Hey my sweet friends!
Another year has passed and it’s time once again to share a recap post since I’m hitting 11 years of blogging! I can hardly believe it’s been this long, the time sure does fly when you’re having fun. I still appreciate y’all so much for supporting me and coming by here day after day to see what I’m up to around here. I’m still amazed that this blog turned into my fulltime job, but I can tell you that I’m the most grateful woman out there to be able to do this for a living. The Lord blessed me so much when He allowed my blog to flourish and grow like it has to support me and to also be able to share my passion of decorating with all of my readers is just the best feeling.
As the years go by, I’m still continually reminded that there is so much talent in blogland and if I look around too long, I can get discouraged and think that I’m so out of the mainstream of what most people like that how could I possibly keep going and writing a blog about home decor and renovation projects. It’s really easy to start feeling old and irrelevant when I look around at the youth out there. But then I know that there are countless Baby Boomer women out there just like me who still love to make their house a home and want ideas on freshening up our homes without breaking the bank. So, that’s what keeps me going. I love sharing with you all so much and that love and excitement for blogging has never disappeared in all these 11 years. It’s changed and evolved, but at the heart of my blog is still me, the girl who loves decorating and making a home pretty. And I’m so happy that so many of you are still with me on this journey.
My personal life has certainly gone through a major evolution in these 11 years and I could not be happier than I am right now! I’m older and wiser, that’s for sure and feel SO very blessed to be doing what I love to do and to have a wonderful man to share it all with.
Last years 10 years of blogging post talked about all the changes in blogging over the last 10 years and all of that is still relevant this year and I still feel the same way about some of the changes in blogging. Some are great and some are not so great, but we have to take the good with the bad and I try to make the best of all the changes. If you didn’t read that and you’re a blogger, it’s worth a read. I’ve covered my blogging journey in a post for every year I’ve been blogging under My Blogging Story, so you can read all of that if you’re curious about it all. Just scroll back to the first post. I’m not the smartest or most technically proficient blogger by a long shot, but I’ve made it work for me and it’s worked well! Social media continues to change things, but I never put all my blogging eggs in the social media basket, so whenever one goes up or down, it doesn’t drastically affect me.
So many bloggers have expanded into other areas of expertise, like courses and e-books, writing books, teaching online classes, and more, but I am staying true to what I love and that is still day to day sharing on the blog. Haven is my side job (and a very nice side job) and with Haven and my blog, that’s all I need on my plate at the moment, so you probably won’t see me trying to create a product line (I would feel terribly inadequate at that), or writing a decorating book (again, I don’t feel qualified at all!), nor writing a course on how to blog. So many people have already done that who are so much better at all of this than I am.
So, you just get me….writing this blog for who knows how many more years??
Let’s look back at the last year and look at some of the highlights of my blogging journey, as well as my personal life. Every year is filled with so many exciting things and last year was no exception. Blogging has opened doors that I never dreamed would open to me and it’s been the ride of a lifetime, no doubt about that! I wouldn’t trade my job for any job out there, it’s been that fulfilling and fun for me!
I’ve partnered with SO many great brands in the 11 years I’ve been at this and Shaw Floors has been at the top of the list. In January last year, as one of their Brand Ambassadors for the year, we were invited to their mega convention in Orlando, FL and it was truly a highlight. To see all their amazing products in one spot was so energizing and inspiring.
I got to speak on a panel to some of their dealers about social media and working with bloggers.
In February, a pinch me moment for sure occured when I was invited by Kilz paint out to Waco, TX to a blogger/media event to meet none other than Chip and Joanna Gaines, the power couple of Fixer Upper. That was such a surreal moment, to meet this dynamic duo in person and to get to interact and talk to them was such a highlight. They are just as down to earth and real as you would imagine them to be and I’m still in the clouds over getting my picture made with them. I wish them nothing but the best on their last season of Fixer Upper and with the arrival of their 5th child, along with all their many business envdeavors. I think they are such an adorable couple who have such great family values and faith and we need more people like them on TV.
Visiting the Silos and Magnolia Market and getting to take it all in was so much fun and I came away so inspired.
The cupcakes at the Silos bakery were the most delicious I’ve ever had!
In March, I took part in House for Hope in Franklin, TN, a charity house built by the fabulous Carbine Builders in Nashville. I was one of the bloggers/designers who took an area in the house to design the space with all the materials chosen and decorate the space for a big opening event for the public to tour.
I asked for a small space and got the laundry room and it was so much fun choosing the tile floor, sink, faucet, countertop and lighting in the space, as well as the finishing touches in the mudroom.
In March, I had a big personal triumph and purchased a new car for the first time in over 10 years. That was a big fun moment for me and I shared my tips for buying a car as a then single woman!
In April, I joined a group of bloggers and designers for the Design Bloggers tour in High Point, NC, where the big furniture and accessories show is held twice a year. It was a very fun and exhausting time of visiting so many showrooms and seeing so much beautiful furniture that the inspiration was flowing everywhere.
I met some great brands, such as Bernhardt and even had some partnerships come from the visit. I just realized that these chairs in the Bernhardt showroom is in the same fabric we picked out for our master bedroom sitting room Bernhardt chairs and ottoman. Good choice and it’s been such a pleasure working with Bernhardt on this project!
I get to visit a lot of showhouses and the Southeastern Designer Spring showhouse here in Atlanta is always a treat. I love my job! Getting to visit showhouses all across the country and take pictures of all the beauty I see, what’s better than that?
In May, I was invited to tour Moss Mountain Farm out in Little Rock AR and meet P. Allen Smith himself, who owns this gorgeous property and company. He’s such an interesting guy and we learned so many things about gardening and growing vegetables too.
His house and gardens were some of the prettiest architecture and outdoor splendor that I’ve ever seen. What a treat Moss Mountain was for me!
We partook in a gardening class and learned how to weave flower crowns and I took that opportunity to take a selfie, which I thought was pretty cute.
My own house and gardens looked beautiful last year with these beautiful Southern Living hydrangeas and it was a thrill to see them flourish so much in 3 years, so I had to throw pics of the flowers in here too.
So proud of this house and gardens too and even though I hated to leave these hydrangeas, I can still go over and pick some. Plus this gives me even more incentive to get more hydrangeas growing at our new house.
In June, my dad got really sick with c-diff which led to a 6 month battle with his health and by Christmas he was finally feeling much better and gaining his strength back. We are so thankful to God that he came through it as well as he did. He’s not physically in as good shape as he was before all this happened, but for a 90 year old man, he’s doing pretty well, thank the Lord.
In July, we held the 6th annual Haven Conference here in Atlanta and it was another smashing success. This year we are moving to Charleston, SC and can’t wait to experience all the fun and Southern flavor that city has to offer. What a joy it’s been to help create a conference like this for the home and DIY blogging community, something that seemed so out of reach, but we did it!
At the end of June, I made a big fat announcement that everyone was probably waiting on. Mark and I closed on our house and the fun began! We didn’t move in until 2 months later in August after getting a lot of things done to the house
On July 29, we went to Savannah and got married and what a memorable small wedding that was. So happy with our decision to elope by ourselves and just get it done! It was the perfect place to say our vows.
In August, I headed to Knoxville, TN to the HGTV Urban Oasis home designed by Brian Patrick Flynn. That was a fun and fast trip and I love getting to see these houses in person.
In October, we added a new addition to the family. Mark’s daughter, Traci, gave birth to Rose and she is just an adorable baby.
And here’s a current pic of that sweet baby, growing like a weed. She’ll be 4 months old February 5th. You can see a peek of my old house kitchen here. They are settled in and loving it and that makes me so happy!
In November, Shaw Floors invited all of us on the Style Board to Memphis, TN to tour St. Jude Children’s hospital and that was such a memorable and poignant occasion, getting to see the hospital that Danny Thomas founded over 50 years ago.
It was my first time to Memphis and it was fun seeing a little of the local culture, even though we were there for such a short time. Seeing the Peabody Hotel for the first time was so fun, such a gorgeous place.
Also in November, I was invited to a media event in Panama City, FL, where we shopped the coastal decor stores down there, took a boat ride to Shell Island and ate some great seafood.
Did I mention I love my job?
The Christmas season rolled around fast and Mark and I got settled into our new house just in time to decorate for the Holidays. It was such a fulfilling thing and we couldn’t be happier with our house and where we ended up.
We’re in full on nesting mode now, making this place our own and having a blast with it all.
Our families are right in the middle of our happiness and we both try to spend as much time as we can with both sides. Family is truly the glue that holds it all together.
In December, right before Christmas, we got one of the biggest snowfalls we’ve ever had in Georgia. That was a sight to behold and we thoroughly enjoyed every snowflake that fell for a few days. It sure left lots of broken tree limbs in the aftermath, but it was such a pretty snow.
I’d say I had a pretty fantastic year, woudn’t you? Mark and I are so enjoying our new town of Acworth and getting settled into the community and town. It’s been so fun to be near a small town and it feels so calming and peaceful to be here.
Last year, I covered so much about blogging, so this year I just wanted to sit back and relax and enjoy the journey that blogging has taken me on. It truly has been the ride of my life and like nothing that I could have ever dreamed of. Life is good. So good. And I’m so grateful for it all. You all continue to support me and my blog and that truly means the world to me. I say every year that I don’t know how long it will all last, but I’ll keep going as long as it does and I’d have to say the same thing this year. If changes and evolutions of blogging finally kill it off in the future, then we will all have to deal with it, but it’s been such a fun ride that I have nothing but elation and joy over the whole road to get where I am at the moment. I’m not striving to climb the blogging ladder. Not trying to do it all. Or be more. I’m enjoying the ride and try to stay away from the comparison game as much as I can. Because blogging can feel so much like a game at times, trying to do and be and strive for more. I’m striving for peace and calm.
I’ve said this before but I’ll say it again. I appreciate that you all understand that blogging is a business and that we do work with sponsors and get paid in money or product (or both) and we share those brands and companies on our blogs. I’m at a point in blogging now, that I can pick and choose those brands that I want to work with and share on my blog and I’m so grateful for that. I don’t have to chase every dollar that comes along and I can turn down the ones that are not a good fit for me (and for YOU, my dear readers!). I thank you from the bottom of my heart for being gracious and understanding of that side of blogging.
It’s part of how it all works and I appreciate you all understanding that part and you keep coming by to see what we are up to in the new house. This year will bring more changes and updates to the house and I just can’t wait to see what all we are going to do in this house. It keeps feeling more and more like home and that’s the best feeling in the world!
So, once more, thank you ALL from the bottom of my heart for your continued support, encouragement, love, and visits day after day. It’s been my pleasure to have been with so many of you these past 11 years and I look forward to many more!
Roxanne says
What an amazing year it has been for you! Thank you for taking us on your journey. From all your daddy went through to the joy of your marriage with Mark, you’ve made us all feel like part of your extended family. And you got to visit one of my bucket list places…Moss Mountain Farm.
We Baby Boomers are a huge segment of the population, so we need you to keep on doing what you’re doing! Love you, Rhoda. 💕
Rhoda says
Thank you, Roxanne, you’re always so sweet and supportive!
martha bryan says
I think I’ve been here for 10 of those 11 years, and I’ve loved every minute of it! I should speak up more often instead of just sitting here enjoying it all, you are so special! I love that you are close and I can enjoy all of the sites of Atlanta, and pick which ones I want to visit. You can also be a great tour guide, if you ever want another side job. Love ya!
Martha Bryan
Roswell, ga.
Rhoda says
Thank you, Martha!
Cheryl Ann says
One of the highlights of my year was meeting you and Mark at the Carbine house in Franklin TN. I have followed you for years and love the beautiful work you do to make a house a home. You deserve all the happiness!
Rhoda says
Thank you, Cheryl Ann, so nice to meet you there too!
Mary L says
Congratulations Rhoda, I have enjoyed your blog so much. Sharing your sweet family with us makes it all so real. Best of luck and happiness for you and Mark!
Jennifer says
I love your blog. It’s one of my favorites and I look forward to seeing your updates. Especially the ones about your sweet family.
Bobbi Duncan says
Rhoda, Barbara Moore beat me to the punch lol! I ditto what she wrote. I just love your down-to-earth blog as it feels like being with a “real” friend. This is not to say I don’t enjoy all the other aspects such as decorating and your clothing posts. One thing I love the most, perhaps, is how you share your family life–and you’re right about family; family is the glue that binds! Wishing you another great year and looking forward to every post.
Sandy says
Love reading your blog and so glad you’re not going to change your format or what you blog about…it’s very comforting to be invited into your home and your life for a little visit and see what’s going on in the home décor and fashion world. You make the reading interesting with little personal tidbits and suggestions. Best of luck to you and much happiness………
Dawn says
Loved reading this! God is so good. I’m so glad your dad is feeling so much better!
Ellen says
I have quit reading most blogs as so many have just become advertising (often for the same companies) and they start to look the same after a while. I have continued to read yours as it is what drew me to read blogs in the first place…sharing of real life, be it fashion or home decor or cooking or whatever. You do a great job of keeping a good balance of sponsored material and more personal posts. Thank you!
Rhoda says
Hi, Ellen, I know that the business side is a big part of this business and we all have to do it to some extent. I try so hard to keep that balance!
Teresa says
Rhoda,
Congratulations on your milestone blog anniversary and please don’t change a thing! You certainly had a blessed year with so many events and life changes. I know that some top bloggers have branched out with product lines, books etc.
Personally, I have found that they have lost some of their individualism and charm that got them where they are once they become more commercialized. I think you and your blog have just the right balance and mix of retail while maintaining your own style and individualism. Frankly, I don’t know how you do all you do now.
Wishing you another great year of happiness and success! BTW…Little Rose is just beautiful!
Rhoda says
Hi Teresa, thank you I appreciate that. You know, I just don’t have the energy for a whole lot more, so I have no desire to keep climbing that bloggy ladder.
Sue says
Oh Rhoda, it’s hard to believe 11 years of blogging. Your blog is the first blog I started following and the first I read everyday, so love you and your blog. Please don’t change anything. Congratulations and best wishes for many more years.
Rhoda says
Thank you, Sue, so appreciate that!
Pat Kuehn says
You were one if my 1st blogs to follow, almost from your beginning. Years back I benefitted greatly from your partnership with Shaw… and won a beautiful Shaw rug when I voted for you in a room decor competition! Still have it & love it today!!
Love the fashion aspect that you added…I am a few yrs older than you, but just because we are “maturing” doesn’t mean we cant stay current. Thanks for taking me along on your journey & sharing the many ways God is blessing you. Many blessings! ❤❤❤
Rhoda says
Hi, Pat, oh I’m so happy to hear you won that rug and how much you enjoy it.
Donna says
It is a joy and delight to read each blog entry you post ! I am one of those Baby Boomer women (also from Georgia—Covington, to be exact) you mentioned, and I find your decorating style refreshing and classic in a sea of neutrals that I see in other places. I am so happy for your success and for the fact that you aren’t afraid to share that your blessings come from God! I have read almost EVERY post you’ve made over the past 11 years, and wish for you many more happy years of blogging and sharing with your family!
Rhoda says
Thank you, Donna, we Boomers have to stick together. We are all aging and it’s not a bit of fun, but what alternative do we have? I’ll never be a neutral person, so you can count on me always having color in my world. And yes, I know where my blessings come from…the Lord has done it all!
Myra says
Congratulations, Rhoda, on another blogging anniversary!! I’m not sure when I first found your blog, but it must have been about at the beginning! We’ve been through a lot together, though you’ll never know what your blog has meant to me! So happy for you and Mark, thankful your father’s health has improved!!! I was very worried during that time. Keep up the good job, anxious to see more of your house as it progresses!!
Rhoda says
Thank you, Myra, I’m so glad that my blog has been inspirational for you, that’s what keeps me going and posting.
Tammy says
Conrats on your anniversary! I have been with you since Alabama, though I don’t comment much. I am so proud to see how much you’ve accomplished, especially through some rough times. You’re among my most favorite bloggers and I look forward to the next 11 years!
Rhoda says
Thank you, Tammy, yes I’ve been through some hardships from those AL days, but praise the Lord, He brought me out of that!
Linda says
I really enjoyed this re-cap & you sure had a wonderful year! The most wonderful part was your marriage! Your blog is just like I like it and I follow you every day. Your blog is my favorite and besides decorating, your family makes it so interesting. I really feel like I know you personally & I think that is important for a blogger. I hope you will continue blogging just the way you do it. I don’t comment very often but will start doing that more.
Rhoda says
Thank you Linda, you all are so sweet and supportive.
Cindy Brown says
That was a lovely post and I am just so happy for you! I look forward to your future posts about your home and family. I have close friends living in Acworth. It is a wonderful town and I know that you will continue to enjoy it. You never know, when visiting my friends I may look across Henry’s one day and see you! How exciting it would be to meet you in person!
Rhoda says
That would be fun, Cindy, so it you do see me out, please say hello. It gives me a thrill to get to meet you all too. We love our new little Town of Acworth and Henry’s is a new fave.
Brenda says
Love love your blog! Us baby boomers need you out there. I started reading you 10 years ago when I broke my femur in a car wreck, and I could not do anything except surf the web. You have stayed faithful to your faith and that is such a blessing. Even in those hard times He is with us. So happy on your marriage and new home. I live in Baton Rouge so see Lauren on the commercials. My mom will celebrate her 90th birthday on Friday. Keep doing what you do!!
Rhoda says
Wow, Brenda, you’ve been there with me a long time. And I love that so many of you see Lauren on her company commercials down there. She’s our little star! Happy Birthday to your mom, those are precious times.
Margaret says
Thank you for sharing the highlights of the last year. I think your blog was the first one I discovered and I
have been following you ever since that time. I like your decorating style and enjoy the family posts also.
Thanks again.
Rhoda says
Thank you Margaret!
JANICE says
What a year you’ve had – filled with many blessings! Keep doing WHAT you do and HOW you do it. It’s a wonderful feeling to love your job! I look forward to more house updates, as my house is quite similar in many ways.
Rhoda says
Thank you, Janice, that’s all I know how to do, so I’ll keep on at it!