My Blogging Story: Part 4

If you have not read all of my blogging story and want to catch up, start here with Part 1, Part 2 and Part 3.

When I ended Part 3, it was the end of 2009.  A new year was awaiting and I was still enjoying blogging so much.  I had continued to share my projects that I was doing at home and it was a wonderful community to be a part of.  In February, I went back to the Blissdom conference in Nashville that year.  The home decor group had more than doubled from the previous year.  Our niche was growing big time!   I wrote a blog post about balance and blogging during the first of that year.  It’s still a struggle to balance this thing and most of us who hang out on the computer find it hard to keep it in check at times.  Blogging gets in your blood.

I met up with so many of my current friends that are dear to me to this day, like Traci, Layla, Julia, Kate.

As well as Sarah, Beckie and that whole group of home girls in this pic just above, most of whom were old friends.  You can read more about Blissdom 2010 here and here.

The connection part, by far has been the most rewarding thing about blogging.  Meeting up with and connecting heart to heart with other women who have the same interests and passion that I do about all things home.  That’s inspiring!  That year was the first year to meet up with many of my blogging buddies that I’m still friends with.  We had a great time catching up and just hanging out talking about blogging and all that was happening that year.  It’s amazing how this blog world has evolved over the years and 2010 was a huge growth year for new bloggers.

In April of 2010, I finally had a professional blog makeover done by the ever-popular Darcy with Graphically Designing.  She was designing for all the cool bloggers, so I hired her to improve my look too and she gave me a stylish new blog design that I still love.  I announced it on a blog post and I was off and running.  See, I did do things a little backwards.  Instead of doing a big blog design, I moved to WordPress more than 6 months before that and then saved money for a complete blog revamp.

I continued into 2010 with Blogher and my own individual ads and things were going well.  It was still very much a part-time gig, but things were growing and I was happy to have my own money to spend on home projects.

That year, I did some pretty major projects, like the bathroom subway tile and one of my most favorite projects to date, ripping the ugly carpet off my stairs.  That project still gets a lot of traffic!

In March of 2010, I had a very exciting phone call from BlogHer, my main ad network.  They asked me if I was interested in participating in a new promotion with Macy’s and they had chosen me as the home decor blogger to be a part of this campaign with about 8 other bloggers.  Here’s the kicker!  We were all going (at different times, and in pairs) out to The Ranch.  You’ve heard about The Ranch, right?  Yep, THAT Ranch.  Ree, The Pioneer Woman’s ranch!  That was one exciting phone call and I could not believe my good fortune.  My turn to go to the Ranch would be at the end of June of that year.  We were going to film a segment with Ree for this fun Macy’s promotion and we would spend one night in The Lodge at the Ranch.  I was beside myself.

I announced it on my blog and waited those months until it was my turn to fly out to Oklahoma to meet Ree and the other blogger I was joining.  Lisa Stone, with BlogHer, also went on this trip and it was such a fun and memorable time, meeting up with them at the airport and then driving a couple of hours out in cattle country to see the ranch that I had been reading about for so long on Ree’s wonderful blog, up close and personal.  Talk about a bloggy highlight, this was it for me!  I’m not sure anything could top that one.

Ree was just as adorable in person as I knew she would be.  Maybe I’ll get another chance to go to the ranch again, you just never know! 🙂

The blog was good for me. I enjoyed sharing and accomplishing things.  I was yardsaling, still doing projects around the house, all those normal things that I had come to enjoy.  And the earning potential from my blog was going up that year too.  The part-time money was good and I was enjoying having that for myself.  It was enough for me to upgrade to a nicer camera in June of that year.  I had saved up some money and right before I went to the ranch, I purchased my Canon T1i.  It was still brand new to me when I took it along on the trip and I was so excited to use it and see how my pics were getting better.

In September of 2010, I got the very fun opportunity to go to NYC for the first time, to actually stay for a couple of days.  A whole group of bloggers were invited to the brand new Nate Berkus show and it was an exciting trip to be a part of.  I met up with my bloggy friends (Kate and Sarah), made some new friends (Beth)  as well as friendships with a lot of other girls, and we had a blast seeing the sights of the city and enjoying the show taping as well.  I loved NYC and can’t wait to go back this year, in fact.  I’m going to be a speaker at the BlogHer 2012 conference in August of this year and I’m so excited to be asked to join a panel on Style and Design. It will be another great experience that I’m looking forward to.

2010 rocked along. Me not knowing that life as I had known it for 5 years would come to a screeching halt at the end of that year. There were so many personal things going on behind the scenes at my house that caused me so much anxiety and I did a really good job of hiding them. I didn’t want anyone to know what I was facing and I mistakenly thought that these things just might work themselves out and that life could go on.  Maybe it could all be fixed.  If you are totally lost on all of this, you can read my Hope post from earlier this year.  That tells a lot of my journey as well.

Blogging came naturally for me and it has been a good outlet for me to share my life, as well as home improvement projects.  Sharing with all of you has become such a big part of my life.  During that year, I had no idea that the next year would bring tremendous changes into my life and that I would be moving back home to Atlanta in Spring of 2011.  Life was a whirlwind and I was right in the middle of the mess.

By the end of 2010, I knew some BIG changes were coming, I just didn’t know how severe they would be.  At the time, I didn’t know what I would be doing or where I was going to end up.  Life can completely blow up sometimes and make you scramble to keep your feet on the ground.  That’s where I was at the end of that year.

What in the world was going to happen in 2011?  I knew I still wanted to blog, but I had no idea where I’d be or if I could possibly keep it going.  It was a very uncertain and scary time for me personally, but I had my family to go home to.  So, 2010 ended with a lot of turmoil and anguish on my part.  Where the next year would take me, I had no idea.

Stay tuned for more, in 2011….

My Blogging Story: Part 5

- Rhoda


  1. Rhoda,
    Love reading your blog story – so much fun to be able to follow your journey! Looking forward to 2011!

    Maybe I’ll meet you in August at BlogHer conference (I’m just a train ride away)!

  2. Hi Rhoda,
    I was just blog bopping a bit today and came across your blog. I am thrilled to have found you. I am going to go back later and read some of your older posts. So far, I have loved every word I read. You are my kinda gal-even if I have been transplanted to the Midwest-my heart still longs for the South- Blessings-Diana

  3. So glad you posted this on FB. What fun to read your journey. My 5 yr is April I believe! Yep, your blog was one I had started reading early on and then of course featured you in July of 07.
    Wow…..who would have ever though 5 yrs ago where Blogging would take either of us. Hopefully we’ll meet someday.

  4. It has been great fun to read your blog story! Thank you for sharing it!! I’ve really appreciated some of the tips you leave for us – like the WordPress, etc. It is such an encouragement.

  5. p.s. Your hair always looks soo good in photos! Wish I had the courage to go shorter like yours!

  6. Rhoda,

    I love reading about your blog journey and have been following you since spring of 2010. You were actually the first blog I read on a regular basis, even before I began my own blog. I love hearing about all your ups and downs and it so inspiring to me. I hope I can meet you one day here around town in Marietta.


  7. Arlene Grimm says:

    Rhoda, I am so enjoying your diary of blogging. I am so glad you have been able to continue your blogging. You are one of the first blogs I read every morning. You touch many lives friend!! Keep up the good work!

  8. I loved reading your story! Glad I found your blog! You are an inspiration. I hope I find my voice with my blog. I haven’t been blogging very long so I know it takes time. Thanks for sharing!

  9. Thomas A Shilling says:

    Hello! How wonderful are your pictures. You stand out like a glowing Angel. Remarkable. Congratulations on all you do and the people you touch. From a subscriber and friend….Tom

  10. Rhoda. Thanks for sharing your blog history. I have been reading for a year or two but is so interesting to read how it all began.

  11. I believe I found your blog perhaps 3 years ago while reading a blog called (I think) Peanut Butter and Jelly Life (or words to that affect). Keep up the great work on your life and blog.

  12. Hi Rhoda,
    Thank you for sharing your story. Life is always testing us, I know it seems very difficult at times, but it always seems to be that when one door closes another one opens. Its just the in between that is so hard.
    Can’t wait to read about 2011.

  13. You have such an interesting story, I’m enjoying reading it! I love your blog, and look forward to sharing this next year with you! Wishing you the best.

  14. Read every word of this. Lots of good information. Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your transparency.

  15. You are a brilliant, strong and creative woman Rhoda.
    I have been following your blog for years.
    Thank you for always inspiring!

  16. Elizabeth H says:

    Love this post. I have been following you for a long time and from the beginning I could tell you were a special person.

  17. Sarah Fields says:


    I would love to meet you at Haven…if I could win a ticket!!!



  18. Rhoda: you are an inspiration and a beautiful writer. AND a gorgeous southern gal.
    Mary Ann

  19. Your story is an amazing read. Thanks for being so real and authentic and raw … yes, a few tears have welled as I’ve read this.

    And thanks again so much for sharing and baring your soul and your story here with us …



  20. Rhoda, I have been reading your blog for about a year now. And you have been a big part of the inspiration for me to begin blogging. (1 month now)! We seem to be traveling down a similar road in life and I admire the fact that you have taken the high road. I also admire your courage writing about the unpleasant occurrences in your life. Thank you for sharing as your story is inspiring to many of us.

  21. Rhoda,

    Thank you for sharing your journey with all of us. I know you have had some heartbreaking moments, but life has a way of moving you in a different direction that you could have never imagined! I’ve been reading your blog for about a year now and have watched it grow exponentially! Wow! You got to go to the ranch! Was Ree just as fun and warm in person as she seems to be on her blog?

    Thank you for sharing your personal blogging journey with us. You are an inspiration! I sure wish I had the decorating gene, but I seem to have missed that one. Dear Kim from Daisy Cottage is the one who inspired me to start a blog. I’ve never met her personally, but I just know she is a sweetheart.

    You do take the high road and you’re on your way to some wonderful adventures!


  22. Thank you so much for sharing, I love reading your blog, both for the decorating and for the personal side as well. you are so honesta and authentic. Thank you again.

  23. Another great installment of your inspiring story. I would think that meeting a few bloggers in person would really elevate and personalize this blogging experience. Thanks so much for all of the great details…it’s such a relate able story for bloggers old and new.

  24. So glad I have been a part of your journey Rhoda, as you have been a part of mine! What a great time we had in NYC! We need to do that again!! Love ya!

  25. Dear Rhonda, can’t wait to find out how 2011 treated you. For the look of it, it was amazing. Sending many blessings your way. What an amazing story and let me tell you that you have inspired me tonight…. like a sugar rush!!!

  26. Thank you for sharing your blogging story. I originally found your blog via The Lettered Cottage and since then I’ve come back many times to read more as I have time. I’ve particularly appreciated your blogging posts… as a new blogger they have been extremely helpful and I love what you wrote about finding a balance. You have such a lovely and inspirational blog. I’m looking forward to reading more!

  27. Raliegh Timmins says:

    I know I visited this lovely blog before but today I was blessed reading about your blog story. Very informative. Praise God He took you through the valleys and lead you to the mountain top. Thanks for sharing, I’ll be back. Aloha Ral

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