TWICE now as it truly is yummy!! Gotta love those family dinners:)

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  15. Lynn says

    August 5, 2013 at 9:07 am

    Rhoda,
    Following your blog is a little piece of home for me. I am an Atlanta native living in VA now. I lived in Kennesaw years ago. It was treat to hear Ms. Sue this morning. My husband is from Smiths AL just a down the road from Phenix City

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  16. Cindy says

    August 5, 2013 at 9:08 am

    Oh Rhoda, this is just like when our family gets together to share in a great southern meal! What great times, great food and love that it is all about simple table settings, food, fellowship and sweet iced tea…the family!
    Your dad looked so sweet napping on the porch!!!
    Blessings,
    Cindy

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  17. Vonda Livingston says

    August 5, 2013 at 9:21 am

    We use the same Aunt Fannie’s squash recipe for every holiday get together! Oh my word it all looks so good!!! So glad y’all had such a great weekend together!!!

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  18. Heidi says

    August 5, 2013 at 9:23 am

    You forgot to mention the afternoon nap that comes along with a great meal like that!!

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  19. Scribbler says

    August 5, 2013 at 9:34 am

    I can’t tell you how much I enjoyed this1

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  20. MaryAnn Phipps says

    August 5, 2013 at 9:41 am

    Thank you for sharing these pictures and video of this lovely southern meal and your Oh So Cute Mom!! I enjoyed this so much! Your mother and her friend are so adoreable. The food looks so delicious. As I was looking through the pictures, I was wishing I was at that table eating with y’all. This is true southern comfort food! Sweet family.

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